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Topic: Synastry: Dating my... male self?
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cupcakes Newflake Posts: 4 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 05:11 PM
I met this guy while I was working and I was instantly attracted to him. It wasn't an intense sexual attraction, so I just thought it was because well... he's a very, very attractive guy in general. With all of his "balanced features" and the pretty charm he had going on, I suspected that he was a Libra. To my surprise, he was a Capricorn. He's actually 11 days older than me. That was far enough to leave me stunned when I found out our charts were quite similar. Then I looked at our synastry. Unknown birth time, sorry. =( I've seen other charts and the lines would look crazy. I'm still learning how to interpret these so I'm not really sure what this means. I only know about these aspects which I pulled from two different sites, I'm not sure how accurate the first one is. Sun in conjunction with Moon. Sun in conjunction with Saturn. Sun in conjunction with Uranus. Sun in conjunction with Neptune. Moon in trine with Saturn. Mercury in conjunction with Sun. Mercury in trine with Jupiter. Mercury in conjunction with Uranus. Mercury in conjunction with Neptune. Venus in conjunction with Mercury. Venus in conjunction with Mars. Mars in conjunction with Sun. Mars in conjunction with Mars. Mars in conjunction with Uranus. Moon in opposition with Venus. Venus in square with Jupiter. Aspect Orb/Value Mercury Conjunction Uranus 4.41 77 Jupiter Trine Sun 0.36 127 Jupiter Conjunction Jupiter 0.23 128 Jupiter Trine Uranus 0.12 67 Jupiter Trine Neptune 2.14 46 Saturn Sextile Venus 1.19 59 Saturn Conjunction Saturn 1.14 100 Uranus Conjunction Sun 0.11 175 Uranus Trine Jupiter 0.02 68 Uranus Conjunction Uranus 0.38 94 Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.49 77 Neptune Conjunction Sun 2.02 127 Neptune Trine Jupiter 2.15 46 Neptune Conjunction Uranus 2.51 67 Neptune Conjunction Neptune 0.24 85 Pluto Conjunction Pluto 0.16 78 I can tell we'd be amazing friends who can talk about philosophy, dreams, and goals forever, but what else can you pull from this? He's interested since he asked for my number. How can I help edge us a little further? IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3547 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2011 06:09 PM
The fate of this lies in how well you like and accept yourself, simple as that IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 435 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 27, 2011 07:51 PM
To be honest, I'm pretty sure I'd never want to. Conjunctions are great, but with that many, it'd be so intense. But if you like him, go for it! I'm sure it will be very interesting. IP: Logged |
cupcakes Newflake Posts: 4 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 27, 2011 09:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by blugrey: To be honest, I'm pretty sure I'd never want to. Conjunctions are great, but with that many, it'd be so intense. But if you like him, go for it! I'm sure it will be very interesting.
Thank you, guys. The only problem I see here is that we both have our Venus is Sagittarius. He also has his Mars & Mercury in Sagittarius as well. With this placing, I want someone I can talk to, but I also want someone to show me something new. I can see this working out if we approach life with the same attitude, which seems like the case. However, our lives have to be different so we can bring different aspects into our relationship. I definitely do need to get to know him better I'm just afraid that we might be ecstatic about having so much in common at first and then grow bored too quickly. I definitely want a significant other who is a pal that jokes and laugh with me but I think my Capricorn Mars (and Sun+Asc if that matters) wants a more passionate relationship. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3547 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2011 10:51 PM
I was romantically involved with someone born 2 wks before me, we prob had a lil too much in common, i like myself enough but it was a lil too much the same. Another one was neat, I met her through that astro site where you put in your data and email and then they contact you when your astro twin registers on the site. So her and I chatted for a bit online, and we had soooo much in common, and would chat a lot, but after awhile it felt sorta insular. She was interesting to get to know though. Another case where we had a lot or maybe too much in common, since differences cast more interest. I will say that with the first instance we were both love at first sight and blushed nonstop around each other, completely smitten.IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Saturn Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 28, 2011 01:46 AM
whaat astro site is it Lonake? where yu find yur twin and yu email and such?? im interested in this please ^^------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe IP: Logged |
StJake Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 28, 2011 02:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by cupcakes: ...Then I looked at our synastry. Unknown birth time, sorry. =(
Without an accurate birth-time, it's really a crap-shoot. Have you tried rectification? Next best bet would be to cast both your charts as unknown birth times. quote: He's interested since he asked for my number. How can I help edge us a little further?
??? What's wrong with just writing it down for him and saving him the trouble? Obviously you want him to have it... IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 247 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 03:22 AM
Alot of these orbs are way too wide, and without a birth time you can't count the houses or moon aspects cos moon moves like 14 degrees per day.IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 3547 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 03:31 AM
I don't remember the site exactly, but here's a few http://www.ecentral.com/astra/twin.html http://astrologix.de/twindata.htm It looked more technical so it was prob the 2nd one, tho it was a few yrs back and i don't remember. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Saturn Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 29, 2011 02:43 AM
thanks ^^------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe IP: Logged |