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Topic: Moon Opposite Venus In Synastry- Any Ideas?
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CosmicKarma360
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posted March 29, 2011 03:12 PM
  
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GrlyGirl20
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posted March 29, 2011 04:40 PM
Well Moon and Venus are actually considered "soft" planets (as in both feminine) so in theory any aspect between the two of them (even if negative) isn't as bad as say a Mars-Sun, Mars-Mars opposition (due to them being in the same gender. I.e.: Masculine) or even Mars-Moon (which is a Masculine planet paired with a feminine planet and in any aspect can be sexy…but in the long run is actually quite bad). Compared to these aspects it would be downright comfy. Any Moon Venus is typically great. I personally have never had Moon Opp Venus but have had Venus Opp Sun, or Venus Trine or Conjunct Moon. But from experience I say Venus/Moon aspects are insanely comfy and loving and while they may not point to intense sexual attraction they point to me just flat out loving the other person may it be emotionally (Moon) or physically (Venus). IP: Logged |
Nightingale
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posted March 29, 2011 04:45 PM
I think it adds a caring dimension to a couple, but is a sign of some mild incompatibility.------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted March 29, 2011 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl20:
Well Moon and Venus are actually considered "soft" planets (as in both feminine) so in theory any aspect between the two of them (even if negative) isn't as bad as say a Mars-Sun, Mars-Mars opposition (due to them being in the same gender. I.e.: Masculine) or even Mars-Moon (which is a Masculine planet paired with a feminine planet and in any aspect can be sexy…but in the long run is actually quite bad). Compared to these aspects it would be downright comfy. Any Moon Venus is typically great. I personally have never had Moon Opp Venus but have had Venus Opp Sun, or Venus Trine or Conjunct Moon. But from experience I say Venus/Moon aspects are insanely comfy and loving and while they may not point to intense sexual attraction they point to me just flat out loving the other person may it be emotionally (Moon) or physically (Venus).
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Please elaborate on Mars/Moon aspects.Thank you so much  ------------------
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CosmicKarma360
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posted March 29, 2011 05:28 PM
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Ami Anne
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posted March 29, 2011 05:29 PM
Trine is good.It would be the square or opposition which would not,I am quite sure.------------------
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CosmicKarma360
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posted March 29, 2011 05:35 PM
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GrlyGirl20
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posted March 29, 2011 06:09 PM
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Trine is good.It would be the square or opposition which would not,I am quite sure.
This is true. The Trine and Sextile would be better and are considered soft aspects. But the Conjunction/Square/Opposition are considered hard aspects and would prove to be too combative (again even the Conjunction would be combative and would be VERY hard in the long run especially on the Moon person) and in the end really difficult to deal with. Really for them to work out at all (again in the long run) in any hard aspect you have to have a LOT of nice aspects to over ride this (including something like Moon/Venus, Moon-Moon etc) and a general compatibility. While it does create sexual chemistry it doesn't actually point to actual compatibility in the long run and if you only have this aspect and other squares or oppositions it would prove to be a really hard relationship and your differences would be more obvious. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 29, 2011 06:22 PM
The opposition of Moon Venus is very very similar to the conjunction, the modes of relating are nicely balanced instead of being incredibly similar, except for that it's the same feel.IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted March 29, 2011 06:42 PM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 29, 2011 08:43 PM
I actually have this with a guy I like. But it's moon square venus.This is what I've gathered from the internet: What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is square with your partner’s Moon? Your romantic attraction for your partner and feelings of tenderness are hard to ignore but unfinished emotional issues regarding previous love relationships are putting you out of syncopation with his/her needs. If your partner’s Venus is square your Moon, (yes it is) your romantic partner has family or romantic issues to deal with before you will fully relate to one another as partners. My Moon square his Venus orb 1° 8’
You love each other very deeply and the attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can lead to misunderstandings. For example, the Venus person may be in a romantic mood at a given time while the Moon person is feeling friendly, but not romantic. The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently just won’t synchronize. You also easily hurt each other’s feelings, not realizing how much the other person loves and cherishes you. By being flexible and adaptable, and really trying to sympathize with each other, you can avoid these problems most of the time.
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Lonake
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posted March 30, 2011 04:13 AM
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Does Moon Opposite Venus create sexual attraction? If it's a soft aspect, then is it a mild kind of attraction?
It's a different kind of sexual attraction, as in, let me take care of you and make it all go away (via sex), cos you're merging lunar comfort and venusian eroticism (both feminine principles). Could be something like naked cuddling that leads to sex, or kissing while having sex, or playing nurturer as a means to flirt, taking bubble baths together. Things like that, think of what Cancer Venus would like to do and then sex it up. It's not really in your face like the others are, it just adds a component of affection if it 'is' a sexual relationship, barring other influences. The square has been sort of similar but mixed messages to get there, the opposition has been imo that once you realize you're not in the same boat but complementary, once you accept that then you can let the erotic nurturing energy flow, just don't try to make the other person feel and express in the same manner as you and you'll be fine, just respect and appreciate the differences, opposites complement.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 30, 2011 09:48 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
[b]Does Moon Opposite Venus create sexual attraction? If it's a soft aspect, then is it a mild kind of attraction?
It's a different kind of sexual attraction, as in, let me take care of you and make it all go away (via sex), cos you're merging lunar comfort and venusian eroticism (both feminine principles). Could be something like naked cuddling that leads to sex, or kissing while having sex, or playing nurturer as a means to flirt, taking bubble baths together. Things like that, think of what Cancer Venus would like to do and then sex it up. It's not really in your face like the others are, it just adds a component of affection if it 'is' a sexual relationship, barring other influences. The square has been sort of similar but mixed messages to get there, the opposition has been imo that once you realize you're not in the same boat but complementary, once you accept that then you can let the erotic nurturing energy flow, just don't try to make the other person feel and express in the same manner as you and you'll be fine, just respect and appreciate the differences, opposites complement.[/B][/QUOTE] Oh My Goodness
Lonake
That is expressed ,beautifully. If you are still reading,could you please express Moon trine Venus in a man's natal chart.
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newstar811
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posted March 30, 2011 10:41 AM
Paul and Linda McCartney had Moon Opp Venus.
His Venus in Taurus opp her Moon in Scorp. It seemed to work OK for them for 30 years. In their case in fixed signs it was probably binding. They didn't have *much* else that was obviously brilliant synastry. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted March 30, 2011 10:55 AM
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staborgi
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posted March 30, 2011 03:06 PM
Honestly, I kinda wanna disagree with the idea that this isn't all that bad of an aspect. in my experience it denotes wanting to take care of each other somehow, give each other attention, and be together somehow (even in friendships)- but almost compulsively. On top of that there's kind of a disconnect in relating- both want to share with each other- Moon in a caring nurturing way, Venus by sharing what it values- but they're coming from opposite places. The things the other values don't move the other. It kind of leads to a an anxious exchange in my experience. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 30, 2011 03:09 PM
I must be crazy cos I like the compulsiveness But then I have Moon conj Venus natally (and sq Pluto so you know I'm all over it with obsession, lol).Ami, lemme think about it and get back to you IP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted March 30, 2011 03:50 PM
Lonake- yeah, honestly sometimes I find synastry discussions so fruitless because it comes down to the natal and personal preferences always!! My Venus mostly interacts with outer planets in my chart (conj. Uranus and Saturn and semi-sextile Pluto) so all that mushy Moon stuff just makes me uncomfortable! lolIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 30, 2011 03:58 PM
Yeahhh, so does mine...venus quincunx neptune and saturn ....and square plutoAnd I say who wouldn't love the compulsiveness!! Lol..soooo. Yeahh. Weird, huh? IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted March 30, 2011 08:44 PM
I had this with someone recently. We also have pVenus conjunct pVenus, & allegedly Moon conjunct Moon.Moon in Sagittarius opposed Venus in Gemini. I'm moon. Strike One: Moon - You look about 30.
Venus - How old do you think I am?
Moon - 31
Venus - I'm 35. How old are you?
Moon - 30
Venus - Sike! I'm 26 Strike Two: Venus - (making sex jokes)
Moon - Stop that!
Venus - (continues making sex jokes)
Moon - Cut it out.
Venus - hehe hehe, you're too serious. Strike Three: Moon - (seeing red)
Venus - (tries to give Moon a hug)
Moon - (can't believed moon was just touched)
Moon - Get your &^%$*&^%$!!! ...we didn't speak for a year. Generally, I liked Venus's personality type, but the little things, must be the Gemini, just irritate me/Moon. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 31, 2011 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by staborgi:
Lonake- yeah, honestly sometimes I find synastry discussions so fruitless because it comes down to the natal and personal preferences always!! My Venus mostly interacts with outer planets in my chart (conj. Uranus and Saturn and semi-sextile Pluto) so all that mushy Moon stuff just makes me uncomfortable! lol
Venus to Uranus/Saturn is like double dose of cool/removed, depending on aspects/sign. You still like Moon stuff just as long as they're not traditional and too sentimental about it, right? Or no? What about Aqua Moons, are they good for you? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 31, 2011 02:10 AM
Hi Ami, Moon trine Venus in a man's natal, it really depends on the element. In general the women that turn him on are compatible in theory with the women that he wants to bond with, the way they both occur are compatible. Butttt there are a lot of differences even in signs that are trine, for example taurus to capricorn, taurus is a lot more comfortable and more natural with their sexuality. Are they both in Earth for him? I know you asked about him before I just can't remember the element. Can you link where you posted his chart and I'll take a look it there?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 31, 2011 02:13 AM
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Yeahhh, so does mine...venus quincunx neptune and saturn ....and square plutoAnd I say who wouldn't love the compulsiveness!! Lol..soooo. Yeahh. Weird, huh?
That's the Venus sq Pluto, right? I really think we're a twisted bunch, but if we weren't we'd be bored out of our skulls IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 31, 2011 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by staborgi:
Lonake- yeah, honestly sometimes I find synastry discussions so fruitless because it comes down to the natal and personal preferences always!! My Venus mostly interacts with outer planets in my chart (conj. Uranus and Saturn and semi-sextile Pluto) so all that mushy Moon stuff just makes me uncomfortable! lol
I have not really gone here, as far as looking at the natal first to see what energies the person is comfortable with.For me,I have no oppositions and no squares(just one generational one) *I* feel a square to my Sun or moon in synastry to such a degree, that the relationship with usually fail.
This could be male/female/platonic/romantic etc
What do you guys think? Oppositions such as Moon oppose Moon would be deal killers for romance but not friendship BUT I feel it strongly as a disconnect in the hearts.
I feel as if the person and I are two different zoo animals.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 31, 2011 02:39 PM
RE: Lonake, Ohhh yes. For me love cannot be, without compulsion. IP: Logged |
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