posted April 05, 2011 08:40 PM            

So the guy that I'm dating has Nep #squ #Mar in his natal....today I found out that I do too.

Here's the link on it: http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/marsneptuneaspects.html

So because of this our composite chart has the same aspect.

Two people told me that this aspect in a composite means that "it's unlikely he'll stay faithful" & "he's going to be unfaithful to you"

I'm wondering "Why wouldnt I be the one doing the cheating and not him?" What a male dominated world we live in huh?

Besides this bad aspect in our chart we have really good aspects in composite and synastry...even the Magi Astrolgy aspects that are said to lead to marriage...he also met me during his "Cinderella Time", go figure :

Since we share the same aspect in our natal chart "#Nep #squ #Mar" which causes our composite to have "Neptune Square Mars", I think this will end up cancelling out the "unfaithful" aspect in our tendencies. I also think it will cause a positive/exciting reaction instead of a negative/destructive reaction. If you've read the link...then you can see where I'm going with this next statement. Based on the way I feel about him and the energy that he gives off to me...we are the new fantasy that we're always chasing after once we get bored in other relationships. Our energy easily comes in sync when the "this relationship needs something new" factor shows up in the relationship because we innately have these tendencies. In other words...whatever stress we feel that would cause us to cheat would be something we naturally handle. Negative x Negative = Positive in math

I think the "#Nep #squ #Mar" aspect in a composite created from two totally different neptune and mars positions in our natal chart (or if he had the #Nep #squ #Mar in his natal chart only) would allow the "unfaithful" characteristic to manifest more easily, if at all. This would be more like Positive x Negative = Negative

Does anyone else agree? Or does someone else have another perspective?

posted April 06, 2011 02:16 AM            

if natal moon is in 12th house, and geting any aspect from 7th,5th ruler or Venus, you are more likely to cheat.

posted April 06, 2011 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
Who cares if he cheats on you?
I mean the real tragedy would be that you two are so distant you have no idea what's going on in his mind and have no idea who he is or what he wants. The real tragedy would be if he's a con man who leads you to believe one thing so he can use you while leading a life separately from you while hiding himself from you. You have to get to know him slowly so you can learn what kind of person he is and how the two of you communicate to see if you can be honest with each other.
Or whatever. I'm ticked the world at the moment, so maybe don't listen to me.

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True
You have to get to know people,slowly.It is the only way if you want something enduring,that is lol

posted April 06, 2011 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
lmao

omg I thought of the Mars sq Neptune aspect before I even read the thread, then "click" and it's right there at the top!

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Can I pick your brain about Mars sq Neptune.
What is the reasoning behind this being a "cheaters aspect"?
Mars is drive and Neptune would cloud his drive and his passion.
Would that be the loose reason?
Pardon the pun

posted April 06, 2011 08:10 AM            

There is a risk of psychosomatic illnesses. It can also bring problems with genital organs. These people like unusual sexual relationships. They have good impulses and drives. There is an also risk of overuse of alcohol and drugs. Advanced hallucinations or mental disillusions can occur in depressed moments. They can be really cheaty and so have risk of imprisonment.

posted April 06, 2011 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
In predictive astrology,<--------

if natal moon is in 12th house, and geting any aspect from 7th,5th ruler or Venus, you are more likely to cheat.

if natal Venus is in 12th house, it can be happen more likely also.

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posted April 06, 2011 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
I'd have to disagree, I believe there is a free will and people have a choice...whether or not they have a tendency to want to, they know what is right from wrong.

I have natal Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Jupiter, all in 12th, and Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aquarius, placements known to have a higher tendency to cheat, but I'm the most loyal person you'll ever meet.

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Ofc everything is about free will. But even in astrology has balancing system in itself.
Venus in taurus can make someone loyal despite of moon in 12th house. So it becomes balanced.

I have Sun,Venus, Mercury in sagittarus, moon in pisces, mars in gemini. See the goddess fickleness and "hunger for more relationships theme" on me? But NN is in capricorn, which gives me some loyalness.Not Enough

posted April 06, 2011 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
I think people tend to forget that out placement are the energies that we are given to work with. There may be placements that give people the urge to cheat but doesn't mean they will actually do it. We do have the choice to use our chart's energies in a negative or positive way.

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