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Geri
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posted April 05, 2011 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am new to here and I am sorry if I am a little bit of repeating myself to some previous post I did some time ago.

So basically I like that Cancer guy from my work. At the beginning (an year ago) when I started to have some feelings for him it was so hard to talk to him, I was so shy and it was almost impossible to talk so I just ignored him and then he kind of ignored me back.

Few months later I tried to talk to him about work and little by little we talked more and now we talk most of the time about work or sometimes not only about work. He is really kind, helpful, would always be around if there is a problem. He makes jokes too and he is a nice young man although sometimes he is moody and can be harsh to some people.

As probably with all my clumsy behaviour around him like dropping things, being nervous when he is around, shy, worried, then always addressing myself to him in work (I do not talk to the others much) and the way I talk to him, he figured out I like him I believe. I am almost sure he knows I like him as he could see that but I am just scared if I have made him uncomfortable as sometimes I indicate I like him more obvious with my attitude to him I guess.

Recently we talked a bit and he said that I am his favourite colleague and then I said the same to him. Then I told him another day that I am sorry I always ask him stuff but that I like to work with him as he is professional and he blushed and I felt shy too, he said thanks and I ran away. I am so worried now if I have put any pressure on him or anything as I do not want to embarrass him or myself in work.

I can feel he does not like me in that way, just as a colleague and judging from his behaviour I can tell he does not seem to be looking for a relationship as he seems he enjoys to have fun with his friends. I am also scared of commitment and I have other worries and concerns but I just like us working together and I enjoy that time when we joke or just work as a good team.

I am just worried now that I create a tension or anything, I am not sure though, as he seems kind of okay with that I like him or maybe he is just being a gentleman and remains kind and polite.

Any thoughts would be appreciated. I am Taurus by the way.

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popcorn
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posted April 07, 2011 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dont think som much about how you are only just be your self. Noone are perfect. Be a friend to him. It's never wrong to be friends.

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