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Topic: What aspect would cause a couple to have no clear definition of what they are
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carl
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posted April 09, 2011 02:38 AM
  
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Lonake
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posted April 09, 2011 02:54 AM
Maybe Moon sq Uranus, something Uranian about it, off and on, are we still together cos we had that talk where we were expressing how we felt, but then you made a funny face when you said it and then changed the subject to that weird joke and so i'm not sure, etc.I was thinking Neptune, but with Neptune you continue with something that turns out to be completely different than you had thought, but you don't know it until it's over. Hey now, if her Sun is at early Aries isn't t.Uranus going over it? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 09, 2011 03:26 AM
When I read it,I thought she was a Pisces sun.Isn't that come and go behavior where the person assumes the manner of a ghost typical for Pisces lol?------------------
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Lonake
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posted April 09, 2011 03:34 AM
Guilty here, but I think his gal is Aries, tho the bit about his Merc on her Sun didn't compute for me, maybe he meant trine?IP: Logged |
carl
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posted April 09, 2011 11:34 AM
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amowls**
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posted April 09, 2011 12:05 PM
Unaspected Sun in composite.IP: Logged |
lechien
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posted April 09, 2011 12:12 PM
THAT'S US, me and my *partner*!!!beside our synastry mainly consisting of squares, i don't know what the vagueness comes from. i'm curious to read the suggestions here. it from his side, though, i'm too Sagi for that.  IP: Logged |
carl
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posted April 09, 2011 12:31 PM
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amowls**
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posted April 09, 2011 12:39 PM
For me. Unaspected Sun in Composite means that the relationship has trouble with its identity. It's the opposite of what happens in a natal chart (where an unaspected Sun makes the Sun EXTRA strong for a native). I experienced this a few years ago and it was pretty heartbreaking. It also didn't help that there was a 6th house stellium (not a fan of planets in 6th in Composite charts).Natally I have Venus square Saturn and Uranus and I don't have trouble with defining relationships. IP: Logged |
Coffee
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posted April 09, 2011 12:45 PM
Pisces rising in the composite, or even a negative aspect from 1st ruler to Neptune, in the composite again. I think that would give a an unclear definition of the relationship. Not sure about what you have said, seems a bit different than the title suggests.Stupid question...
Have you put your foot down and asked outright? If no clear answer, that doesn't sound good. You can easily extract a clear answer if the question was clear enough. IP: Logged |
carl
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posted April 09, 2011 12:49 PM
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Coffee
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posted April 09, 2011 12:55 PM
Feels better to get it off your chest. Better out than in.IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted April 09, 2011 01:04 PM
I have experienced the Pisces Rising Composite before, the relationship wasn't defined, but definitely had more structure than the unaspected Sun one. With Pisces Rising, a lot of things were left unsaid, we would hurt each other unintentionally because we didn't know each other's expectations. We also had a 12th house stellium.Overall, the unaspected Sun relationship hurt a lot more than the Pisces Rising one. With Pisces Rising, we knew how the other person felt about the other even if we didn't verbalize it (I would say because of Sun conjunct Venus and Mars). Unaspected Sun, I had NO idea. NONE. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted April 09, 2011 01:11 PM
Man, Carl, Aries women like direct approaches. None of that wishy-washy "I'm not sure if I'm into you because you don't seem to be sure if you're into me". It drives us insane. Perhaps she seems undecided because you act undecided. Be a man, be direct. Say it upfront: Girl, melikes you and I want to date you. It's as simple as that. If she says yes, great, congrats. If she says no, at least you'll know.
Damn, I need to date fire signs. At least they tell you like it is. I really apreciate that. ------------------
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Coffee
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posted April 09, 2011 01:15 PM
Or just stick with what you are, fella. If your woman likes it like stated above and that ain't you, find someone else. It's sad when men and women are after an image of the perfect partner.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted April 09, 2011 01:17 PM
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Originally posted by carl:
If I put my foot down, it would feel as if I am forcing and/or rushing her, which is what I want to avoid. In that sense, she takes form the aries POV, and needs her space often as is. That is nothing new with all the aries I have ever known, even good friends. She just needs "me" time so I am trying to prove to her how patient I am too.
I have never seen any Scorpio be so lovingly PATIENT, other than my grandmother... whom I loved so much, my life just barely hobbled on after she passed away. Anyhow, Carl... you are really teaching this Aries about the versatility of Scorpio!!! IP: Logged |
carl
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posted April 09, 2011 01:37 PM
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Lonake
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posted April 10, 2011 05:10 AM
You do know that transiting Uranus is going over her Sun, righhhhtt? What house does it rule for her maybe that's the area that's changing for her right now.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 08:49 AM
Wow Lonake
What an insight
Let us know,Carl,dear.
I am following this from back in Personal Readings.
My heart goes out to you  ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
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carl
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posted April 10, 2011 10:32 AM
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maira
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posted April 10, 2011 03:25 PM
Nope, you should look at the house with Aquarius on the cusp  IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 10, 2011 03:27 PM
Sorry, I think lonake meant the house with Leo on the cusp, since it's the sun that's being hit, not the other way around. Damn mercury retrograde, grrrr! IP: Logged |
carl
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posted April 10, 2011 06:17 PM
Oi, I am confused. What can I do to figure this out?IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 10, 2011 06:27 PM
The Ascendant is the 1st house, say taurus. The second house is gemini in this case and so on. You should look for the house that starts with Leo.Or, better yet, post a chart IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 10, 2011 06:32 PM
We're all visual here, but if there are no interceptions, the 8th house should be ruled by the Sun. If Lonake meant the Uranus ruled house, it should be the second. Look up the meanings of these houses, probably issues around self worth, money and material possessions; if it's the 8th, death and rebirth (in a spiritual way), regeneration, all things plutonian.Hope this helps a bit! IP: Logged |
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