posted April 11, 2011 11:52 AM            

I was wondering if anyone could delve into Psyche & Eros with me. My boyfriend's Psyche and Eros are both in Virgo, whereas mine are in Aquarius and Cancer, respectively. According to the synastry chart I drew up on Astro.com, I think my Psych falls in his 10th house (also his IC) and my Eros falls in his third house. His Psyche & Eros are both in my 4th house which is also my IC (I'm not sure what that is either, but I mentioned it for good measure.)

Anyway, my question isn't so much to explain all of it, but more specifically what does it mean in terms of my action/behavior towards HIM if my Psyche and Eros are in those houses for him? If I was taking a stab at it I wonder if we would intuit each other's physical needs, or have a strong intuitive connection because of my Eros being in his 3rd house which I believe represents communications.

posted April 11, 2011 01:50 PM            

his Eros in: her Psyche in:
aries: virgo or scorpio
taurus: libra or sagittarius
gemini: scorpio or capricron
cancer: saggitarius or aquarius
leo: capricorn or pisces
virgo: aquarius or aries
libra: pisces or taurus
scorpio: aries or gemini
sagittarius: taurus or cancer
capricorn: gemini or leo
aquarius: cancer or virgo
pisces: leo or libra

MARRIED ALREADY!
Hello, you must be my husband! Wife? Whatever, this duo knows quick smart that they’re on or off. They either get it on from the start or neatly avoid each other. Another way of putting it is either there is no chemistry whatsoever between them or it is on from the literal second they see each other. If it’s an on situation they are so prone to skipping the usual courtship stage that it’s ludicrous. People can’t believe that these lovers haven’t known each other since child hood! They often even look similar. They are the couple most likely to nauseate others via an extreme public intimacy dynamic. Speech, gags and even sexual preferences seem like suddenly shared secrets. If one, the other, or both are accustomed to full-on tension between lovers, this relationship will freak them out at first. The comfort zoning is immense. Warning: if these two break up, they never really split up, you understand.

My question now for this is, if one party feels this way then surely the other does as well? There definitely WAS a lot of tension and I was always feeling it (I think due to my Moon trine Neptune aspect) but it took him SO LONG to ask me out I wasn't sure he was even interested! Is that typical behavior of a a Virgo Psyche?

her Eros in: his Psyche in:
aries: gemini or aquarius
taurus: cancer or pisces
gemini: leo or aries
cancer: virgo or taurus
leo: libra or gemini
virgo: scorpio or cancer
libra: sagittarius or leo
scorpio: capricorn or virgo
sagittarius: aquarius or libra
capricorn: pisces or scorpio
aquarius: aries or sagittarius
pisces: taurus or scorpio

DÉJÀ VU!
Love comes quickly as neither party in this magical pair-bonding can believe their luck. They are often introduced by mutual friends who seem to sense their extreme compatibility well before this couple gets it. Somehow, a bizarre factor seems to come between these two at first - there is always a challenge to overcome. Perhaps the strong presence of an ex-lover? Domineering or disapproving family? Total fear of succumbing to the passion? Whatever it may be. The couple either race off in different directions (yet never quite forgetting the feelings evoked by the other) or become much closer by joining to dissolve the love obstacle. Get between these two at your own peril. More than any other type of couple, they deeply admire one another and will do whatever it takes to protect their romance from toxic emotions or outside interference.