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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted April 13, 2011 02:49 AM - IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 07:53 AM Please add Nessus,Deja Bluegrey ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 07:55 AM Sun conjunct Uranus. His Chiron conjunct your Eros.I never saw that before lol ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 08:07 AM He has Eros conjunct Pluto.I never saw that before, either. What did that feel like or should I not ask He has a packed 3rd house.It overlays your 8th and 9th. His Sun,moon and NN are in your 8th. Which way does this work? Does HE activate your 8th house or do YOU bring 8th house matters to him? Can't remember lol ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
zanarkand112 Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Maryville, TN USA Registered: Jan 2010	posted April 13, 2011 08:24 AM The tradition view is that the eighth house person's view of the planet person is "fixed". The eight house person would interpret the actions of the planet person in eighth house matters. The planet person has eighth house "roles" to play, but has more freedom as to whether or not they want to play the part. But... the house person has already made assumptions that they will play that role whether the planet person chooses to or not. The planet person may actually be shocked that the eight house person views them in that way. Honesty though, I think with such a strong focus since the sun, moon, and north node is there in the eighth...it would be felt both ways. I had my Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Moon in a guy's seventh, with my moon conjunct his Descendant. I'll never truly know how he saw me, but I was just as focused on the whole partnership aspect of the relationship as he was, maybe more-so. I just know I was very focused on seventh house matters when thinking about him or relating to him. So I think it can go both ways when more than a single luminary is there in one house. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 08:32 AM Dear Zanakand I want to ask you this. I have MY Sun,moon,Merc and Venus in someone's 12th house? How would you say HE feels it? Thank you,Friend,for any help. ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
zanarkand112 Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Maryville, TN USA Registered: Jan 2010	posted April 13, 2011 09:05 AM The 12th house represents the subconscious, all things hidden, and the unknown. I like to think of the twelfth house as a blind spot on the side of a truck, where the is a warning that they cannot see you if you drive at a certain spot beside them in their mirror. It can be unsettling somewhat for both people but it doesn't have to be as long as both people are honest with each other. You have a desire to probe this man's thoughts and actions. Things that he might suppress or hide you seem to have easy access to or a way of finding the answers in a very sly way. You desire to have a sense on "oneness" with this person, as you want to have an automatic connection or maybe even unspoken bond you you both simultaneously know how the other is feeling or thinking. If this happens automatically, it could be potentially disturbing for both of you. He will view you as mystical and elusive. Maybe he finds you hard to pin down, and he doesn't know exactly what to think of you. He may feel cautious or vulnerable around you, seeing as how you are in his "blind spot". You have the power to transform his subconscious. He might change just by interacting with you, but have no clear idea how or why this happens. He may also like to be alone with you, away from a crowd in the peace and solitude with only your presence. Venus in the twelfth is also a sign of a clandestine love affair if a romantic relationship. Make sure that you don't become tucked away, hidden away from his family and friends if this becomes a romantic relationship. From cafeastrology.com, this has some info about sun in the twelth: our Sun in your partner's 12th House: This overlay can be a confusing one. There can be a general sense of mistrust that stems from misunderstanding. In some cases, you might be very fascinated with your partner, as if he or she marches to the beat of a different drummer. However, you may not "get" what he or she is all about, ultimately, and you should avoid finding irrational reasons to mistrust your partner as a result of this. Your actions will have a profound emotional impact on your partner, as you pull up many emotions in him or her. There may be a sense in your partner of having to give up something or to make sacrifices, as being together can bring up some level of pain or heartache, and possibly the need to be secret and private. The relationship can just as easily be very spiritually rewarding. IP: Logged
zanarkand112 Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Maryville, TN USA Registered: Jan 2010	posted April 13, 2011 09:11 AM Blugrey, I do not want to hijack your thread. I am not good at guessing where the aspects are, so is there a way you can post them? I can tell with such a strong eight house focus emotional and sexual manipulation are a huge possibility. Cold you also post the composite? Thanks. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 09:12 AM Thank you, Zanakard That is so awesome and so true lol ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
zanarkand112 Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Maryville, TN USA Registered: Jan 2010	posted April 13, 2011 09:12 AM You are welcome Ami. IP: Logged
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted April 13, 2011 11:21 AM - IP: Logged
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted April 13, 2011 11:41 AM - IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53187 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted April 13, 2011 11:46 AM Chiron conj the ASC in composite. Wouldn't that be the sign of a painful relationship ------------------ Life is lived in the sand box. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted April 13, 2011 12:21 PM Probably also that Saturn in the 7th.. IP: Logged

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