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Topic: mutual attraction or one sided?
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hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 09:55 PM
  
Hello, So in this synastry chart I have it shows my Venus is trine with his Sun at 5 degrees, and venus trine his Mars at 0'53 degrees. My sun is also trine his mars at 1'35 degrees. Then, his Mars is also trine my Venus at less than one degree (note: this is probably the same aspect, but I was told that if it's MY Venus/planet trining with one of his then that would only be one sided.... correct me if I'm wrong, I'm still learning.) Our Suns are trine as well. Does this indicate mutual sexual attraction?
--Also, is it a positive thing that my Moon, Mercury, and venus are in his 12th house? I thought 12th house stands for something like latent abilities or hidden talents.
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NickiG
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posted April 13, 2011 10:08 PM
can you post the synastry chart itself? sorry, i'm a visual person, lol------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted April 13, 2011 10:10 PM
If your personal planets are in his 12th house,YOU live in his subconscious.
You FEEL him. You KNOW him.
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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:16 PM
Ami Im gonna fight you on the 12th... LOL... The planet person "thinks" they know the person.. But they see what they want to see, sometimes good sometimes bad.. I guess other factors are to be taken into account... Some people cant handle activating their 12th house. I guess the signs plays a roll also...
The planet person opens up area's of the house persons life/personality that are deep inside... It can be unbearable yet mesmerizing at the same time..
I can be uncomfortable. I know it took me like 6 months to even get use to it... Im a fire gal, so activating that watery 12th and the emotions was a shock to my entire being.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 13, 2011 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ami Im gonna fight you on the 12th... LOL... The planet person "thinks" they know the person.. But they see what they want to see, sometimes good sometimes bad.. I guess other factors are to be taken into account... Some people cant handle activating their 12th house. I guess the signs plays a roll also...
The planet person opens up area's of the house persons life/personality that are deep inside... It can be unbearable yet mesmerizing at the same time..
I can be uncomfortable. I know it took me like 6 months to even get use to it... Im a fire gal, so activating that watery 12th and the emotions was a shock to my entire being..
What are you saying,Darling? lol ------------------
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hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 10:19 PM
@Aimee - So what does that mean in terms of him to me? How aware is he that I know him like this?The chart:  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 13, 2011 10:19 PM
Did someone activate YOUR 12th house? Was that what you meant,Lioness?------------------
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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Did someone activate YOUR 12th house? Was that what you meant,Lioness?
LOL!! AMI!!! Where the heck you been for the last year or so... Hellooooo... Yes Pisce has his Sun,Mer,Mars,SN,in my 12th IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted April 13, 2011 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
LOL!! AMI!!! Where the heck you been for the last year or so... Hellooooo... Yes Pisce has his Sun,Mer,Mars,SN,in my 12th
I am SORRY Lioness. I am out of it ,tonight.
I am feeling very dense lol
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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:30 PM
OO no.. They have 12th house synastry AND moon/pluto also! Is his birth time correct??? IDK I think with that Uranus/Moon he's gonna run.. I dont think he will like that.. She will chase him even more with all that Aries... LOL IP: Logged |
hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 10:34 PM
SEE, I don't know his birth time... ugh! I used midnight because that's what I was told to do. Plus, the descriptions seem more accurate than if I used 12 noon, so I figured it's close... :/I hate that Moon/Pluto aspect too.... he might be good at hiding it with his Mercury in Cancer but I know when he's just being stubborn and it's over the most ridiculous things! IP: Logged |
hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 10:36 PM
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IDK I think with that Uranus/Moon he's gonna run.. I dont think he will like that.. She will chase him even more with all that Aries... LOL [/B]
Why wouldn't he like it, what do you mean? It's true, I do chase him and unabashedly so which is surprising to me as I have been very timid about that over the past several years.
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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:38 PM
then his ASC/Moon/houses could be off.. So you might not have your planets in his 12th.. Could be a good thing.. IP: Logged |
hannarama
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 10:44 PM
It's either between a Libra and Taurus rising :/ I've noticed he does tend to agree with whatever the popular opinion is, and hates HATES confrontation or conflict. I know it's not as concrete but going off intuition I'd bet he had a Libra rising. Though the houses still are a mystery I suppose.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by hannarama:
It's either between a Libra and Taurus rising :/ I've noticed he does tend to agree with whatever the popular opinion is, and hates HATES confrontation or conflict. I know it's not as concrete but going off intuition I'd bet he had a Libra rising. Though the houses still are a mystery I suppose.
Well Im a leo also, I dont like confrontation either. Im a Pisces Asc. I think its my Saturn in H3 though...
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hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 10:49 PM
Huh! That's very interesting to hear because all the books paint Leos as loving drama so you'd think they wouldn't be afraid of confrontation. Hmm.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 13, 2011 10:50 PM
You can kinda nix the 12th house idea w/out birth time..My opinion is that's it's a strong grand trine in there and that yes there would be mutual attraction on some level.
He definitely has Venus sq PLuto, which pulls in your Moon for a t-square, that is an indicator of attraction, and then his Mars to your Sun/Venus. An aspect of frustration is the Mars opposed Saturn, your Mars, so you may feel like he puts his foot down unnecessarily on some matters which stifles you, he may seem to be controlling to you, and he may see you as rash and undisciplined. His Uranus on your Dsc can mean some kind of love at first sight experience on your part, something like you see him always changing and you want to delve in and figure him out, at the very least you find him fascinating, when it's coupled with other attraction aspects like you see elsewhere. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 13, 2011 10:52 PM
Other factors are to be taken into acct... Not every Leo will be the same... Im introverted and very routine.. I dont like confrontation, but catch me on the wrong day.. I will go off... Most of the time, I feel its not worth my time or effort though.. I just ignore it and move on.. Huh AMI??? lol
I hate drama... OMG I try to stay as far away from it as possible... Only yes its attracted to me... IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 13, 2011 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by hannarama:
I know it's not as concrete but going off intuition I'd bet he had a Libra rising.
It's kind of a myth..Libra Asc likes fiery individuals, which includes confrontations, they tend to thrive on passionate relationships.It would be more the Aries and Scorp Asc's that search for peace and calm tranquil partners for balance. If you feel very comfortable going after him and find him quite attractive, and I mean much more comfortable than normal, then I would wager that your Sun/Venus or Mars on his Asc is a possibility.
Sun and Mars on Asc gives added confidence. IP: Logged |
hannarama
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 13, 2011 11:03 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
You can kinda nix the 12th house idea w/out birth time..
So noted, not a big disappointment if I don't know what I'm missing right? Lol. quote:
He definitely has Venus sq PLuto, which pulls in your Moon for a t-square, that is an indicator of attraction, and then his Mars to your Sun/Venus.
What's a T-square? I didn't know squares could represent attraction! quote:
An aspect of frustration is the Mars opposed Saturn, your Mars, so you may feel like he puts his foot down unnecessarily on some matters which stifles you, he may seem to be controlling to you, and he may see you as rash and undisciplined.
I haven't seen that side yet... earlier someone said him having Mercury in Cancer would make him Cancerian and so far that seems true. He's indirect in the way he tells my best friend I'm really pretty, funny, cool, and smart but he's NEVER complimented me directly ONCE. To me, that's no big deal even as a friend, people need to hear nice things you know? I don't get why he tells her and then acts detached towards me. quote:
His Uranus on your Dsc can mean some kind of love at first sight experience on your part, something like you see him always changing and you want to delve in and figure him out, at the very least you find him fascinating, when it's coupled with other attraction aspects like you see elsewhere.
That's very true, I experienced that but came to my senses. He's only human after all. What about the Psyche and Eros? Anything significant there? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 13, 2011 11:33 PM
T-square is he has a natal Venus sq Pluto, and your Moon plugs into it and if you put it all together it makes a red triangle.
Venus/Moon/Pluto = deep nurturing, fear of abandonment and loss, putting obstacles in the way that makes the other person have to pass them to prove that they want to be with you, sexual healing, care and concern. It merges impulses that want to love and nurture with an impulse that wants power, depth, to possess, and to have intense experiences.I wonder if you have complimented him directly?
Anyway he has Venus sq Pluto, which like above may put obstacles in the way that the other (you) would have to cross before they can trust you. Venus/Pluto people also loooove the sexual undertones in getting to know someone they find attractive. They wanna gaze deep in your eyes and think up sexual fantasies and play around with words and create this mystery around the interaction they have with you. They sooo get off on it. They have a talent for making people feel as if they're the only person that matters, as if everyone else has suddenly disappeared. And thus they like intense people, and you fit in with your Moon opp Pluto, however, you have all the Aries in the 11th which is not really playing into that mood for him, that's the part of you that is upfront and thinks "just say it already." So you 2 have the fire grand trine business, and then the deep sexy Pluto stuff happening (his Mars is also sq your Pluto).
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Other people know a lot about the asteroids, they work with them a lot, but I tend to just stick to the basic chart. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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From: edmond,oklahoma, united states
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posted April 13, 2011 11:44 PM
You know.. his last girlfriend was a Scorpio, and he gets along really well my Scorpio best friend. Maybe he does have Scorpio rising? And I have, I've told him how funny he is. You know, something simple. I'm not expecting him to kiss up to me or anything like that, certainly not, I just don't understand why I hear all of this from my best friend and not him if that's what he thinks. So if you were to put a label on that chart, would it look like a friendship to you? Or friendship with benefits? With all the aspects to Uranus I would think it's too unstable to be something serious. Like, the feelings run hot and cold? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 13, 2011 11:53 PM
I gotta say that the Sun/Venus/Mars conj in Leo is pretty over the top. They know they're attractive/desirable and they can let the attention go to their heads. His Leo Sun is at his Venus/Mars midpoint so if you want him you gotta give him attn. That's my experience. I also think with the Venus in Leo, and the Venus conj Sun, the woman he's with has got to make him look good. With the square to Pluto she has to be someone that he thinks others would find sexy and desirable. You both have Venus conj Sun so you could vibe on this and get it, you both prob enjoy being liked by others and like to make good impressions on people. Venus/Sun people I've known need to be liked and would not do anything to lose someone's favor if that person was acting in a respectful way to them. Disrespect is something different, but they are generally popular in one way or another. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 13, 2011 11:59 PM
I dunno, the Scorpios could just be the work of his Venus/Pluto. It's a possibility.Uranus doesn't have to mean unstable. Just means the relationship will not really flourish under a traditional relationship structure. Typically it needs an outlet. It depends, if you two are an odd couple then that qualifies, married but living separately, dating long distance, things like this aren't traditional. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 14, 2011 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
I wonder if you have complimented him directly?
Anyway he has Venus sq Pluto, which like above may put obstacles in the way that the other (you) would have to cross before they can trust you. Venus/Pluto people also loooove the sexual undertones in getting to know someone they find attractive. They wanna gaze deep in your eyes and think up sexual fantasies and play around with words and create this mystery around the interaction they have with you. They sooo get off on it. They have a talent for making people feel as if they're the only person that matters, as if everyone else has suddenly disappeared.
Batting eyes...
I like this interpretation. IP: Logged |
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