posted November 19, 2014 02:56 AM            

My SO has Mars in Libra and it's directly conjunct my Sun. We are very turned on by each other. But this alone wouldn't be enough for me... the only reason I think we are so compatible is because he is a Scorpio Sun/Venus/Mercury and has his Moon in the 8th. So there's a little much needed 'spice' behind the Mars in Libra. Mars in Libra on its own is great for being charming and romantic but I can see how this planet, alone, without anything else intense to back it, will not create a guy who is very intense or 'raw', as in wildly passionate, in bed. Sex will be too cerebral.

I dated a guy with Mars in Aries not too long ago. HATED it. His Mars directly opposed my Sun and we argued about everything, well...under the Sun. MY Sun. Lol. Everything I said and did seemed to bother or annoy him at some point. Sex was horrendous. He was sporting some impressive...equipment [haha] but he had no idea how to use it properly! Selfish, hurried and frustrated if I didn't finish, and practically on demand. RIDICULOUS!

posted November 19, 2014 09:01 AM              

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:

My first fling had Mars in Virgo. He was boring, boring, boring. Sex was unimaginative though he was always worried about if I felt good or not, but he lacked intuition and never knew how to make me feel good. But he made consistent attempts to make me feel good, even though he never quite connected with me. He was patient. We had Mars conjunct Moon. We actually enjoyed really good foreplay, but the sex was a bore.

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posted November 19, 2014 09:23 AM            

My ex-husband had Pisces Mars, really romantic but I prefer a fire mars.

It all depends on how Mars is aspected too.

posted November 19, 2014 10:53 AM              

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Originally posted by orocairion:
With some of the stuff I've read in this thread, having Mars in Scorpio conj Pluto and Sextile Neptune should make one heck of a lover, lol.

But I don't really feel that way at all

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Why not?

posted November 19, 2014 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
@SS- Dawg, I'm dying at your post

That Mars in Aries doe

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LMAOOOO thank you babe hahaha

Dude, I can't stand Mars in Aries! They say opposites attract but as you're well aware, that relationship caused me nothing but BS. It got to the point where we would argue about /what kind of hotpockets to buy/. I wish I were joking.

posted November 19, 2014 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Why not?

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I don't know, it just doesn't seem that way to me. You'd think if things were that good, people would ask for an encore, lol

posted November 23, 2014 10:55 AM              

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Originally posted by orocairion:
I don't know, it just doesn't seem that way to me. You'd think if things were that good, people would ask for an encore, lol

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Aww! Well I do hope you're not going to give up the fight, for the sake of many women out there. Maybe other factors were at play, sexual compatibility is a tough thing to fine tune, especially when you analyze it too much.

My first was Scorpio Mars. One of my best decisions. Not that it was perfect, it wasn't, and we had to persevere quite a bit to get it to an acceptable level.. He had issues, I had issues.. But it was the most emotional sex I ever had!

My Taurus Venus apparently likes oppositions.

EDIT: Ok, got curious and found your chart. I think I know why you feel that way and it's not your Mars. I don't want to derail the thread, so if this isn't too stalkerish odd for you, give me a shout out in Hearth and Home and I can tell you my opinion. Or email me if it's too personal.

I really don't want people being sexually unfulfilled out there.

posted November 23, 2014 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Earth mars.

Mars in virgo are pleasers, they get off making you feel good. But there is odd combination of shy yet aggressive.

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Goodness. I've met a most interesting creature with MiV.

posted November 23, 2014 08:35 PM            

mine had sun,venus,mars in scorpio; too much of it maybe makes it less appealing.

I have Venus in Cap, Mars in Sag, Moon in Gem

posted November 23, 2014 08:37 PM            

mine had sun,venus,mars in scorpio; too much of it maybe makes it less appealing.

I have Venus in Cap, Mars in Sag, Moon in Gem

posted November 24, 2014 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Even though I have Venus - Pluto square; my experience with Mars in Scorpio man... rough sex, control freak, very manipulative, power struggles.. oh so tiring... loyalty ? nooo they see sex in everything. your friends, your friends's friends...

mine had sun,venus,mars in scorpio; too much of it maybe makes it less appealing.

I have Venus in Cap, Mars in Sag, Moon in Gem

so far Mars in Aries was the best.

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posted November 24, 2014 10:12 PM            

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Originally posted by deptic:
Are we related? Sis? is that you?

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posted November 24, 2014 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by deptic:
Are we related? Sis? is that you?

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posted November 24, 2014 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by deptic:
Are we related? Sis? is that you?

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