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Topic: When people dont get along?
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Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:10 PM
  
There is this one girl at workShe hasnt done anything to me specific.. I just dont like her at all.. She doesnt like me either... We agree we dont like each other.. LOL I feel that she wastes time, she doesnt take responsibility for her own actions. She comes up with excuses to to justify her actions... I feel she has things to learn about taking responsibility...
She told me god will strike you down!! I reaction... He already did, not even him can knock me down!! Ok so I was super curious to see what her placements are.. What was it in our synastry that makes me feel like this... Why should I even care??? I figured we would have some serious pluto going on.. But not really... So I got everything expect her time (of course)
What hit me right off the bat was My Chiron exactly conjuncts her Mars... Prob why I feel she has things to learn about her actions...
So when someone hits your Chiron do you think, you feel you have to teach them something? Some sort of lesson??
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Betty Boop
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posted April 15, 2011 09:18 PM
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feel that she wastes time, she doesnt take responsibility for her own actions. She comes up with excuses to to justify her actions... I feel she has things to learn about taking responsibility...
I really don't know about Chiron, because I just don't find it as important as the planets, but many astrologers like using it. What you said sounds SO much like a Saturn aspect. Then again my Saturn is opposite my Chiron - so anything on my Chiron will also be in aspect to my Saturn. I'm thinking maybe you have Saturn conjunct/opposite/square a personal planet of hers... or her AC? Do you have her AC? :edit: Oh you don't... Nvm! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:32 PM
Ok I checked Saturn.. We are only a few months apart..
Her Saturn sq my Mars
her Saturn trine my pluto
her saturn opps my neptune (out of sign) My Saturn trine her Uranus
my Saturn sextiles her Mars thats it... No other saturn aspects..
Her Saturn in my H3 (mine in my h3)
Her Sun is conjunct my NN... out of sign but 4 orbs
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Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 09:37 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
So when someone hits your Chiron do you think, you feel you have to teach them something? Some sort of lesson??
Nope, I feel like the vulnerable one in the equation.Maybe it's some crazy Saturn, that's an option..
Saturn says boo on others not staying on task.
"how dare they"
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Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 09:39 PM
Saturn sq Mars possiblyIP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:39 PM
Maybe my saturn is in her 6th?? Maybe thats why I feel like that.. My saturn is at 18Gem.. that would give her a Cap Asc??? IDK.... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 15, 2011 09:43 PM
Chiron is a total screw ball.If it has a screw ball feel, it is Chiron ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 09:45 PM
Whats the orb of the Mars aspect..IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Saturn sq Mars possibly
she is the Saturn on this one.. Would I still feel she needs to learn about her actions.
But she really HATES me.. Way more than me... LOL.... I just feel she has to stop making excuses and own up..
I hold her accountable for her actions... She wants god to strike me down... I wouldnt be surprised if she has a Voodoo doll on me...
Again... Im ok if she takes responsibility for having it and not deny it... ROFL!!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 15, 2011 09:48 PM
Try to get what it feels like,Lioness ,so you can recognize it,next time you see it coming ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Chiron is a total screw ball.If it has a screw ball feel, it is Chiron
You have something there.
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Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Try to get what it feels like,Lioness ,so you can recognize it,next time you see it coming
Welll See AMi.. I dont want to sound bad... But it really doesnt bother me... Thats the way I see it... She doesnt like it... Im not at work to make friends or be licked or accepted.. SOOOOOO... IDK if I sound mean but it doesnt bother me the way it bothers her.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 09:55 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Whats the orb of the Mars aspect..
Her Saturn at 29Taur
My Mars at 26Leo My Saturn at 18Gem
Her mars at 16Aries My chiron at 17Aries/ Her mars at 16Aries
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Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
she is the Saturn on this one.. Would I still feel she needs to learn about her actions.
But she really HATES me.. Way more than me... LOL.... I just feel she has to stop making excuses and own up..
I hold her accountable for her actions... She wants god to strike me down... I wouldnt be surprised if she has a Voodoo doll on me...
Again... Im ok if she takes responsibility for having it and not deny it... ROFL!!!
Yea Saturn is oppressive to the energy of Mars, Mars feels like Saturn is trying to control them and get them to act in a certain way.She should be on one of those Office sitcoms, sounds funny. Wonder what her Saturn is doing in the natal..? Pluto to me is more about hate and you have Venus/Pluto right, what is that doing to her chart?
Or you could just post the synastry. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 10:03 PM
Ok she is on the inside...  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 15, 2011 10:36 PM
Quickly looking, I just see her strange natal mars mercury uranus t squre. I wouldn't take it personally, she prob has some mental issues with all the crazy religious talk.
It's kind of reminiscent of the Venus in Pisces sq Neptune in Sadge, maybe she feels some sort of rivalry with you..that's common for Venus/Pluto women to encounter.
So I still just see her bring her merc mars to you, and then the Mars/Saturn sq.
She has Venus sq Saturn which is somewhat insecure, your Venus is squaring her Pluto, I wonder if she thinks you're some kinda hussy and is venting some jealousy there? That plays into the Saturn squaring your Mars.
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I feel that she wastes time, she doesnt take responsibility for her own actions. She comes up with excuses to to justify her actions... I feel she has things to learn about taking responsibility...
She has Venus in Pisces in your 12th and it's sq Neptune.I'd be interested to see what others have to say.
I don't know much about Chiron in synastry, except that I don't like the conj. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 15, 2011 11:56 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
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It's kind of reminiscent of the Venus in Pisces sq Neptune in Sadge, maybe she feels some sort of rivalry with you..that's common for Venus/Pluto women to encounter
Whats Sadge??? Wait! What??? Really is that why I have problems with women??? I thought venus/pluto was more about my love relationships...
Yeah alot of women dont like me... OMG cool!! An Answer to "something"
You are so awesome.. Maybe thats why she doesnt really have an effect so much on me?? Im just use to it.. I just ignore people like this.. She was just terminated at work.. She seems to try to point the blame on me... I really have nothing to do with it.. She cursed me because I dont know her medical condition.. I have actually talked to Pisces about her.. He also said OMG I cant stand "that girl" He told me she bugs the hell out of me... I check their synastry, his moon opps her Saturn... He told me, something about her gives me the hibbie's... LOL
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Lonake
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posted April 16, 2011 04:30 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
[B] Whats Sadge???
Short form Sagittarius
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Wait! What??? Really is that why I have problems with women???
Yea, it's kind of a classic marker for that.
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I thought venus/pluto was more about my love relationships...
Yeah alot of women dont like me
It relates to relations yep that's Venus. Venus is also about women, but not the mother, it's the girlfriend, the flirt, etc., Venus in general. Pluto added in a square just means you're sorta sexy (ok, sexier than avg) and other women feel...how do i say..they cling to their man when you're around. You evoke gut sexual responses in men and in women a bit o' "i wish i had what she had but i'm just gonna hate her for it instead." It draws attention, definitely, even if you think you don't, you do, but take the orb into account as well, tighter orbs and major aspects work the best, imo. The only women who you'll typically get on with are those who feel comfortable in their feminine sexuality, the rest who don't will likely feel threatened. if you sense catty weirdos just stay away cos they're gonna wanna get one up on you, stay with confident women and you'll be OK. The aspect is definitely an attention getter, sorry, whether you like it or not. You could try to dress differently or change your demeanor but no dice. This is prob why you liked the Moon/Pluto with Pisces. Venus/Pluto can also get stuckkkk on relationships, that one great love who the rest pale in comparison to, sometimes it's just a matter of dating whoever reminded you of that passionate relationship you once had, but cos you can't have him anymore you search for the next best thing to him in all the rest. This is what I know from talking to Venus/Pluto women, even a gal with the trine. Not saying it's true for you, just another seemingly common thing with this aspect. Venus/Pluto tends to either be the one who is obsessed, or attracts those who are obsessed with them. Venus/Scorpio undertones to it, except Pluto is deeper than Scorpio, outer planet energy is stronger than just the sign associated. So you're typically gonna go through deeper experiences than the typical Venus in Scorpio whose Venus isn't strongly aspected to Pluto.
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She was just terminated at work..
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VenusDiSirius
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posted April 16, 2011 06:50 AM
god will strike you down? That's sad... Distance urself Lioness from her,u can't anticipate what she'd do next,and in any case,it wouldn't be good.
Off topic,what happened to confetti idea??? or that work only in movies??IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 16, 2011 12:01 PM
One thing I can say is that IF you have problems with someone,the chart will show you why lol------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Lioness
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posted April 16, 2011 06:50 PM
@LonakeThank YOU!!! You answered so many questions... IP: Logged |
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