posted April 19, 2011 12:19 AM            

First, his Psyche in Virgo in his 4th house, is square my Asc. in Gemini in the 5th (borderline 6th) house. I got it hammered into my head that squares are not to be feared, but accepted because they are what make things interesting. I also know how Psyche is basically our soul... thus, am I right in saying he finds it hard to pin me down or put me in any category? Maybe that was a far jump, but I gave it a shot.

Second, his Juno in Pisces is conjunct with my MC in Scorpio... what does that entail?

posted April 19, 2011 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
Ok, so scratch the above questions.

Is having Eros Cancer in the 1st house in opposition with Capricorn ascendant, *as well as* Psyche Aquarius in the 8th house square with an MC in Scorpio, in Synastry, hot or NOT aspects? They're both tight orbs under 4 degrees.

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When looking at asteroids you use tighter orbs. Some people would say a max of 1 or 2 at the most...

I think Eros/Pschye is not an energy you really feel or the other person feels.. Its what you personally desire. Its deep inside of your self... You dont express the energy to the other person. Its just who you are.

Example I have Eros in Pisces... I want that deep romantic love, that you fantasize about as a little girl... Only when you grow up, you know love isnt that way..
But for me I so desire it.. I want the fantasy story behind the love..

Ask any one here, Pisces is my soft spot.. LOL

Only my psyche is in Virgo the opposite of Pisces... So my love is not reality. I know its a fantasy.. I feel that it doesn't really exists..

posted April 20, 2011 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
When looking at asteroids you use tighter orbs. Some people would say a max of 1 or 2 at the most...

I think Eros/Pschye is not an energy you really feel or the other person feels.. Its what you personally desire. Its deep inside of your self... You dont express the energy to the other person. Its just who you are.

Example I have Eros in Pisces... I want that deep romantic love, that you fantasize about as a little girl... Only when you grow up, you know love isnt that way..
But for me I so desire it.. I want the fantasy story behind the love..

Ask any one here, Pisces is my soft spot.. LOL

Only my psyche is in Virgo the opposite of Pisces... So my love is not reality. I know its a fantasy.. I feel that it doesn't really exists..

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I can relate to that, I mean I have Eros Cancer after all. If I took the time to get in touch with my emotions instead of what I lust after, I envision that relationship of always being together and knowing every little detail about one another.

I don't remember exactly but am pretty certain his eros opposition to my MC (or did I say my eros opposite his MC?) is under 1 degree. Is that hideous or no? Is it latent until we are in a romantic relationship or does it still manifest regardless of the rapport between two people?

posted April 20, 2011 02:05 PM            

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Also mine with Sun/Eros conjunct in the 12th
He has Sun/Eros conjunct in Pisces.

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Now I think about it;
This (probably) must have thrown us both in about the same dark corner/circle of 'sexual power over others'.
He has this 'friend' he's constantly in debt with while this 'man' - married, two children and mainly older & uglier than him - simply continues to lend/give him money, again again & again.. (his wife may not know).. there seems to be no end to this dependence and in the meantime it's also keeping up his addictions.
Guess what.. this man has a lot of money and is deeply in love/lust with him is what I recently discovered (a misgiving I already had) .. so well yes, this is a very complex psychological and likely even dangerous situation in which the man is lusting after the power & him to keep him 'his'..
To me it's pretty recognizable since I've been in the same sort of situations in my life although maybe less heavy than this one.