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RMChex
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posted April 20, 2011 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RMChex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Howdy!

Wondering if you could change one thing about yourself, literally only one, what would it be? Is that something there, because of your natal chart?

For example, do you hate being so stubborn? Do you blame a planet or aspect of Taurus in your natal chart? Or do you wish you were more feminine and girly? etc.

Just wondering how happy we all are with ourselves, or if there is just something in an ideal world you'd change?

Rachel x

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Joey123k
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posted April 20, 2011 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmmm i really think i will change my slow and steady wins the race concept..im always slowly progressing towards my goal

i think this has something to do with my mars in taurus..i think

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letram
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posted April 20, 2011 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmm lots of things -

a Phobia i have,

being too nice, aka being a doormat, which si a real shame because on the flipside deep down im quite a selfish person who, as far as concerns go, would happily steam roll many people into doormats and consider his own needs or wishes first. but unfortunately, i feel afraid to "be myself" in that regard.

being anxious/self conscious.

needing experience first to feel i can do something.

being cold and reserved in feelings

having confidence that is too elastic.

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blugrey
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posted April 20, 2011 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Appearance only. Everything else I can deal with, even though it sucks sometimes. I'd just like to be EVEN MORE gorgeous than I already am.

That's probably my Jupiter conjunct Venus in the 2nd.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 20, 2011 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I would like to be comfortable with my Pluto/Scorpio energy.

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Yrone
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posted April 20, 2011 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yrone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to have more patience. But as a close second would come a less fiery inner child

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Lucia23
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posted April 20, 2011 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to have a rare and dazzling power to bring whatever I wanted into being.

(I think it is my Moon-Saturn conjunction that makes me feel I have trouble fulfilling myself.)

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racole12
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posted April 20, 2011 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by letram:
hmm lots of things -

a Phobia i have,

being too nice, aka being a doormat, which si a real shame because on the flipside deep down im quite a selfish person who, as far as concerns go, would happily steam roll many people into doormats and consider his own needs or wishes first. but unfortunately, i feel afraid to "be myself" in that regard.

being anxious/self conscious.

needing experience first to feel i can do something.

being cold and reserved in feelings

having confidence that is too elastic.


I'm the same... this is what I would love to change about me.

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mochai
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posted April 20, 2011 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mochai     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd be spiritually enlightened and get out of this place.

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starfox
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posted April 20, 2011 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfox     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To be more outgoing and less shy.

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RMChex
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posted April 21, 2011 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RMChex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for replying

Really interesting answers... Do you think there's any way we could bring about the changes we want?

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Yrone
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posted April 21, 2011 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yrone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am working on it

It's going sloooowly, but I noticed that it is step by step getting easier to calm down the tempers and recognize when they flare because of some weirdo bruised ego issues.

So yes, I think you can change some things about yourself, but at least for me I had to realize that that kind of change certainly doesn't come over night and you have to be vigilant and critical about yourself without getting into negativity about yourself. Well at least this is true for me so far.

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posted April 21, 2011 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anglerfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to change my Venus cj Saturn energy.

I would actually like to have self confidence and love myself one day

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bonadea33
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posted April 21, 2011 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bonadea33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would "clear" my 6th and 12th house: I don't need planets there.

I am stubborn with my Sun in Taurus.
My Sun has square with Mars in Leo: I don't allow to anybody to play with me. This aspect gives strong women. No games at all!

As I like my eyes (the first on other person I look are their eyes), but the pains I have, change even them: I want my natural eyes back.

My Moon should be in some other sign and not in Pisces: too emotional, too sensitive, sometimes I cry for simple nothing.

B.

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esheep123
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posted April 21, 2011 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Cap rising. All of it.

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MoonWitch
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posted April 21, 2011 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My issues are mostly physical. If I were hot then I think some areas in life would be a lot easier.

Personality wise - I wish I were more outgoing. I tend to be on the shy side.

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Rogue Guru
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posted April 21, 2011 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rogue Guru     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I would change would not be a character trait, but a life condition: I'd have gotten the martial arts lessons I've wanted since I was eight years old.

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blugrey
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posted April 21, 2011 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MoonWitch:
My issues are mostly physical. If I were hot then I think some areas in life would be a lot easier.

Personality wise - I wish I were more outgoing. I tend to be on the shy side.


Yeah I agree. Life is much easier when you are super pretty or handsome. I don't think that's the only standard, but it certainly helps as sad as that is.

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TrueTaurus
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posted April 21, 2011 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aya_and_baby
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posted April 21, 2011 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd get rid of my excess weight and skin immediately and make myself slender again. Which is easier said than done, because my wide hips make me look a bit more plump than I really am.

I blame the wide hips on my Sag rising, the excess weight on the amount of food I gorged down during and after my pregnancy

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 22, 2011 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd make myself more realistic, more in touch with reality. I have no earth in my chart.

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northernlad
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posted April 22, 2011 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'd like to be more assertive. i have mercury in cancer, so i like to step back and process everything before i react. i've always admired people who can argue well on the spot. i have to sit on my responses to things, when i wish i could just rapid-fire shoot off answers and retorts.

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SunGlas$Hole
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posted April 22, 2011 04:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunGlas$Hole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would want my thing a ma jig longer and bigger.

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Aya_and_baby
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posted April 22, 2011 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SunGlas$Hole:
I would want my thing a ma jig longer and bigger.

It's not the size that counts, it's what you can do with it

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