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Topic: One thing you would change about yourself?
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RMChex Knowflake Posts: 329 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 20, 2011 07:39 AM
Howdy!Wondering if you could change one thing about yourself, literally only one, what would it be? Is that something there, because of your natal chart? For example, do you hate being so stubborn? Do you blame a planet or aspect of Taurus in your natal chart? Or do you wish you were more feminine and girly? etc. Just wondering how happy we all are with ourselves, or if there is just something in an ideal world you'd change? Rachel x ------------------ "Vision without Action is a daydream... Action without Vision is a nightmare." IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 20, 2011 10:21 AM
hmmm i really think i will change my slow and steady wins the race concept..im always slowly progressing towards my goal i think this has something to do with my mars in taurus..i think ------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 1116 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 10:29 AM
hmm lots of things -a Phobia i have, being too nice, aka being a doormat, which si a real shame because on the flipside deep down im quite a selfish person who, as far as concerns go, would happily steam roll many people into doormats and consider his own needs or wishes first. but unfortunately, i feel afraid to "be myself" in that regard. being anxious/self conscious. needing experience first to feel i can do something. being cold and reserved in feelings having confidence that is too elastic. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 12:13 PM
Appearance only. Everything else I can deal with, even though it sucks sometimes. I'd just like to be EVEN MORE gorgeous than I already am. That's probably my Jupiter conjunct Venus in the 2nd. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9376 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 12:47 PM
I would like to be comfortable with my Pluto/Scorpio energy.------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Yrone Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 20, 2011 01:05 PM
I would like to have more patience. But as a close second would come a less fiery inner child IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 02:18 PM
I would like to have a rare and dazzling power to bring whatever I wanted into being.(I think it is my Moon-Saturn conjunction that makes me feel I have trouble fulfilling myself.) IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 945 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 02:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by letram: hmm lots of things -a Phobia i have, being too nice, aka being a doormat, which si a real shame because on the flipside deep down im quite a selfish person who, as far as concerns go, would happily steam roll many people into doormats and consider his own needs or wishes first. but unfortunately, i feel afraid to "be myself" in that regard. being anxious/self conscious. needing experience first to feel i can do something. being cold and reserved in feelings having confidence that is too elastic.
I'm the same... this is what I would love to change about me. IP: Logged |
mochai Knowflake Posts: 788 From: Charon Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 02:47 PM
I'd be spiritually enlightened and get out of this place.IP: Logged |
starfox Knowflake Posts: 216 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 05:09 PM
To be more outgoing and less shy.IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 329 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 04:18 AM
Thanks for replying Really interesting answers... Do you think there's any way we could bring about the changes we want? ------------------ "Vision without Action is a daydream... Action without Vision is a nightmare." IP: Logged |
Yrone Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 04:40 AM
I am working on it It's going sloooowly, but I noticed that it is step by step getting easier to calm down the tempers and recognize when they flare because of some weirdo bruised ego issues. So yes, I think you can change some things about yourself, but at least for me I had to realize that that kind of change certainly doesn't come over night and you have to be vigilant and critical about yourself without getting into negativity about yourself. Well at least this is true for me so far. IP: Logged |
Anglerfish Knowflake Posts: 299 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 04:44 AM
I would like to change my Venus cj Saturn energy. I would actually like to have self confidence and love myself one day ------------------ Transit Saturn giveth and Transit Saturn taketh away... IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 903 From: In the cave Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 05:11 AM
I would "clear" my 6th and 12th house: I don't need planets there.I am stubborn with my Sun in Taurus. My Sun has square with Mars in Leo: I don't allow to anybody to play with me. This aspect gives strong women. No games at all! As I like my eyes (the first on other person I look are their eyes), but the pains I have, change even them: I want my natural eyes back. My Moon should be in some other sign and not in Pisces: too emotional, too sensitive, sometimes I cry for simple nothing. B.
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esheep123 Knowflake Posts: 98 From: brooklyn, ny usa Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 09:07 AM
My Cap rising. All of it. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 695 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2011 09:22 AM
My issues are mostly physical. If I were hot then I think some areas in life would be a lot easier.Personality wise - I wish I were more outgoing. I tend to be on the shy side. IP: Logged |
Rogue Guru Knowflake Posts: 154 From: Pleasantville, State of Euphoria, USA Registered: Jan 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 12:41 PM
What I would change would not be a character trait, but a life condition: I'd have gotten the martial arts lessons I've wanted since I was eight years old.IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonWitch: My issues are mostly physical. If I were hot then I think some areas in life would be a lot easier.Personality wise - I wish I were more outgoing. I tend to be on the shy side.
Yeah I agree. Life is much easier when you are super pretty or handsome. I don't think that's the only standard, but it certainly helps as sad as that is. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 120 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 03:48 PM
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Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2011 06:48 PM
I'd get rid of my excess weight and skin immediately and make myself slender again. Which is easier said than done, because my wide hips make me look a bit more plump than I really am.I blame the wide hips on my Sag rising, the excess weight on the amount of food I gorged down during and after my pregnancy ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 744 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 22, 2011 04:49 AM
I'd make myself more realistic, more in touch with reality. I have no earth in my chart.IP: Logged |
northernlad Knowflake Posts: 58 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted April 22, 2011 04:58 AM
i'd like to be more assertive. i have mercury in cancer, so i like to step back and process everything before i react. i've always admired people who can argue well on the spot. i have to sit on my responses to things, when i wish i could just rapid-fire shoot off answers and retorts.IP: Logged |
SunGlas$Hole Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Texas Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 22, 2011 04:59 AM
I would want my thing a ma jig longer and bigger.IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 06:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by SunGlas$Hole: I would want my thing a ma jig longer and bigger.
It's not the size that counts, it's what you can do with it ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged |