posted April 21, 2011 03:46 PM            

I got curious as to the composite of myself and that person and to be honest I found what I saw today to be interesting. But, as usual, I don't trust my astrological abilities enough to make an assumption based on that so I want to ask professionals to form their opinion

posted April 21, 2011 03:55 PM            

But I wanna take a WILD guess here and say.....

One if not both is married/in another relationship..

I think you met at work, and are secretly having sex.

Only there's that moon/pluto sq... IT s hard to pull away from, or stop????

I would be extra careful there may be unexpectant pregancy. Which will keep all those Saturn contacts going.

Is both peoples time correct????

posted April 21, 2011 04:02 PM            

Neither of us are married or in another relationship although that person and I met when I was trying to break free from my now ex.

And, according to that person, the time should be right, although this person is born in Belgium too and this country is known for not accurately writing down birth times. Well, not in the past, they're more accurate now.

posted April 21, 2011 04:12 PM            

I get the strong feeling that there is some big secret or big lie going on..

You sure he's not in a relationship with someone else????

Maybe since Mars is seperating from Uranus it shows the "was" in a relationship when you go together... But I still think there's something else...

posted April 21, 2011 04:23 PM            

Technically, I "was" in a relationship before we got together. More specifically, my ex still considered him and myself an item and I just wanted to move on with my life.

We are also "secretly" having sex, at least in the sense that we're not in that sort of relationship, but more like friends with benefits. So when people see us down the street, they would probably not expect us to be... emmm... getting ours on with each other behind closed doors.

posted April 21, 2011 04:29 PM            

Soorry... Does ur ex know its over know? Does this guy know about the ex?

Is this still on going? Or is this something you are having a hard time pulling away from? Its hard to get over?

posted April 21, 2011 04:35 PM            

My ex also knows it's over, hopefully because it took me over a month to get him out of my apartment (the reason why I was living with that guy temporarily) and I've done some mean things... including admitting quite early on to my ex that I met someone else. I suppose it was a good way to make it clear to him that we were really over. Not that I used this guy as an excuse, not at all!

It is still going on, and I'm actually quite happy with the situation as it is now. I do somtimes have the feeling that he is a bit confused about exactly what he feels.

posted April 21, 2011 04:40 PM            

Then again... I'm pretty unromantic in general so if anyone is a bit "cold" in a relationship, it would probably be me

Not quite sure if the drive is impaired at all. It seems to be working fine

posted April 21, 2011 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Aya_and_baby:
[B]Ami: I do have the feeling that something is missing, something he's not telling me but that is there, but I wouldn't call it cold.
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I still think something else is hidden.. BUT of course I could be way wrong...

posted April 21, 2011 04:53 PM            

Well, apart from that one thing I can't put my finger on, but I think that has a more emotional ground than anything else and when people keep emotions a secret... Let's just say I don't jump to conclusions unless they specifically voice those certain emotions. You just never know, you might be barking up the wrong tree.

posted April 21, 2011 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aya_and_baby:
Following is the composite chart of two people. One, needless to say I suppose, is myself and what the other person is to me is something I'll leave in the middle. Don't want anyone to focus on just one bit of the *relationship* (also to be taken broadly, include any possible sort of relationship that exists, except family - this person is not family).

I got curious as to the composite of myself and that person and to be honest I found what I saw today to be interesting. But, as usual, I don't trust my astrological abilities enough to make an assumption based on that so I want to ask professionals to form their opinion

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I think on the surface and the image that you have of each other and to others, this would seem like a stable, happy, warm and just plain dream connetion. But under the surface, there is plenty of stuff stirring. I think this will end up becoming a power struggle and someone is going to try to dominate the other. It seems dangerous, like a psychological hold over someone. Like brainwashing, but more psychological abuse. Mind games, etc.

posted April 21, 2011 05:38 PM            

But that was kind of what I was aiming to get as an answer: how do we come off as a "couple" (in the broadest sense of the word, of course, read above )

posted April 21, 2011 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
I think on the surface and the image that you have of each other and to others, this would seem like a stable, happy, warm and just plain dream connetion. But under the surface, there is plenty of stuff stirring. I think this will end up becoming a power struggle and someone is going to try to dominate the other. It seems dangerous, like a psychological hold over someone. Like brainwashing, but more psychological abuse. Mind games, etc.

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INTERESTING.... that fits with the Mars/Pluto especially being in H12.. Maybe thats whats hidden... Not hidden from each other but kept from everyone else..They keep it to them self.. They appear one way to the world, but at home its a different story...

Sorry Aya.. not making your relationship sound bad or Im not saying the relationship is bad... Just trying to read the chart...

posted April 21, 2011 05:59 PM            

But, you ask, we deliver! Synastry below, the inside is me, I believe.