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Topic: Between these two, who is more inclined to become infatuated?
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JohnFKennedy
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posted April 22, 2011 01:51 PM
  
So I've been dating this dude on and off the past year, and he has a reputation for being a player and what not, which is fine with me because I never wanted anything substantial from him anyway, as my affections were elsewhere. He has a history for breaking hearts, but I KNEW he couldn't do that to me because it takes a lot for me to allow someone into my circle on an emotionally intimate basis so my friends constant warnings never really made sense to me. However, after getting physical, I've noticed HE is the one acting elusive and hurt and kind of typical of "the woman" in this situation, but still in a really aloof/stoic kind of way. You know what I mean? I'm just curious to see who between the two charts has the higher propensity for getting hurt in romance. Show your notes! That's what makes it fun and an astrological learning experience  
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blugrey
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posted April 22, 2011 02:01 PM
Caps don't like rejection in any form.IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2011 02:23 PM
I'd say the first chart has more of a natal promise to get hurt (is it yours, btw?), because of that sensitive moon in cancer opp sun, and the stellium in the 8th. It means they also build up walls, but once someone is in, they can literally make the 1st chart want to die.My two cents IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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posted April 22, 2011 05:53 PM
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Originally posted by maira:
I'd say the first chart has more of a natal promise to get hurt (is it yours, btw?), because of that sensitive moon in cancer opp sun, and the stellium in the 8th. It means they also build up walls, but once someone is in, they can literally make the 1st chart want to die.My two cents
Actually he's the one with the Cancer moon! You'd never be able to tell, though. Truthfully I was stunned when I plugged in his information and saw that's what his moon was. I'd have much rather guessed something in Leo or Aries, surprisingly enough. IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2011 06:56 PM
Did you see the trine to Pluto? This player (venus in aqua) is a softie deep down If you like and or want him, try alternating the aloof moments with extreme empathy. But don't break his heart if he's not the one you're looking for.As for his alleged fire moon, I think your venus in Aries is projecting :P IP: Logged |
Nightingale
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posted April 22, 2011 08:07 PM
I'd say the second one with Virgo rising is the more likely to get hurt by or infatuated with the first one.The second one has their Venus square the 1st chart's Saturn for one, and Chiron opp the 1st chart's Saturn. Re-reading, I see that's you I've pegged as the more vulnerable of the two oh well (sorry) IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 22, 2011 09:50 PM
The first one appears to be one that can detach from things better, but when he falls, he falls harder. Due to all that cappy (stability) and the cancer moon.She has an aquarius moon... And the venus in aries, don't think she'll be one that loves as deep.
Also venus in aries lose interest faster. IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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posted April 23, 2011 01:56 PM
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Originally posted by Nightingale:
I'd say the second one with Virgo rising is the more likely to get hurt by or infatuated with the first one.The second one has their Venus square the 1st chart's Saturn for one, and Chiron opp the 1st chart's Saturn. Re-reading, I see that's you I've pegged as the more vulnerable of the two oh well (sorry)
lol I don't mind, it's an interesting analysis regardless. I would say that I begin to become very empathetic to his stoic qualities but once he goes in for the kill and ends up disappointing me - it's briefly shocking, then it just really annoys me and I don't talk to him for a while. You know? We also have our Chirons exactly conjunct (his in retrograde), so maybe that makes me a little immune to the Saturn opposition. Saturn is so strong in my chart as well! Which probably helps combat his hyper Capricorn stellium. IP: Logged |
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