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posted April 23, 2011 02:24 PM            

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hello all- thank you for taking the time to read me- what do you make of a man with sun in virgo ascendant in virgo, and venus in virgo- with mars in sagitarius, and moon in scorpio sun and venus in the 12th house- i think that's a hard code to detect- good luck if you can he's either a weird or simply unusual one or plain liar! my choice and yours..

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posted April 23, 2011 03:09 PM            

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Hmm I've heard that Venus is Virgo men can be too much of perfectionists, that they're never happy with what they get, always looking for an ideal that doesn't exist.
Now especially if he has Mars in Sagittarius, that would make his Venus and Mars square, at least by sign, which is no good. He is too temperemental, passionate and has love/hate relationships due to conflicting sides in his own love nature.
Sun and Venus in the 12th, he can be a liar, conceal romantic affairs, and can deceive or be deceived.
His Scorpio Moon only makes things worse, in my opinion, giving him an obesessive, secret, paranoid kind of nature.

Hope this is somewhat accurate.

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posted April 23, 2011 03:22 PM            

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thank you, so what has attracted me or him to me initially? am sun in cap, moon and mars in pisces,with moon progressed to libra, venus in scorpio, ascendant in cancer? and either he is all what you say or is mentally ill.. not sure at all

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posted April 23, 2011 03:35 PM            

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Well first of all, you are both Earth sun signs, so that can already point to an attraction.
Then, your Moon and Mars in Pisces are opposite his Virgo Sun and Venus, oppositions are strong factors of attraction. Him being the Venus, I would *suppose* that HE was the one attracted first. But you had more feelings, you being the Moon opposing his Sun, you'd probably be the first one to develop *feelings* more than mere attraction.
Your Venus in Scorpio blends well with his Moon in Scorpio, there is a natural affinity here, affection, love flows easily.

Hmm well I don't know who feels the attraction more, but it seems to me that there is definitely some attachment here. There is attraction, but him being such a difficult person in the first place, I'd avise you to be careful with your heart.

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posted April 23, 2011 03:41 PM            

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For me, A venus in Virgo man is too picky ,in general.
I am an earth void so not picky about most things.
I would put this under the heading---I would not want to date a man who is prettier than I am.
I would not want to date a man who is pickier than I am lol

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posted April 23, 2011 04:07 PM            

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hiya- that makes sense- checking his chart he hasn't got mars venus square and he has saturn in the 1st house conjct moon, and moon conjunct pluto and saturn, mercury conj saturn,saturn in libra in the 2nd house, the square is between mars and neptune- but am checking astrodient and perhaps not all the aspects are present-one question; do the progression with descendants follows the same progressed chart?

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posted April 23, 2011 04:21 PM            

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oh, and what you're saying just reminded me that when we initially dated online, that he couldn't get me out of his mind, and i think that did and still freightens him( hence his pulling away,/ control issues) initially we were supposed to meet, yet he had his mum dying, and stayed away after her death 2 years, he came back online a couple of time to say that he couldn't forget me, although he tried..and about my heart, well i do not wait for him, but he will always be in the back of my mind- as it is unresolved for me- i would need only to meet him once- he also hides..lots of stuff i cannot comprehend..why come back after two years telling me stuff like this and not followed through??like i din't give him a script to say those things, especially i told him off so bad.. but he said he would always come back to me. At this point I just wanted to know why the lies..that's all i wanted to know- he said he didn't want to come back as he had lied about his identity and would loose me anyway..as you see, i guess i'll never know- some of his story sounds true- the only explanation is that he has some mental difficulty either serious or impairment.. that's my best guess.

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posted April 23, 2011 05:48 PM            

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Hm.. Well, he's got heavy Saturn.. Control/conceal (Pluto, Scorpio) is a major issue there.
And he can't forget you, that must be because his Saturn touches your personal planets.. does it?? Heavy Saturn contacts in synastry are like super glue, even if they often feel like a burden.. They bind people.

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posted April 23, 2011 09:24 PM            

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My eldest daughter is with a venus virgo man (I'm a venus virgo female) he can be controlling but he also has sun sign scorp and cancer moon con chiron and a bloody difficult t square between venus/virgo and mars/pisces and uranus/sag. He is very patient and works hard to get respect from those that are important to him, they've been together for 3 years now and she's not had to worry about him straying elsewhere. He cares...a lot about family.

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posted April 24, 2011 12:18 AM            

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ok- what is the: pluto/scorpio control conceal issues are?
our synastry chart is that we have sun neptune mercury in the 4th house with saturn bordering the 4th but in the third and not conjunct sun neptune or mercury, but saturn in the 3rd sextile moon and ascendant-but moon is composite in the 5th and Mars composite in the 6th and square venus.. and more which i'd have to check more-

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posted April 24, 2011 02:56 AM            

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coco, I was talking about the synastry, not the composite as I don't really look at composites.
does HIS saturn make aspects to YOUR planets?

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posted April 24, 2011 03:10 AM            

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how do I know that? do i need to check both natal charts? thanks- am not a professional at all

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posted April 24, 2011 03:27 AM            

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It's okay coco, no problem.

You go to astro.com, click on My Astro on the top right, enter the data, and then go to the left, Free Horoscopes => Horoscope Drawings & Calculations => Extended Chart Selection, then you select the two names, and choose "Synastry chart (2)" in the bar.
Then click to show the chart, it will show you a double-wheel chart.
To see precisions about the aspects, click on the View the additional tables (PDF) on the top left. It'll open a new window with the personal planet positions and the synastry aspects table.

Look at the aspects, and tell me whether you see some hardcore Saturn ones

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posted April 24, 2011 03:57 AM            

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ok about to send chart as you askedmy womfow hard to read as letters are very small- forgot how to solve this-

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posted April 24, 2011 04:42 AM            

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i find i can't copy anything so far will have to be back as soon as resolved- especially with my window so small to read..

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posted April 24, 2011 06:28 AM            

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Give me the birth data if you want, I can make it for you.

Just need the date, time, and place of birth.

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posted April 24, 2011 07:02 AM            

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nice of you: him: 20/09/1982 born in Florence Italy at or around 7am I: 30/12/1954 in Paris France at17.20

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posted April 24, 2011 12:26 PM            

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Hey coco, so I got your synastry for you guys.

So to keep it short: attraction = yes ; compatibility = ? can be, but there is a lack of Sun/Moon aspects.. which are the most important for a serious, long-term relationship.
But his North Node is conjunct your ascendant, and opposite your Sun and Mercury, which means he is drawn to you because he feels at ease with you.
Plus his Mars conjuncts your Venus, and your Mars opposes his Venus, so big time attraction here.

Will it last though? Only time can tell.

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posted March 26, 2015 08:24 PM            

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I fall so deeply for women with Venus in Virgo. They are the only people that really care to help others without the recognition.

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posted March 26, 2015 09:14 PM            

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I really like Venus in Virgo men, have never dated one though. My Taurus Mars weeps.

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posted March 26, 2015 09:21 PM            

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I have an article on Venus in Virgo men, if you want me to put it up

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