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Topic: too much 6th house energy? losing ppl as result
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shedevil77 Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 25, 2011 10:03 PM
hey guys, im just dropping by because i really wanted someone to take a look at my chart. I recently got in a tiff with one of my friends, she told me that i am controlling, judgemental, an overanalyzer, critical, i think that im so perfect. all of this stuck out to me because these are typical virgo traits. and that is not the first time i have been told this by someone, alot of ppl in my life feel as though im too hard on them, when i am really trying to help them. funny thing is i dislike everything that ive read abt virgos( prob a form of self hatred lol), but i have never met a virgo that i didnt like or didnt get along with really well? can someone with a similar chart or possibly a virgo give me some tips on how to keep this "perfectionist" obession at bay or maybe give me some tips on how not to offend my friends, its only my friends i tend to offend, prob bcuz i care about them the most. its also affected my love life because everyone feels as though they cant reach my high expectations. im sure my cap sun and leo moon doesnt help. honestly im just a very strong woman,who has very high expections for the ppl in my life because i set high expectations for myself as a friend, girlfriend, and daughter. i am there for my loved ones, and sometimes my being there is confused by my trying to be controlling. its something that i dont think i can help, but i honestly feel like its ruining my relationships and since im the common denominator, i must be the problem. take a look at my chart plz....is it all in my head or could it really be all this 6th house energy. i find it funny that i have so much 6th house energy but no virgo placements at all. planet sign degree Sun Capricorn 16°51'41 in house 6 Moon Leo 29°10'22 in house 2 Mercury Capricorn 26°14'41 in house 7 Venus Aquarius 20°33'29 in house 8 Mars Scorpio 29°32'34 in house 5 Jupiter Aries 20°42'16 in house 10 Saturn Sagittarius 26°15'46 in house 6 Uranus Sagittarius 28°04'23 in house 6 Neptune Capricorn 8°02'55 in house 6 Pluto Scorpio 12°09'48 in house 4 True Node Pisces 25°23'15 in house 9 HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 20°15'59 2nd House Leo 13°25'59 3rd House Virgo 9°44'15 Imum Coeli Libra 10°47'08 5th House Scorpio 15°18'13 6th House Sagittarius 19°18'39 Descendant Capricorn 20°15'59 8th House Aquarius 13°25'59 9th House Pisces 9°44'15 Medium Coeli Aries 10°47'08 11th House Taurus 15°18'13 12th House Gemini 19°18'39 IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 664 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 25, 2011 10:06 PM
Sounds like someone I know, she is also a sun cap with planets in her 6th house, two, mars and pluto. I honestly don't quite get the grasp of virgosIP: Logged |
shedevil77 Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 25, 2011 10:16 PM
this is going to sound crazy when i say this so try to follow: I dont "get" virgos either, me being a venus aquarius, i usually hate their "traditional" outlook on life. but i think my cap sun and leo moon agrees with their moral code. i dont get them, but i tend to get along with them quite effortlessly. IP: Logged |
shedevil77 Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 26, 2011 10:06 AM
i would really appreciate it if someone could give me some feedback.....IP: Logged |
shedevil77 Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 26, 2011 10:06 AM
i would really appreciate it if someone could give me some feedback.....IP: Logged |
shedevil77 Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 26, 2011 10:06 AM
i would really appreciate it if someone could give me some feedback.....IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 117 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 26, 2011 11:07 AM
Hi there, I think you just need to refocus that 6th house energy in an advantageous way for you. Critical thinking and analysis which the 6th house is prone to doing is great at getting to the bottom of things. For example, it's a great advantage in school or work. As for your problem, I think the issue is that you can be nosy. People do not change unless they want the change in themselves, so even though you want the best for them just let them be. Give constructive criticism if it's really needed, however, no body is perfect so focus that energy somewhere else. I also think it's the Capricorn moon in the 6th house which looks for extreme perfection and tied with pessimism. In addition to that, the combination of Capricorn and Leo can make somebody dogmatic. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2113 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 26, 2011 06:03 PM
Hey I have 4 Leo Planets in H6.. All I can say is I have none of the above issue! Thats my story and Im sticking to it! IP: Logged |