posted April 28, 2011 06:27 AM            

Here's the story, you can skip it and proceed to my question if you aren't bored enough. Basically this guy has 15 years on me. I'm 19, he's 35 although he looks 25 which is why I wasn't too concerned with the instant attraction I had towards him when I first laid eyes on him. Because he is my boss, I NEVER thought of engaging in anything with him until he initiated a "flirtationship" with me. Our chemistry was so intense that everyone around us was able to pick up on it even though we never did anything. After a month, we finally hooked up and have been since.

We never talked outside of work so I assumed it was only physical. He saw me hand out my number and was blatantly ****** about it. It wasn't until I expressed my feelings about not wanting to see the guy that we were okay again. He had the biggest smile on his face when I said that too.

We make out and occasionally sleep together. We don't hold hands or anything but his possessiveness confuses me.

Now my question is: With these aspects, do you think he has any feelings for me or is it just physical and his Taurus Venus and Mars just makes him possessive?

I already discussed how I'm in the Pluto in our Pluto Opp Mars synastry and how it completely HIT me out of no where. I hung over him but to me, it's beyond physical but not enough to initiate a relationship with.

Him:
Sun Cancer 12.59
Moon Pisces 6.32
Mercury Cancer 19.06
Venus Taurus 28.25
Mars Taurus 21.11
Jupiter Gemini 20.41
Saturn Leo 15.34
Uranus Scorpio 7.44 R
Neptune Sagittarius 14.01 R
Pluto Libra 11.29
Lilith Gemini 8.08
Asc node Libra 20.27

Me:
Sun Capricorn 25.43 Ascendant Capricorn 12.19
Moon Gemini 9.54 II
Mercury Capricorn 9.27 III Venus Sagittarius 19.22 IV Mars Capricorn 5.21 V
Jupiter Virgo 14.10 R VI Saturn Aquarius 7.39 VII Uranus Capricorn 14.37 VIII Neptune Capricorn 16.49 IX Pluto Scorpio 22.32 Midheaven Asc node Capricorn 9.48

Our compatibility according to Cafe Astrology.

posted May 02, 2011 03:25 PM            

This doesn't sound like a guy who will just stop calling you back one day. He is probably a little bit of a doormat when it comes to being pursued, and he might even have a history of staying in a relationship after his feelings have subsided. But, if he ever did turn you down, the feelings of his own hurting himself would be mixed up in that or vice versa, since neither Taurus, Cancer, or Pisces are very good at keeping blame separate. He might make you feel like you hurt him when you didn't at all, and he was the one who hurt himself by becoming involved in such a liaison.