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posted May 01, 2011 07:23 AM            

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To people who have a Leo Sun/Taurus moon combination:

what makes you stop pursuing a love interest? I broke up with my ex of one month several months ago and he still will not leave me alone (he is a Leo sun/Taurus moon).

He's so persistent to the point where I'm getting creeped out. He hasn't gotten physically violent or made any threats,, but he has been acting like a pest. Why hasn't he moved on by now???

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posted May 01, 2011 08:07 AM            

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I don't have an answer to your question since I am not a Leo with a Taurus Moon, but I wish you good luck.

Sun + Moon in fixed signs isn't gonna be easy...

Just ignore him.

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posted May 01, 2011 10:15 AM            

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You need to look at his DC to see how he approaches partners.

You also need to look at your chart as to why you have not dealt with this issue yet. Telling lots of people about him will not magically make him disappear. Maybe make some threats of your own, as the police can issue a warning for him to stay away.

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posted May 01, 2011 10:18 AM            

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maybe its mostly to do with the taurus moon, maybe his taurus energy believes partners may be scorpionic in ways, and that this is all a test by you to see how much he wants you, how much you mean to him, and what hes willing to do to keep you.

just my little theory iv pondered on in astrology.

this is just astrological.

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posted May 01, 2011 11:32 AM            

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Hmmm, the desc. is describing your behaviour in courtship? How would that work out for say, a Scorpio desc.?

Also, I know a Gemini desc. who is very touchy feely in a borderline buddy/flirt way with the opposite gender, but I figured that would come from the Taurus Venus/Moon ?

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posted May 01, 2011 11:34 AM            

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I don't have his time of birth, so I can't possibly know his DC for sure, though I have a feeling he is scorpio rising.

Coffee, I'm not sure if you are aware of this, but you cannot control the actions of others because people have free will. I've chosen to tell him in plain language
to back off and find someone else. He has chosen to continue to pursue me.

I've told the police and they simply told me that they can't do anything unless he becomes physically violent, which he hasn't. I live in a high-crime area, so my problem is not really high on their priority list.

He's just been excessively annoying. If you read my post more carefully, you'll notice that I said he has not made any threats. He isn't a physical threat; he's just an incredible pest. Believe me, if there were a way to make him suddenly not be attracted to me anymore, I would do it in a heartbeat.

I have not sat idly as you have incorrectly implied; I've made many attempts at getting rid of him and nothing has worked. Getting rid of someone this obsessive is not quite as easy as you think.

The only thing I have not tried is finding him a girlfriend, but after knowing how unstable he is, I cannot in good conscience, put another girl through this.

Letram,

**Sigh** You're probably right.

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posted May 01, 2011 11:45 AM            

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Astra, i feel sorry for you in your situation, in my eyes, heres two choices,

one, ignore him and continue your life as best you can, and maybe when/if you meet someone else, if hes still on your case, he will get it that you love someone else.

or, you can have another go at making one last message to him, and if you do, here is what i would encourage you to express and make clear in the message to him:

make it clear, and expresss/communicate to him, what You see in him, the negative ones, you must put him in your shoes ,and show him why you dont love him/want him or have interest in him.

you must make it clear to him your plans in life, are WITHOUT him, tell him your plans, and if you are looking for someone else, make that clear in the plans too.

and lastly, make it clear to him, how this is effecting you, and making you unhappy, and if he actually loves you, he'd respect you and let you go free. because he should want you happy.

goodluck

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posted May 01, 2011 11:52 AM            

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Thanks for the detail. Obviously he has been physically abusive, in terms of your space. Sorry to hear about the police reply. House 1 and 9 are the ones you need to look at for the police. House 1 for yourself, and house 9 for police. Could show a good or bad experience with them, or maybe even a time when you will be in contact with them.

Look at his DC, if you know. I would guess at Virgo rising as he would have Pisces on his DC, one of the signs which can show he would 'stalk' a partner.

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posted May 01, 2011 12:03 PM            

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Astra, are you from the states? it seems if so, that in that land, police protection against these kinds of things is weak.

my partner has a slight harrassment sitaution and shes from the states, she told me the police said something similar to her about it (which ****** me off) im from the uk, and well, much more can be done about it here.

thought i'd add this because coffee is apparently from the uk, so that would be the difference.

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posted May 01, 2011 12:15 PM            

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http://personalityseries.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/sun-in-leo-with-the-12-moon-signs/

5-2 Leo/Taurus

The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a very strong personality for better or for worse. You have the capacity to see things in the large, with a good deal of practical idealism and a very fixed attitude. This can make you successful in business undertakings that require foresight and executive ability. No one ever has to wonder where you stand on an issue. Although you are prone to make errors in judgment, you are just as emphatic when you are wrong as when you are right. You can be stubborn and lacking in innate diplomacy. You can learn to hold your tongue, but it’s difficult for you not to express you views with conviction. You are utterly honest, but capable of believing what it is that suits your purposes and supports your ideas. Making mountains out of mole hills and always refusing to compromise, can make life a bit difficult at times. Nonetheless, the combination is one that gets things done and usually does it very well. In all undertakings you have a good head for managing and controlling. Though never one to yield anything to an opponent, you are very loving and sharing with those close to you. For this you do require their complete devotion, eternal love, infinite admiration, and constant sympathy. You are an earnest and well-meaning person, but one who may need to try to become more detached and see yourself a bit more objectively.

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posted May 01, 2011 06:25 PM            

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Hi Astra, Just to chime in with a bit more astrology. The problem that I see from the small amount of information you've given is that: he has both a Sun which is inclined to keep going until it gets its way (in rulership in Leo) PLUS an exalted Taurean Moon which keeps going until it gets its way.

Let me boil it down a bit, the Moon rules emotions, he will forceful about getting his way emotionally, even though he might not behave really badly (Cancerian Moon can do that). The Sun rules the will, he will be forceful about achieving his will, but won't always be well-behaved about it.

I don't know if he's a danger to you, you'd have to look at Saturn in my opinion, to determine that. Meantime, you might only be shot of him once he stops wanting you.

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