posted May 07, 2011 06:15 PM            

Having done hubby's chart on astrowin (great site isn't it!) I am just trying to read it out to him. He doesn't really believe in 'astrology and stuff' as he puts it. He is shocked and stunned by how accurate most of the reports about me are, though, but still won't believe!

The description of this is just so not him at all, its frustrating, so I'm wondering if its because something else in his chart is over-riding it, or if the description just isn't a good one?

"Moon discordant to Uranus (power = 8.35 and this aspect is discordant = -8.35)
You are emotionally unstable and erratic and your moods can change at the drop of a hat. You are fiercely independent and you hate being restrained in any way. You love the bizarre, the unusual, the unacceptable and the unconventional. You cannot stick to anything long enough to get good at it. You lack self-control and self-discipline. You crave excitement, change, and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that doesn't offer much in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous, and enthusiastic about anything new, you may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. You certainly do not want to feel tied down. It is not easy for you to keep your commitments or your promises because you don't know how you will be feeling from one day to the next. You do things on a whim. Your needs come before all others. Your domestic life tends to be very unstable, as do your relationships with women in general. You need to control your unpredictable emotional responses to others. At times you are quite distant and at other times you are very friendly. This confuses others. There are times when you are hesitant to get involved with other people since they may make demands on your freedom. You need to feel free, without any ties to anyone. The challenge here is to learn how to control your sudden, unpredictable emotional storms. When you are emotionally upset, you act without thinking. This makes you susceptible to accidents. You are a very high-strung, nervous person who has trouble sitting still for any length of time. You like unusual experiences and you enjoy shocking conventional people. Your desire for freedom makes it difficult for you to stay in any one place for very long or maybe even with one person. You need to learn to count to ten before blowing your cool in order to help yourself control your unpredictable outbursts." (from: www.astrowin.org)

Here's his chart:

Thanks,
Rachel

posted May 07, 2011 07:00 PM            

I need to have a look at this in the morning because I'm tired (late night last night!) because I'd like to take a closer look at what else is going on with the moon and also his ascendant.

posted May 07, 2011 07:23 PM            

İs this a good point or perfect?

The dual cosmodyne TOTAL score between Mert and Deneme is 40.63

Negative scores (in red) show discord between two people, which is undesired.

posted May 07, 2011 08:45 PM            

perhaps...

posted May 07, 2011 08:46 PM            

he has done this in the past...as moon is in taurus....and he knows that he should have saved the money for sensual things, rather then spend it on hard and rough "sex" so to speak.....he is at odds with his desire to keep this secret and his higher mind....perhaps he visited a psychologist once and after confessing these actions he became more successful

that is what teh chart indicates......

posted May 08, 2011 06:33 AM            

Rachel x

posted May 08, 2011 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by feitlebaum:
Stawr, they are just equivalent to hard/conjunct/easy aspects

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posted May 08, 2011 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
I've got a moon - uranus opposition across aries/libra. I don't project either onto others but neither do I act out every emotion I have. You partner has fixed sun and moon and that moon is in taurus so his desire for stability will be strong. Fixed signs (including aquarius) aren't that erratic compared to the other signs. On an internal level he may only get anxious when his security is threatened.

I need to have a look at this in the morning because I'm tired (late night last night!) because I'd like to take a closer look at what else is going on with the moon and also his ascendant.

You'll have to ask him if he ever imagines planes falling out of the sky or buildings blowing up as he walks past them.

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Thanks so much; I showed him this and he said yes he does! I wouldn't have known that, so that's great that you prompted me to ask him. So what causes that then?

posted May 08, 2011 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
OMG thank you so much for sharring this website! This is probibly the best one ever.

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Great isn't it, I love how simple it is to use as well.

posted May 08, 2011 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
yeah thx for the website

İs this a good point or perfect?

The dual cosmodyne TOTAL score between Mert and Deneme is 40.63

Negative scores (in red) show discord between two people, which is undesired.

An average HARMONY score is about +10.

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I haven't worked out what the highest score can be yet, but that is definitely a great one! Woo hoooo!!

posted May 22, 2011 02:02 PM            

i move alot too (i get SO BORED of same old, yeesh. even though taurus moon WANTS to settle down somewhere forever- or at least have a forever-homebase to come home to after my travels).

i have very steady moods, i think too steady, actually. i think it's all my fixed. i don't see the point of getting worked up. MVM who used to post here has this aspect and she said something about how it's a desire for freedom WITHIN love; which translates TO a very loving approach (letting the other be themselves, and needing to be oneself within a relationship), but uranus is my sun's ruler, so i think i'm extra comfy with that, even if they are at odds (opposition and also the square to the sun). i wonder if your husband is similar; needs a lot of space but is deeply loyal just the same, very placid even detached seeming moods but still very present?

i know that when things go sh!tty or i feel that i'm being expected to do things a certain way (something i do not want to do or is against my code, and believe me i think through everything deeply and everthing i do has a purpose that i can back up with sound reasoning, at least insofar as my own needs and those of my child are concerned, and fairness in general) i rebel or walk away. i get taken advantage of a lot because i'm very giving and compassionate but when it gets to that point and when it's not reciprocal and/or it's just taken for granted, i get that itch in my feet and i want to get away. for instance (one very small example) my roomie got so used to me always cleaning off the counters, even of his mess, so now they are always messy because i stopped cleaning his mess and it overflowed to my little area, so i moved my cutting board to a shelf in the other room and i'm not even gonna use the counter anymore. ha. but i still have to look at it :/

anyway in my case, my mom was extremely moody and psychotic and my parents hate eachother and i was put in the middle (psychological warfare between them and i was oft the scapegoat) and had to be like a rock. i was not taken care of; i took care of myself and HAD to stay strong and almost completely emotionally detached to survive. anything like that happen to your hubby?