posted May 14, 2011 07:45 AM            

My case.. I have tooken a liking to a pisces girl and I know its mutual but I just wanna know what you expect and how u go about progressing through stages when the circumstances are such.

posted May 14, 2011 07:52 AM            

First of all, Pisces is the most "ambiguous" of the signs, and therefore her other placements will most likely determine how she looks, feels, and what she is attracted to.

posted May 14, 2011 05:14 PM            

We only see eachother once or twice a week. And I have to give her the benefit of the doubt because she is the one who iniates contact and comes and sits right next to me and we will talk for however long we can. I desperately want to ask her for her number but I'm searching for the right opening. But I can see others calling it delaying.

Im starting to worry that I'm moving to slowly. Bc I'm almost positive this is the main reason why things have failed in the past . Because at key moments I didn't show them what I really wanted (which was them) by acting to distant or not making a move and they saw either timidity or lack of interest and moved on... and I have recognized this as a factor and I swore to myself I wouldn't let it happen again but I feel like its starting to play through. I just hope its not to late. I always have this problem with girls I'm really interested in.. this same exact scenario has played out with two other women one a pisces and the other I did not know her sign.

posted May 14, 2011 05:51 PM            

Wow I believe Pisces and Cancers are beautiful matches as well as Pisces and Scorpios.... however only if they are fairly evolved, emotionally mature and have grown from many of their past mistakes.

If you would like things to progress with a Pisces - see where things go when you open up to her after getting to know her for a while. If you feel comfortable enough to do that and she is receptive (offering an ear and feedback without giving strong advice) then you are in a good place. If you are met with push back or if she overly dominates anything (discussions, plans, ideas etc) then be warned that this is not a woman who is good with compromise and may even think she always has something to teach you and the world.

I would suggest not opening up too early as with any Pisces who has had an experience of learning about a man too early that led to being taken advantage of, this will be a red flag. Just take things at a good pace.... not too slow and not too fast. Pisces can feel smothered easily in the beginning and question so much about a man's integrity if she is looking for a serious relationship. Just find out about your Pisces, what her intentions are in life and her "reputation". Is she involved in activities, concern for others, good relationships in the past, fair well with family etc. You need to look at all aspects of the woman and feel her vibes towards you before allowing your own vulnerability. If you open too soon, you may retreat into your shell and regret doing so. You may even begin to resent the woman you shared your emotions and insights with (not necessarily about anything she may have said or done) due to your own uncertainties.

If you are certain about a Pisces, she will sense this and be more apt to open up to you. We DONT open up easily. This may be concerning to Cancers and other signs, but we have to trust and feel secure before doing so. I think this is why Pisces and Cancer relationships often get stunted and never evolve because we don't want to put ourselves out there due to our lack of trust. Or maybe one person puts themselves out there and not the other, thus giving way to one sided feelings and shortsightedness of the good things about the relationship. If a Pisces does open up quickly, I don't believe its a natural inclination, so be cautious.

On a lighter note, share humor, adventure, philosophy, the arts and lots of yummy exotic food and experiences with her. Build up and you will see her heart melt and her smile rarely fade. She will lean on you alot for advice and insight, but don't be threatened by this if she is an evolved Pisces. She is actually seeking out confirmations from her partner. You won't expect tantrums, stress and fights... what you should expect are healthy debates and challenges to ensure that you both grow in a positive direction. Pisces can often be abstract in their thinking and expressions. Be patient and break down nuances and vague responses. Ask her what she means if you arent certain - this will help her process both her feelings and emotions when she slows down to reflect on what she has said. You however should always be very clear and direct with a Pisces. She will respect you for that. If she is mature she will take constructive criticism well and desire growth of self and the relationship more. If you deliver something that you don't like about what a Pisces has done or said or share feelings with her about negative behaviors you find that she keeps repeating and then you are received with bitterness, anger, retreating etc.... these are not good signs! Don't get me wrong, Pisces are not all smiles all the time... we think and feel deeply. However if we continually wallow in self-pity, hurt, uncertainty, the past etc... we are not well balanced. Although a Pisces takes stings, she should acknowledge what you say and respect it if done with a foundation of basic human concern and care. Pisces are known to be taken advantage of quite easily and thus being taken for granted is likely paramount in our relationships.

Don't ever be afraid to say you are sorry. Say it when it is most deeply warranted.

Just have fun, but allow for depth and discussion. Don't be afraid to be who you are. Be strong and direct while wearing your heart on your sleeve. Don't push, manipulate or instigate. We respond to affection with both words and touch. We love balance - so giving nothing you will find a needy Pisces... give too much and she will run away. Its very strange, but true. Don't text your Pisces too much. We like face to face encounters and phone conversation. We will look too far into text and things will become misconstrued quickly. If she is heavy on text due to behaviors she may have picked up in past relationships, re direct her with saying "Hey lets talk over the phone if your not tied up" I must share that I never text until 2008 when I met a man who used it to hide his true feelings and as a tool to manipulate. I developed poor habits during our connection that I am still working on today. Don't use texting as a way to truly communicate. Use it to make plans, give quick information, let her know your coming etc. We need to see your face, hear your tone, feel your vibe etc. ---- I have ended many relationships due to heavy reliance on text. Things became too confusing and miscommunication sets in.

We love water, but it has to be just the right depth for us to feel safe and want to wade for a while. Too high and we will swim away with the tides.... too low, the relationship will commit to a slow agonizing death.

Sorry for the length, but I have so much in me I am ready to burst sometimes. I just love sharing through written word!

blessings to you Seeing Stars and I agree that understanding other aspects (moon, venus etc.) will be helpful for others to give more guided feedback.

posted May 14, 2011 06:02 PM            

Don't be afraid with a Pisces. She sounds great! If she is initiating contact it is a very good sign! Is she smiling alot? Hanging around and seeking you out? These are good signs. Begin to hang around her A BIT more when you feel the urge... dont give into every impulse as we check everything out when we like you. Don't let that deter you from being around her. Even though we check things out, we rarely scrutinize in a way that is negative towards a connection. If nothing else you will surely be friends if that is where she would like things to lead and this will be revealed the more you spend time with her. If you aren't happy with just friendship, be careful on your approach. Keep eye contact with her and study her gaze. Not too long though. Just smile and be you. That is all you can hope to do.

Is there anything specific that she is doing and/or saying that you are attracted to?

posted May 19, 2011 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Seeing Stars 7.21:
The thing with her is she's so hard to approach her demeanor is always closed and her facial expression always serious and unimpressed. Sometimes she can just walk right by without even glancing in my direction. I assume she has her moods so I never really seek her out. I wait until she sits next to me or stands next to me so then I know she's probably open to socializw. Sometimes she'll give me a playful punch or make a comment , other times she will just be next to me, I think waiting for me to say something. She's hard to read. But when we start talking its usually good and I can make her smile/laugh. Everything would be much easier if she would smile more often. And when we talk were usually looking eachother right in the eyes I wanna hold the gaze cause she's so dang beautiful but I don't want it to get weird. I personally feel she is interested in me and another person told me she was flirting with me, oddly my boss told me so b.c she apparently acted excited when told I was going on a promotion with her and two other coworkers . And when he mentioned the flirting I just kinda shrugged it off in doubt and said we were just talking to which he replied."Exactly she doesn't talk to anybody"

I personally feel she is trying to be cautious she knows that I have dated a different coworker at work and she knows that a couple of them fancy me. She likes to give me crap about them and joke . Calling them my followers. She should know that I like her I insinuated it the other night and on other occasions. But I haven't said anything directly I'm trying to be cautious myself.

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posted May 20, 2011 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Seeing Stars 7.21:
Bump.

Danjor, could I have your thoughts on my last post? do pisces often act standoffish. and if you do are you still hoping that a guy you like will talk to you?

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Hey Seeing Stars. In my case I often "appear" to be standoffish due to my either daydreaming or burning wood (thinking). I have dark eyes and thick eyebrows so that adds to the trouble of figuring out whether you should approach me or not. I get this OFTEN! lol. It is really a subconcious action on my part and my demeanor is who I am when I am in ideation mode or dreaming something up. Also, if I am in a "mood" I may be thinking about some event that transpired.

In no way would I want my tunnel vision mode to keep others from approaching me - but it does.

I think in the case of the woman you admire - if she is open other times and even seeks to connect by being playful and being near you, those are very good signs! We only seek out connections that we have high interest in. As for me - I will seek out folks that I like to mentally spar with, but I won't go out of my way to touch them and carry on in a playful way. Men I am attracted to get playful or more meaningful glances etc. They get more "warm" smiles and I am around them a bit more than others. If she is "around" you or goes out of her way to be around you - this is a good thing.

posted February 01, 2012 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Anglerfish:
As a 1990 Pisces, there are two options.
1. She has aqua Venus, and I cant help you.
2. She has cappy Venus, in that case you NEED to make a move. Cap Venus gets very traditional at times, I have it conjunct Saturn so I should know. Pisces is shy as well. If you don't make a move you may blow your only chance, as she will swim away.

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As a Pisces woman with a Cap placement (moon)....she will NOT NOT NOT make the first move...super-traditional....even when I like a guy, I am never good at making the first move...even when I argue with myself that I should lol....its not my thing at all...sometimes, when a guy gets my number, I am so excited for him to call but I know that if I had his number, I still wouldnt call him even if it was on my mind....he would be on my mind a lot and I would look forward to bumping into him but would NEVER make a move unless I had a good excuse, like if he was a co-worker and I needed something he had. But other than that, I wouldnt make a move at all....just not my style....if you wait for her to make a move, you will be waiting forever lol

posted February 01, 2012 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by mspiscesqueen:
As a Pisces woman with a Cap placement (moon)....she will NOT NOT NOT make the first move...super-traditional....even when I like a guy, I am never good at making the first move...even when I argue with myself that I should lol....its not my thing at all...sometimes, when a guy gets my number, I am so excited for him to call but I know that if I had his number, I still wouldnt call him even if it was on my mind....he would be on my mind a lot and I would look forward to bumping into him but would NEVER make a move unless I had a good excuse, like if he was a co-worker and I needed something he had. But other than that, I wouldnt make a move at all....just not my style....if you wait for her to make a move, you will be waiting forever lol

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Unless you are lucky enough to catch her while she has been drinking, with liquor, I become very aggressive..thats the only way I could ever see me making a move and it still would be a very discreet move...like a small eye flirtation..but nothing more...I would flirt with my eyes and see if he came running lol

posted February 02, 2012 06:27 AM            

I think Cancer and Pisces makes a great match, so I hope this works out for you.

Two of my best friends are Pisces, and I'm a Pisces moon.

I would always err on the side of consideration, honesty, and diligent attention if I were seeking a Pisces.

Pisces typically hate games and if a guy plays "hard to get," they won't chase.

My one Pisces friend is very good-looking and still single at age 35. She says, "I never fight to keep a guy. If he seems like he wants to go, I just let him go." Even if she is wildly in love with the guy, she never tries to control him.

So I'm thinking if you like a Pisces, make it obvious and then maintain the relationship with utmost respect. Call when you say you are going to call...Pisces may look aloof but they are the most sensitive of all the signs.

Good luck!