posted May 15, 2011 09:38 AM            

What might you see?
http://www.astrotheme.com/offres_synastrie.php

Here is additional information

3/13/1973 Aspect 07/17/1966 Orb/Value
Sun Trine Sun 2.02 358
Sun Square Venus 2.37 -181
Sun Trine Neptune 3.19 56
Mercury Trine Sun 1.22 199
Mercury Square Venus 1.57 -154
Mercury Trine Neptune 3.59 40
Venus Trine Jupiter 0.00 96
Venus Opp Uranus 0.54 -71
Venus Trine Neptune 3.36 41
Venus Opp Pluto 0.38 -63
Mars Trine Uranus 3.45 39
Mars Sextile Neptune 1.04 50
Saturn Square Uranus 2.25 -64
Saturn Square Pluto 2.09 -60
Uranus Square Sun 2.38 -100
Uranus Trine Venus 3.13 48
Neptune Trine Mercury 3.38 44
Pluto Square Mars 1.11 -86
Pluto Opp Saturn 3.43 -30

I see there are about 5 easy to fairly easy aspects like Sun trine Sun and Mercury Trine Sun and Venus Trine Jupiter, but I am concerned about the 4 hard aspects especially Sun square Venus where I believe he is basing things on pleasure and superficial sex. I have not slept with him, but there is a huge draw. Also he opens up to me alot and I think he feels comfortable doing so, but we have some communication issues and blockage. Mercury square Venus and Mercury Trine Sun may balance the communication and ease of understanding each other out, but sometimes I think good relationships are supposed to be easy. No one wants to put in the work these days to either fix the issues, develop better communication etc. I backed off due to his overt desire for sex because I want more... we have agreed to see where things go now.

Any way around the sporadic tension? I am sure he feels the way I do in several areas, but nothing has been shared. How can I make him feel more comfortable with me? Do I over intellectualize? Think to much and not let go?

What level of risk for heartbreak is apparent here?