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Topic: I'm about to call it quits with the Cancer. Negative energy seems to be building
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danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 06:54 PM
  
I give him space, I give him and ear... I am loving and warm, but our communication is horrible.There must be some serious hard / neg aspects between us that keep things from being easy and nurturing. Thats all I want... to be easy and to just build towards love. He has been analyzing everything about me, short lately and just plain rude. He is going through a tough time financially after losing so much in his divorce 3 years ago. He is a very successful Chef that has to rebuild. I know that men often shy away from relationships when they don't have all their ducks in a row. So I may have to throw this one back and just wait for the right time and the right man. I am so sad about this though.... so so sad :'( IP: Logged |
Shalimar
Knowflake Posts: 32
From:
Registered: May 2011
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posted May 15, 2011 07:09 PM
I'm sorry, but he just sounds immature. It may have nothing to do with aspects. You deserve better treatment than this.IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 10:55 PM
Thank you Shalimar. I was hoping to evolve in this relationship. Deal with difficulties together and in a mature way. I just don't feel safe opening up.
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saronna
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 10:59 PM
he sounds lazy and immatureIP: Logged |
saronna
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 11:06 PM
why bother communicating with crumbs. I can understand you feeling so sad but he is lazy and immature. It sounds like you do all the work and all he gives you is sex. The relationship sounds like it is purely sexually with a business minded. What does he give you but business mind and sex. Say goodbye to the lingere and look forward to something better.IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 09:16 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 09:20 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 09:22 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 09:23 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 10:13 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
danjor73
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Philadelphia, PA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 10:18 PM
Hi Saronna you are spot on. He flaunts his cooking talents and weaves them into his sexual innuendoes. Quite cheesy actually (no pun intended). Interestingly enough I haven't slept with him and I think he's frustrated at this point. I agree about the crumbs. I think his behaviors have a lot to do with his strained relationship with his mother (maybe I'm a reminder) lol Must've dodged a bullet IP: Logged |
saronna
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 16, 2011 10:30 PM
danjour73 thanks and hugs. I am glad you dodged a bullet. I don't mean to sound preachy with advice. I usually don't give advice unless it's asked for but i felt strongly about it for some reason. Anyway,I am waiting for my sister to go hospital and see a family member. I don't play games. I play the game of life and not military transformers game that teenagers are now into nowadays. Well, adults don't play the game as they now know the game is real life military transformers as motive is murder. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be the Godfather in military transformers but it's how you play the game that counts. This is the puzzle of the value of the ideal that I am trying to figure out from a dream I had in August 2005. sorry for going off on a tanget but that's probably why I felt so strongly about your post danjour73 Lot of love, hugs, hugs hugs
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