posted May 20, 2011 06:56 AM            

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we really know people and how screwed up everything is and people look at us like were the messed up ones ...

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I agree! I know what you mean.

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channeling Barney the dinosaur!

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LOL Venus

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posted May 21, 2011 02:05 PM            

I just got out of a six year long relationship with an 8th house Scorp Sun cnj Pluto. It ended in my "paranoid, insecure" accusations being spot on. He had been having a years long emotional affair with a "friend". As soon as I walked away, this friend who was supposedly a "lesbian" stepped in. They got engaged within weeks, and she may be pregnant. Not the most upstanding thing to do, but it doesn't mean I'm going to blame every Scorpio for it.

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posted May 21, 2011 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I have a Scorpio ascendant, and I've been told that I'm too honest (when I actually get around to talking about things). Either that, or I'm the dark horse, when there really isn't much that I want to keep secret. I keep things to myself regarding others, so that people don't get the wrong idea about the other person, if I'm having problems with them - until I fall apart (which has happened), and even then I've had to be told to stop defending someone if I thought something was being said that was wrong about them. I felt awful a few months ago, when I accidentally embarrassed someone that I used to be close to - someone who screwed me over, and helped me to get into the bad state that I was in... I felt bad all day, and was told to stop feeling bad, and sure enough, the next day, he started in with attacks. Public attacks. That's a supposedly-loyal Taurus for you.

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posted May 21, 2011 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Anicia:
Every sign has a "worst" and "best. I think the better question is "What causes Scorpio to sting?"

I just got out of a six year long relationship with an 8th house Scorp Sun cnj Pluto. It ended in my "paranoid, insecure" accusations being spot on. He had been having a years long emotional affair with a "friend". As soon as I walked away, this friend who was supposedly a "lesbian" stepped in. They got engaged within weeks, and she may be pregnant. Not the most upstanding thing to do, but it doesn't mean I'm going to blame every Scorpio for it.

I just think when a Scorpio is bad, they're really bad. People always remember, and emphasize the bad. They can absolutely be every good quality listed, but they absolutely have the potential to sting.

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posted May 21, 2011 03:04 PM            

For reference here, I'm an 8th house Scorpio Sun plus other planets.

I am very secretive, but not nastily so. I just don't like being out of control, and I find that as soon as you tell people things, you've lost the control over it. My mum gave me a piece of advice when I was little, that I still use to this day:

If you have a friend, treat them as such
but never let that friend know too much.
For if that friend becomes your foe,
around the world your secrets go.

...that to me is what is behind the Scorpio secrecy. I just don't like someone else having anything on me that they could use at any future date. Because it is in my] nature to hold on to everything anyone tells me in case I ever need to get revenge on them, I automatically assume everyone else is the same and I don't risk giving them any information that could be used as ammunition against me (which is anything).

I don't lie, in fact I'm brutally honest. Too honest half the time. I've never understood the reason why people think something but don't say it; if you don't want to know the truth then don't ask me. I find it so stupid when people ask a question but don't want the truth as an answer. I'm not rude or hurtful, but I can be blunt and direct sometimes.

I am loyal, and will fight to the death for or on behald of someone I love.

In summary, I would never describe Scorpio as untrustworthy.

posted May 21, 2011 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by RMChex:
Hiya

For reference here, I'm an 8th house Scorpio Sun plus other planets.

I am very secretive, but not nastily so. I just don't like being out of control, and I find that as soon as you tell people things, you've lost the control over it. My mum gave me a piece of advice when I was little, that I still use to this day:

If you have a friend, treat them as such
but never let that friend know too much.
For if that friend becomes your foe,
around the world your secrets go.

...that to me is what is behind the Scorpio secrecy. I just don't like someone else having anything on me that they could use at any future date. Because it is in my] nature to hold on to everything anyone tells me in case I ever need to get revenge on them, I automatically assume everyone else is the same and I don't risk giving them any information that could be used as ammunition against me (which is anything).

I don't lie, in fact I'm brutally honest. Too honest half the time. I've never understood the reason why people think something but don't say it; if you don't want to know the truth then don't ask me. I find it so stupid when people ask a question but don't want the truth as an answer. I'm not rude or hurtful, but I can be blunt and direct sometimes.

I am loyal, and will fight to the death for or on behald of someone I love.

In summary, I would never describe Scorpio as untrustworthy.

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posted May 21, 2011 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Anicia:
Every sign has a "worst" and "best. I think the better question is "What causes Scorpio to sting?"

I just got out of a six year long relationship with an 8th house Scorp Sun cnj Pluto. It ended in my "paranoid, insecure" accusations being spot on. He had been having a years long emotional affair with a "friend". As soon as I walked away, this friend who was supposedly a "lesbian" stepped in. They got engaged within weeks, and she may be pregnant. Not the most upstanding thing to do, but it doesn't mean I'm going to blame every Scorpio for it.

I just think when a Scorpio is bad, they're really bad. People always remember, and emphasize the bad. They can absolutely be every good quality listed, but they absolutely have the potential to sting.

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posted May 22, 2011 01:19 AM            

I am a cancer and my girlfriend is a scorpio so I think I can chime in with my opinion hopefully this helps.

I believe that scorpio is trust worthy just like any other sign but my girlfriend does tend to lie.

They are not big lies but they are still lies.

I ask her why she does this? She tells me that she rather lie than tell me the truth if she thinks it will make me mad.

Ok I accept this reason but of course if she was cheating on me for example and she lied about it of course I will get mad cause I wont know what is really going on.

So to me its not what is behind the lie that I think a scorpio is trying to keep but a game that they play.

I also feel like they bottle things up and all of a sudden sting you which can be fatal.

That is probably one of the reason your untrustworthy.

I guess its similar to a cancers mood swing.

Maybe if scorpio could learn to express their feelings and needs better and not be afraid that we might take advantage then their could be more peace.

just a opinion. thanks for reading.