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posted May 21, 2011 06:06 PM            

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Ok... So... You'll probably laughing about what I am going to say but... all my life (or at at least since I was a teen, I had bad luck in love and my relationships ended before starting. I don't know how to explain it, but I just want to know... Am I doomed to be alone forever? I am not frustrated, just curious.

What aspects could indicate no love, no long term relationships or no marriage in my chart?

Many thankies.

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posted May 21, 2011 06:12 PM            

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You have venus square saturn. And your virgo moon probably makes you quite picky. I can see why you'd have problems. Also Venus trine Neptune adds fuzziness to how you are seeing relationships and people. I think you just need to find out the points in your chart that add to this problem then work through them.

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posted May 21, 2011 06:20 PM            

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You're only 25. I wouldn't throw in the towel just yet.

I don't see anything too terrible to your Venus/7th house ruler... save the Saturn square. That's really whatever. The only aspects my Venus makes are squares... including exact Saturn and Uranus squares and I don't have any problems with getting into relationships.

Why do you think you're doomed?

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posted May 21, 2011 06:28 PM            

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Because when I was liking someone that someone was liking someone else... Yes, love triangle. I was NEVER loved by anyone, understand? This is why I think I am doomed. So Venus in 29 degree is squaring Saturn no trining. Empty 7th house may add something to this hole? South Node in Libra in 12th?

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posted May 21, 2011 06:31 PM            

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I suppose that Venus Saturn square plays a big part.

But unrequited love is very common, trust me.

Don't despair just yet, you're young.

Be patient and brave.

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posted May 21, 2011 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I suppose that Venus Saturn square plays a big part.

But unrequited love is very common, trust me.

Don't despair just yet, you're young.

Be patient and brave.

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I don't despair. Just curious. So Venus-Saturn square is the problem... what should I do in this case? Just wait?

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posted May 21, 2011 06:34 PM            

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So Venus in 29 degree is squaring Saturn no trining.

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You have a trine to Neptune, which makes you romantic and are able to experience deep, soulful love.

My Venus is at 29 Pisces square Saturn at 29 Sag. Again, I don't have a problem with relationships.

Unrequited love happens to everyone. And did this just happen or was that what happened before when you were a teenager? Also, is there anyone you currently like?

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posted May 21, 2011 06:38 PM            

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Try not to have expectations I guess, and the right person will come along

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posted May 21, 2011 06:42 PM            

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You have a trine to Neptune, which makes you romantic and are able to experience deep, soulful love.

My Venus is at 29 Pisces square Saturn at 29 Sag. Again, I don't have a problem with relationships.

Unrequited love happens to everyone. And did this just happen or was that what happened before when you were a teenager? Also, is there anyone you currently like?

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It happened me ALL the time. No only when I was a teenager. It's not a single case. It's a repetitive case. I feel sometimes that I'm not good enough for anyone. Liking or not someone it's just a waste of time because it's always the same. I don't want to be like a drama queen in front of you who complains everytime, I just wanted an answer. Maybe I should see a doctor, or something. I am familliar with loneliness, I am not afraid to remain so... it's just that I hear mostly all the time: everyone has a soul mate or something... no one should be stay alone. But in my case? What happend? God forgot to write something good to me?

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posted May 21, 2011 06:49 PM            

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You have a Scorpio ASC and Pluto in the 12th.This means you are a very deep,spiritual person.
You need to find people who are like minded.
If not, you would be on a different wave length .

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posted May 21, 2011 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You have a Scorpio ASC and Pluto in the 12th.This means you are a very deep,spiritual person.
You need to find people who are like minded.
If not, you would be on a different wave length .

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Like minded? What is that suppose to mean? Thank you.

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posted May 21, 2011 06:53 PM            

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First you need to feel worthy of love.
Only then will someone you like like you back.

It's like if you're used to think that nobody can love you, the universe just affirms your thoughts.

Now you need to build your self-esteem and know that you ARE worhty of love, and by doing so, slowly the dynamics of your life will change.

Just tell yourself that you love yourself and that you are worthy of love, everyday, and believe in it.

That's what I would do.

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posted May 21, 2011 06:55 PM            

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You have an Air void and Mars in the third--Gemini's natural house-the house of communication?
Your chart ruler Pluto is in the 12th as I said making you Pisces like in that you are a very deep person.
Do you crave to communicate with people but find it hard?
Do you want to communicate freely and easily but find you feel stuck and too deep in your own thoughts.Is this your main angst in your relationships?

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posted May 21, 2011 07:04 PM            

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Taurus rules the 7th and Venus is in the 10th. You need someone who has good status for lack of a better word lol
The person's credentials are very important to you.
You need someone reliable ,responsible and a good member of society

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posted May 21, 2011 07:11 PM            

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The 12th house is ruled by Libra and you have Venus in the 10th. You need a career which expresses your natural depth.
I am not saying this in particular but something like working in a hospice or someplace that your natural deep and caring natural can be utilized .
Your Pluto placement echoes this as well .

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posted May 22, 2011 03:08 AM            

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So what I need is not equal with what I want right? Maybe that's why I am in this situation. Because I'm not searching for my need but for my wish. I don't look for someone with status and money. That's my real problem. I don't like money or position, I like love and friendship. A person reliable and responsible yes, but rich and famous, not. I seek only love. I think foolish right?

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posted May 22, 2011 11:41 AM            

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I'm not very good at astrology yet, but I'm going to take a stab in the dark.

In my chart, I have venus opposite saturn (actually forming a t-square with jupiter, oy) and from what I understand, saturn wants to delay and restrict, so I've been told that as I get older I'll have more luck in the relationship arena. Perhaps it plays out similarly with venus square saturn? I've got virgo moon too, and I am picky as hell. I could have been in a ton of relationships, but none of them measured up to my standards.

The way I've viewed it for myself, because I think we have similar issues, is that it'll happen when it's meant to happen. Just keep yourself open to the possibility of finding someone, but don't waste all of your energy there.

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posted May 22, 2011 11:50 AM            

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No one is ever doomed. The Great thing about The Supreme Being or Universal Mind, whatever you want to call it, Is that it is all about Redemption for the wrong you committed. Life is about making mistakes, learning and becoming a better person.

There are certain groups though that would tell you that "God" would send you to a place of torment forever because you made the wrong selection in a very very confused and deceptive world. There are even men who are illuminated enough to realize that no person is below a second chance.

We punish ourselves. The Judgment Day we give to the self.

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posted May 22, 2011 11:59 AM            

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Here is the thing. I am not desperate to be in a relationship or to be in love, the funny thing is that all my friends and my siblings are in a relationship, and I am not and from others point of view it's very odd. I thought that I was the odd one, I thought that I have a problem, maybe people think about me that I'm a savage or something, but seeing that it's all about Saturn and his restrictions, it makes me feel loads better. Well...above all... at least I tried.

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