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posted May 21, 2011 08:19 PM            

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any comments folks !?

(venus is in gemini-uranus is in virgo)

how can this affect a person(male)
also the venus is squared with saturn (pisces)

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posted May 21, 2011 08:39 PM            

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Without knowing in which house these falls, here are a few suggestions:

Unstable relationships

Unconventional love affairs.

Being attracted to people from a very different background.

Open marriage.

Homosexuality or bi-sexuality.

All these afore-mentioned are possibilities.

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posted May 21, 2011 08:47 PM            

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Venus Square Uranus
Your close personal relationships may be changeable and unstable in that they form and break up quite rapidly. Or you may attract friends who are rather unusual or very exciting. You want to avoid relationships with people who are dull and conventional.
Unfortunately, with this aspect you may be unable to accept your need to be free. In this case you may attract unreliable people who eventually leave you or break the agreement between you. But if you accept your need for freedom and limit your close relationships to those who can understand it also, you will attract people who are similarly inclined. Or you will discover that you can be close and friendly with someone and still have freedom, as long as you give each other enough room to be yourselves.

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posted May 21, 2011 09:01 PM            

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Thankyou for your interesting replies !!

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posted May 21, 2011 09:05 PM            

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Hi again

venus is in house 11
uranus is in house 3
saturn is in house 9

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posted May 22, 2011 02:23 AM            

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Vacillates back and forth between wanting to be in a relationship and wanting to sleep with everyone in sight.

Or at least thats how it works for me (but Saturn and Uranus are conjunct not opposed).

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posted May 22, 2011 01:44 PM            

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See, I'm the opposite...

I vacillate between wanting to be in a relationship and wanting to be a loner for the rest of my life since the guys I seem to attract seem to be so changeable in their affections (cheaters, players, etc). Might be the Venus/Uranus square being projected to the partners I choose... Hmmm. I just realized that. (I also have Venus and Uranus sextile Saturn).

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posted May 22, 2011 06:49 PM            

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Speaking from my own experience: afraid of relationships while simultaneously wanting one; hard to find someone and when you do they're a little more off than everyone else, but you like it that way; you can feel smothered and need to break free, but it depends on which houses the planets are in; your love life may not even exist for long periods.

My Venus is in 8th house and Uranus is in my 11th house. Friendshsips come and go, but I hold on to those where I was never manipulated or stabbed in the back. I need freedom, to be alone every now and then just to think without my friends' influence. My sex life? When I have one I'll happily talk about it to a point. Money isn't always stable either.

Also, this aspect can make one quite rebelious when it comes to love and dating, but not consciously so. He or she could prefer people who are usually overlooked and make them quite innovative when it comes to style. We don't really like trends or think highly of people who do.

Is this helpful at all?

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posted May 22, 2011 07:44 PM            

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YES thankyou, it is most helpful !
thankyou for taking the time to reply

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posted May 22, 2011 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Delilah:
Speaking from my own experience: afraid of relationships while simultaneously wanting one; hard to find someone and when you do they're a little more off than everyone else, but you like it that way; you can feel smothered and need to break free, but it depends on which houses the planets are in; your love life may not even exist for long periods.

Also, this aspect can make one quite rebelious when it comes to love and dating, but not consciously so. He or she could prefer people who are usually overlooked and make them quite innovative when it comes to style. We don't really like trends or think highly of people who do.

Is this helpful at all?

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That is EXACTLY how my Venus square Uranus plays out to a T - Venus being in Aries in the 7th and Uranus in Capricorn in the 4th.

At my core I am an extremely individualized person - there is something about relationships and getting "trapped" in one that evokes physical claustrophobia sometimes, and I do everything in my power to not give off vibes that I want to be locked down into a relationship when I'm dating someone for fun. However, it isn't until I feel a kind of kindred spirit in this person where our philosophies are similar where I become adoringly attached and think of them as family (the 7th and 4th combined in harmony) - eventually they'll get too close and Uranus and an Aries Venus will kick in and I'll scramble to re-establish my former independent boundaries again. It's the worst.

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posted May 22, 2011 09:33 PM            

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Libra Moon, you are most welcome and I'm glad I could be of help. Also, it might be a good idea to look at the houses these planets rule; they'll be effected as well.

JFK, are you noticing people around you finally finding someone? I should probably start a new thread, but can't help but notice so many people around me are either entering new relationships or getting engaged. This is happening with the least romantic people (the most logical people).

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posted May 24, 2011 08:59 PM            

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Many thanks , this is most interesting and helps out a lot, thankyou for explaining, confusing, but fact!

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posted May 24, 2011 09:03 PM            

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Thank you Delilah
Great description

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posted May 25, 2011 12:23 AM            

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Ah! n.Venus, Gemini 2nd house. n.Uranus, Virgo 5th house. n.Saturn Pisces, 11th house. However, the square from Venus to Saturn seems kind of wide, but it's in several astrological charts I've had done.

Right now, things are good, but I've hated my love life in the past. Seemed to attract every commitment-phobe on the planet. Or ones that don't really care that much about me. Unconventional all the way. Went out with "genius" types. Very creative, and definitely not the norm. There was always something *different* with the relationships, too. Often had my love life go through very long dry spells between boyfriends. I always wanted what I have now, but it took until my late '30's to get it.

I do like "unique" guys. Musicians, writers, film professionals, etc... Men who lean more toward the Arts. Don't like jocks at all (at least not to date), and they don't care much for me, either! Never really went out with one. Just wish I had better luck sifting out the flakes, that's all.

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posted May 26, 2011 10:45 PM            

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CosmicKarma360, maybe you had to learn from Saturn how to spot what you wanted and walk away from what wasn't good for you. It has the effect of witholding rewards until you learn your lesson. As for the jocks thing, Mars may be more to blame. I like artistic guys too, but I don't like them too skinny or short. I'll have to stare at my birthchart a little longer to figure that one out.

Thank you Ami. I'm learning, slowly, but still learning.

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