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Topic: Falling in love with you...
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 930 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 04:27 AM
Who falls in love with you? Do you think this may be connected to your Moon sign? I have a Capricorn Moon and authority figures - either like me/love me on a platonic level --- or blatantly fall in LOVE with me (yes! I mean romantic love lol).. whether it is my teacher, my boss or the police officer who was meant to give me a fine - and mysteriously decided not to - they just can't get enough of me. It's quite strange!
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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 641 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 04:34 AM
Scorpio + Pisces men! Tis very frustrating. I am a Gemini with a Sag Moon - they have no business falling in love with me! lol I cannot really give a specific type because I don't really have one amongst the guys I've dated. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 10049 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 08:00 AM
I have an earth void.Guys with lots of earth seem attracted to me------------------
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starfox Knowflake Posts: 301 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 08:04 AM
All the women I've dated have had serious issues about & with their fathers.How would that relate to me astrologically? IP: Logged |
Venus Knowflake Posts: 185 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 24, 2011 08:19 AM
"..but i cant help Falling In Love With You.."thanks to the title of this post the song wil be playing in my head all day.. moon in scorp here.. no one loves me IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 467 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 12:50 PM
ahahahaha, woah. you just made me realize that throughout my life i've had boys-needing-mamas falling in love with me. i mean, moreso than any other type. taurus moon, 4th house. wow that's kind of depressing.hey betty that's really interesting.. you could easily 'use' them to climb your way to the top and live up to all the hype! but seriously i think this is why i love being with my cap moon guy. his cap moon is very paternal/responsible and MATCHES my 4th house moon vibe. he doesn't want me to mother him; it's more like we're a unified force that balance one another. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 10049 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by woah cakes: ahahahaha, woah. you just made me realize that throughout my life i've had boys-needing-mamas falling in love with me. i mean, moreso than any other type. taurus moon, 4th house. wow that's kind of depressing.hey betty that's really interesting.. you could easily 'use' them to climb your way to the top, to make sure you fulfill your moon sign's potential. but seriously i think this is why i love being with my cap moon guy. his cap moon is very paternal/responsible and MATCHES my 4th house moon vibe. he doesn't want me to mother him; it's more like we're a unified force that balance one another.
I got a guy for you ------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 467 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 12:58 PM
haha you quoted me while i was editing. my second version's SLIGHTLY hilariouser.who's the guy?? IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 619 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 24, 2011 06:41 PM
For me it's always people I just want to be friends with, who end up falling hopelessly in love with me. This might sound mean, but it's annoying - it makes me reluctant to even talk to male friends anymore...I don't think anyone who didn't know me first has ever fallen hopelessly in love with me, so apart from them being friends or even what I would consider good friends, I don't think there's much of a type there. The fact that they were usually friends, is a type of sorts, I suppose... My moon is in 7th house, but it's in Gemini. A social sign since it's ruled by Mercury but I would say friends were house 11. The only connection to house 11 that there is to "falling hopelessly in love", is that Venus, the 11th house ruler in my chart, is conjunct Neptune ---> hopelessly
Maybe I'm looking for too much in this... A lot of the time, the men I was referring to did have predominantly fire or air. In one case it was actually a Gemini sun man. That's the only one with a connection to my moon But I seem to attract mostly fire or air anyway...
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electricmind Knowflake Posts: 837 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted May 24, 2011 09:16 PM
Aries Men. (moon) Cancer Men. (descendant)I'm not interested in either. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2371 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 24, 2011 09:24 PM
No clue Aqua risings? lolSeriously I think its Aries moon's IP: Logged |
BeeCalliope Newflake Posts: 6 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 25, 2011 03:04 AM
I have the same issue as Aya, lots of friends fall for me and it is dismaying because I know right away what direction my feelings will take. I love, love my friends, wouldn't want to ruin a good thing with romance. I'm much better as a friend anyway. Of course, I never quite get the one that I pine for. Aquarius on the descendant seems easy to blame. Uranus in the 3rd. I have a cardinal moon, in cap, and they tend to be cardinal suns. Cancers definitely stir me, I like Caps, Libra's are great friends, love Aries women but not the men. A lot of Taurus men too, actually, my venus and mars. Personally, I'm liking Virgo men more and more. Pisces sun and I adore my fellow mutable signs.
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 930 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 25, 2011 06:03 AM
LOL woah The funny thing is - I generally don't need their help. I'm pretty well equipped at solo mountain climbing... but if the odd fellow mountain-goat wants to lend a hand (hoof even?), I won't go "baaah" at them.. if you know what I mean. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 930 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 25, 2011 06:09 AM
Aya - My 11th ruler is Mars, and also conjunct Neptune lol Friends don't fall hopelessly in love with me.. but they are usually attracted and I usually ignore it lol IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 25, 2011 06:10 AM
Guys are generally attracted to me because I am hot. I have curves in the right places, so, I mean does my Moon conjunct in everyones Venus or what? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 25, 2011 08:59 AM
I have moon in gemini and men with venus in gemini tend to fall for me. people who like to talk as well. he he. IP: Logged |
aethan Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Lisbon, PT Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 25, 2011 01:15 PM
Gemini love me. Some of them irritate me to no end. I have this friend of mine that has had a crush on me since forever. I wasn't aware of it for the longest time, which is very normal behavior for me (-_-'). I don't like him that way though, and he won't make any advances, which I guess is a good thing. He can be the most annoying person in the world, he so childish and well... annoying. But he can also be funny and say the most interesting things. He's way too argumentative though, I need my peace thank you very much.I've had a gemini boyfriend when I was really young. Got interested in another one some years back, he was brilliant (very out there, and completely misunderstood by the majority of our colleagues) and gorgeous (Christian Bale + Phil Oakey gorgeous) but he had a girlfriend at the time and well, I think he might have been more than I could ever handle (a bit too crazy and gorgeous). Still, he intrigued me, and I know he felt the same way. I also attract Libras and Leos. I have a problem with Libras... they lavish you with attention and when the time comes they eclipse. They're so undecisive, but they'll never admit that. They have this thing that both impresses and annoys me; they're so analytical and at the same time thoughtful... They want to know everything about you. Leos are rawr. I've only been close to leo girls, they love me (in a friendly completely straight way of course). I like how they can be direct like me, and say "I like you" with no problem. I'm waiting for a Leo man to come my way lol So no, apparently my moon doesn't have anything to do with attracting them. I think it's more of an Ascendant and Venus/Sun combo, at least in my case. I also had a Scorpio really into me once, I think he still has feelings for me but we don't see each other much now. I love him to death, but it's always been platonic to me. A silent intense magnetic type. Really sexy. Edit to add some of my placements... Sun in Aquarius Venus in Aquarius Mars in Sagittarius Moon in Pisces Aries Rising IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4116 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 25, 2011 06:15 PM
Capricorn Moon too..Can't say too much about authority figures, they respect me but no falling in love there. Serious types like me, so that fits, and older people.Someone talked about voids and Air Void men are attracted to me. Aries men really like me. Overwhelmingly. That's my MC. IP: Logged |
thisisaquarius Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 26, 2011 02:55 AM
In the guy category, I would have to say it's Cancer's that are drawn to me, which is annoying seeing as it's difficult to make it work. As for types of guys that are drawn to me, that would be ones that are off-the-wall or 'weird'. We just get along well - that's the Aquarius in me.IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 26, 2011 04:00 AM
I love wearing short skirts to entice men. Then when they come to try and get some, I ignore them but I will keep showing my body until he cant stand it. IP: Logged |
snarly Knowflake Posts: 207 From: u.k Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 26, 2011 05:10 AM
I have my venus in scorpio, and a pisces moon - I think my moon is what attracts a lot of males that want to 'protect' me, and when they get closer, they find out I don't need protecting, thank you very much! 99% of my male friends wanted to have a relationship with me, but I have never gone there as I value friendship too much. As far as who I attract, I've not noticed any patterns, it kind of goes across the board, BUT, my long-term partner has his mars in scorpio, just like me - this is the longest relationship I have ever had (10+ years), so I think I've met my match, lol!IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 429 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 26, 2011 03:52 PM
Well that would be 'everyone' of course!Hee hee. Ok, seriously though, most people who fancy me, tend to fall in love with me - head over heels usually. I'm not saying I turn heads wherever I go because I don't; but once I have someone's attention I tend to keep it. Most men I've dated or even been friends with, tend to love me forever, and even now I could snap my fingers and they'd come running because they find it impossible to get over me. Completely unintentionally, men always seem to leave their girlfriends or fiances for me - why I have no idea. I don't ask them to, or give them any notion that if they do they will be rewarded - but they do it anyway. Its stupid. I always say to them "why did you do that, did I give you any reason to think I wanted you to?" and they always say no, but that they didn't want to be with someone else while they couldn't stop thinking about me. Like I said, its stupid! Interestingly, Betty Boop, I'm Cap Moon too! ------------------ ~ Rachel If I offended you, I'm sorry. If I pleased you, I'm glad If I have hurt you, will you forgive me? If I did nothing to you, I'm sad. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 930 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 27, 2011 12:45 AM
RMC - I think what you described might be your Scorpio aura! It’s interesting because Pluto is a higher octave of Mars.. and Plutonian attraction has strong emotional undercurrents – so these men fall “in love”. I’m an Aries (so I’m Mars-ruled) and I get a lot of sexual attractions.. that are not emotional in nature. This is just from men in general ^ whether they are friends or strangers. I feel very comfortable with this. I mean it does not affect me in any way. But I think if I was in your position or in Aya’s (fellow Scorp girl!) – I would FLEE the planet. It would scare me to arouse such strong emotional interest. As an Aries I’m probably more light hearted.. and I wouldn’t know how to deal with that much emotion thrown my way from that many people.
But when it comes to authority figures they seem pretty emotional towards me, more so than other men. quote: men always seem to leave their girlfriends or fiances for me - why I have no idea.
If I sense this kind of situation approaching.. I start to behave like the biggest put off you can imagine or I completely avoid them. I am a good actress and I have enough intuition to suss out what would put off particular men. So, I intentionally make myself extremely unlikable! – Think: “How to Lose a Guy In 10 Days” – only an improved version that actually works LOL PS. I should add that sometimes - I do get very lalaland types of men... who *think* they are in love when they actually do not even know me. But I'm including them in the attraction basket... because they are not "in love".. They're just delusional lol IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 619 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 10:23 AM
I tend to flee the scene too when I find out a friend has "fallen in love" with me. Often I even break off the friendship because no good can come of it anyway - especially when I'm not in love.That being said, I don't think I can even fall in love. I always fall in lust and have noticed that my being in love is relative to how good the sex is. Anyway, I digress. I'm light-hearted too when it comes to emotions - that might be all my Sagittarius or simply my Gemini moon. I tend to run when things get too serious, when someone is on the verge of falling in love or even when a friend expresses deep, fond feelings for me. I generally can't seem to be able to deal with deep emotions anyway. Or deep conversations. Or anything deep whatsoever. Which is kind of strange for a Scorpio sun, don't you think? ------------------ [Insert catchy signature here.] IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 429 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 30, 2011 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: RMC - I think what you described might be your Scorpio aura! It’s interesting because Pluto is a higher octave of Mars.. and Plutonian attraction has strong emotional undercurrents – so these men fall “in love”. I’m an Aries (so I’m Mars-ruled) and I get a lot of sexual attractions.. that are not emotional in nature. This is just from men in general ^ whether they are friends or strangers. I feel very comfortable with this. I mean it does not affect me in any way. But I think if I was in your position or in Aya’s (fellow Scorp girl!) – I would FLEE the planet. It would scare me to arouse such strong emotional interest. As an Aries I’m probably more light hearted.. and I wouldn’t know how to deal with that much emotion thrown my way from that many people.
But when it comes to authority figures they seem pretty emotional towards me, more so than other men. If I sense this kind of situation approaching.. I start to behave like the biggest put off you can imagine or I completely avoid them. I am a good actress and I have enough intuition to suss out what would put off particular men. So, I intentionally make myself extremely unlikable! – Think: “How to Lose a Guy In 10 Days” – only an improved version that actually works LOL PS. I should add that sometimes - I do get very lalaland types of men... who *think* they are in love when they actually do not even know me. But I'm including them in the attraction basket... because they are not "in love".. They're just delusional lol
Hiya, I think it would be quite advantageous to have authority figures falling for you, hehe. I hardly know anyone in authority, any that I do know are women so I can't really tell! Are you particularly attracted to men in uniform? There's not a huge amount that can beat a navy uniform for me, lol - think of David James Elliott in JAG! ------------------ ~ Rachel If I offended you, I'm sorry. If I pleased you, I'm glad If I have hurt you, will you forgive me? If I did nothing to you, I'm sad. IP: Logged |