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Topic: Disapointed...Naturally
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 02:15 PM
  
I usually stray from writing personal posts, but I'm really confused at the moment, need some knowflake advice...I've been dating a Taurus for almost 3 months officially now, and I find myself losing interest or looking for instances where he pi$$es me off, maybe I unconciously want to break up with him? But he isn't the greatest boyfriend, he is so causal I feel as if were friends not dating. Does this synastry look dubious to you, is there something that I've overlooked? I think the double whammy of Moon-Mars aspects is just asking for drama... (I'm outside, he is in the inside)  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 26, 2011 02:29 PM
Can I ask what might be an obvious question.Without degrees ,how can you read this chart?
Do you just look at red lines as squares and oppositions and blue lines as trines?
Do you have to approximate if there are ACTUALLY squares and trines by looking--only.
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"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 26, 2011 02:48 PM
Ami, yes the red lines are hard aspects and blue lines are easy aspects; you have to look at the signs.
As far as the synastry goes, your Venus is not aspected by his planets.
Plus both your Saturns are not aspected, so it probably isn't a very serious or longterm relationship. The feeling of commitment is missing.
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Ami Anne
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posted May 26, 2011 03:15 PM
Doux
They have Venus conjunct Mars,don't they ?------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2282
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 06:36 PM
Yes, *his* venus is aspected by her planets...but hers isn't. That's one problem....she isn't feeling the romance from him because he isn't touching that part of her. Venus also shows how we treat our partners (particularly males), and his is in Aries which is a very casual sign. Could be, would be, compatible with a gemini venus but I think its underestimated how romantic the mercurial venus can be. The double whammmy of moon/mars hard aspects can equal stepping on eachother's toes too often. Feelings may getting hurt very often? IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 09:04 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
Feelings may getting hurt very often?
Yeah or at least my feelings get hurt. And his Uranus is widely opposite my Venus, which is significant because it is his chart ruler, but that doesn't add much stability. But I did read somewhere that Venus-Mars conjunctions in synastry are very intense, but tend to fizzle out just as quickly, that seems to be the case at the moment. IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 784
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 10:10 PM
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But I did read somewhere that Venus-Mars conjunctions in synastry are very intense, but tend to fizzle out just as quickly, that seems to be the case at the moment.
This is what stood out for me, the Venus/Mars DW. Venus in Aries needs a lot of drama and excitement in romance. If it doesn't come naturally (not your personality), they will make it. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
This is what stood out for me, the Venus/Mars DW. Venus in Aries needs a lot of drama and excitement in romance. If it doesn't come naturally (not your personality), they will make it.
Haha, see that is the irony, I am the one making the drama, not him... IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 784
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 26, 2011 11:17 PM
Is it possible you're both after the # 2 position in the relationship; He's waiting for you to be passionate & aggressive, while you're annoyed he isn't that way towards you??the pSynastry shows his pMars in a 5 degree applying conjunction to your nVenus in Gemini. To me this is the major player in the relationship right now. Venus-Mars is hypnotic, magnetic (Venus) & volatile (Mars, though Venus loves a good fight herself). IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 27, 2011 03:23 AM
That Merc sq Sun would grate on me, it's the Merc person usually who doesn't feel heard. Do you feel like that?IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 784
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 04:12 AM
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Taurus-Libra Male:There are about a dozen of the most loveable, popular men of the Zodiac (whether or not you happen to be in love with one), and this double Venus combination is one. How can anyone resist? They usually place people, and personal things, above material things, and therefore appear to be slow in the business world. They are not. They jhust have different priorities - home life, wife, and children are first. Natural born negotiators, they are the fence menders in other people's lives and at work. No matter how heavy their own burdens are, they will not inflict their troubles on the ones they love. They are too kind to ever do things like that. If they have problems to bear, they usually will be of the health variety. People seem to want nothing more than to fulfill their every desire. One of the few ideal husbands or sweethearts of the Zodiac, this one can, unfortunately, choose the wrong first love. Whenever they are in disharmonious surroundings, they are miserable. They need a happy environment. That is why it is such a shame to see this one married or involved with the wrong lady. A crafty Libra (and no one can top them in the female configurations for being manipulative) has a strong chance, sad as it may be. He will definitely look for beauty. His eye is trained for this. And for intelligence. There is usually something very vibrant about the girl of his choice. She will not be quiet, introverted person regardless of her appearance. The Air (Gemini, Aquarius, Libra) signs have a good chance as can everyone, until he meets the right, or wrong one, as the case may be. He needs someone he can count on. If you are lucky enough to catch this one, don't (promise me) take advantage. If he is of the more poetic variety, a Pisces Sun-Libra Moon combination stands an excellent chance. His illumination: Everybody loves them
His dark side: His first love damages
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RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 780
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 27, 2011 06:45 AM
Was he always likethat or just became that way nowIP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 01:39 PM
Thanks for the tid-bit about Taurus-Libra, but that sounds nothing like him. He is kinda selfish and keeps ignoring me lately, which is a big no no, in my book. Lonake, maybe the sun-mercury square is frustrating me? But I have a problem saying whats on my mind, and I probably should, because I'm contemplating breaking up... IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2282
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 01:54 PM
I have that book....it gives interpretations for every Sun/Moon combo. Its fun to read, but not terribly accurate. I remember reading mine (Cancer/Virgo) and feeling like it totally missed the mark.
On the charts: I totally missed that his Mars matches your Venus. I have to agree that Venus-Mars attractions do fizzle out quickly if there's nothing else good to support them.
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Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2282
From: Avendesora
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posted May 27, 2011 01:54 PM
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 01:55 PM
Here is the freaky-deeky composite:
http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c223/missneptune/Composite.gif IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 01:57 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
I have that book....it gives interpretations for every Sun/Moon combo. Its fun to read, but not terribly accurate.
Yeah, I have that problem too. I think when you have a Moon sign that is so different from the Sun sign, your bound to be undefinable... IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2011 07:20 PM
Oh jeeze, I just realized in the composite, Moon is conjunct Uranus, talk about emotional highs and lows... IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 29, 2011 10:04 PM
Get this, He actually broke up with me via txt, talk about growing some balls... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 29, 2011 11:51 PM
Vertiver  ------------------
‎ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 784
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 29, 2011 11:51 PM
Ooooh, that was sudden. Does he know about your activity here?IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 10, 2011 01:37 PM
I don't know what to do, now he totally regrets breaking up with me. It only took him a week to realize what an idiot he was... Now he wants me back...IP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 4170
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2011 03:44 AM
The poor guy has Moon opp Venus plus it falls on an axis in your chart, that is huge. So anyway you can cut him some slack or say to heck with it that you want more stability. If you're looking for lots of stability then it'd be time to move on, jmo. Is that his tob? If so, he's has his 12th house ruler Saturn going over his Moon stabilizing him somewhat in a negative way haha, but then it's also been opposing his Venus, which may explain the theme of rejecting or being rejected.IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1410
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 11, 2011 07:50 PM
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The poor guy has Moon opp Venus plus it falls on an axis in your chart, that is huge.
Lonake, does that mean that I have something over him? Or is he just really wishy washy? He seems to really regret breaking up with me... IP: Logged |
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