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posted May 26, 2011 03:17 PM            

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i promised myself i wouldn't post here anymore, but really needed someone to talk to
my parents got divorsed.
******* retarded,
they were a really strong couple, i mean we had our fights,my mom has moon/saturn/lilith in scorpio, sun/mercury in 8th and her pluto aspects a lot of her planets so she kind of needed the fights and an intensity that even my scorpio dad could not handle, but still, i don't feel like divorse was the right thing for them
would you guys mind looking at their synastry, and let me know if you think they were destined for eachother, cuz i feel like they were (25 years!!) and then literly out of nowhere boom.
I feel partly responsible because i was the trouble child cauzing a lot of family problems.
Is it a tragdey that they got divorsed.

my mom is on the inside, my dad on the outside

i tried posting the image but it's not working,
here's the link though. http://imageshack.us/f/861/dadd.jpg/

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010

posted May 26, 2011 05:58 PM            

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Hmmm I am so sorry Darling
I think they will get back.That is a feeling not a chart assessment.

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posted May 26, 2011 06:13 PM            

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I'm sorry for your folks, please realize that is is NOT your fault. Nothing, absolutely nothing that children do makes or breaks the relationship between their parents.

I've had a similar problem, only in reverse until recently. My mother was insisting that she "sacrificed" herself for my well being, by staying with my abusive father. I've had lots of conversations with her, and recently she admitted that she loves and has loved him. And that if she didn't, she wouldn't of stayed in her marriage. End of story.

You are NOT responsible for this.

Here's your parents synastry chart.

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posted May 26, 2011 06:18 PM            

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Also, for such a long relationship, you should post a composite and a Davison chart with transits

Go to tinypic.com, upload them there, and then copy/paste the ubb code for forums.

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