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posted May 26, 2011 04:18 PM            

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I'm an Aries girl, and my close friend is a Gemini. I don't feel as if I can trust anything she says, and she is really upset about it. Nothing really triggered it, though. It happened almost instantly.

If you need a chart, I'd be happy to give one. I just want know why I'm so suspicious of her. I'm usually a very trusting person.

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posted May 26, 2011 05:08 PM            

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I think this is hard. I am close to an Aries female now but it started out badly.
My other Aries female friend and I got in a fight and never reconciled.Of course, that was her fault cuz I am an easy Gemini

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posted May 26, 2011 05:17 PM            

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Hi, JustSimplyMe!
It's just because you Aries are so honest and straight forward, Geminis can be more complicated, isn't it so, Ami Anne

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posted May 26, 2011 05:20 PM            

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Well Lunatic
Geminis,per se ,are not complicated I don't think.
I am very Scorpio and very Cancer,too.Those parts seem more complicated

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posted May 26, 2011 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well Lunatic
Geminis,per se ,are not complicated I don't think.
I am very Scorpio and very Cancer,too.Those parts seem more complicated

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I know, I'm just kidding you

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posted May 26, 2011 05:47 PM            

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Ah! This is something I've often wondered about.

I'm Aries, with a dose of Gemini in there, too. Moon and Venus in Gemini.

I've always liked Gemini people, but both the women and men seem to *dislike* me at first sight. I don't get it. I mean, we start out having a great talk, and I always seem to have a lot in common with them, but they shy away the first chance they get. Then they never have anything to do with me again. Strange.

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posted May 26, 2011 05:49 PM            

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Aries can be bossy to a light ,flighty Gemini.
Aries can take up all the air in the room

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posted May 26, 2011 06:07 PM            

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Does she have any planets in your 12th house?

I have a friend with Gemini Mars falling into my 12th and sometimes I feel like she's trying to manipulate me into failing. But it's a totally paranoid feeling and I'm not sure if it has any actual basis in reality.

Is it like that? Or do you think she's a liar? Could be Neptune/12th house aspects.

**I'm trying to get away from attacking certain signs because clearly this is a synastry issue**

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posted May 26, 2011 06:40 PM            

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There are probably some hard neptune interaspects between you two, and you are most likely the personal planet person.

And Linda once said Geminis (along with Cancers) probably have the most colorful auras due to the many changes of disposition or mood. So yes, I would say its a complicated sign.

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posted May 26, 2011 06:58 PM            

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I don't have a lack of trust at all in Gemini people. I don't feel as though they lie that much and when they do lie - I usually see through that so I don't call them up on it - so as to not embarrass them. I'm an Aries myself.

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And about the "at first sight" thing... Actually there is often a very strong mutual LIKE at first sight. If there are problems, they come up much later.
In my exp ^

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My other Aries female friend and I got in a fight and never reconciled.Of course, that was her fault cuz I am an easy Gemini

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lol Ami - I always wish you all the best and I have no negativity. I would just prefer to keep a distance, for reasons I am sure you remember and understand.

However - I definitely do not see our particular online friendship as a typical Aries-Gemini relationship. I can't blame the synastry for other more complicated psychological issues.

I find that when one takes a look at their life and their interaction with others - and they observe that behaving in particular ways is getting the same results from very different people (with different charts) - and if these results are not what the person wants to *see* - it is probably a good time to re-assess their behaviour.

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posted May 26, 2011 07:35 PM            

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I am a Gemini and from experience most of my Aries friends spill secrets - to people who have no business knowing. So while I love those Aries friends, I just don't tell them stuff much anymore. I don't know about the other way around. I do change what I say often, but it's not intentional, I just usually tell it the way I remember it at the time and my views constantly change too because I'm constantly updating them - which could seem dishonest too. Especially to an Aries that sees stuff in black and white. Gemini is a shade of gray that is constantly changing. I Can see why both would not work out all the time. But I think that Aries and Gemini are easier to forgive and forget.

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posted May 26, 2011 07:48 PM            

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views constantly change too because I'm constantly updating them - which could seem dishonest too.

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This happens to me and I have Pisces Mercury!
I know it's frustrating. Often people with fixed Mercuries will be the most annoyed about this.. because from their perspective your shouldn't switch sides.

PS. On thread topic:... The only person who has badly betrayed my trust is a Leo sun girl with no Gemini anywhere. The only person whose trust I have blatantly betrayed was likewise *her* -- because I was getting revenge.
And you guys should see how nice our synastry looks overall! It's just strange... what things come to. We were best friends.

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posted May 27, 2011 01:43 AM            

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If anything Virgo females are far worst then Gemini females.

There known for being manipulative and lying when they feel inscure.

Key, in "Manipulative" "Lying" followed by Virgo in google and you'll get plenty of hits. Lets also not forget Charlie Sheen who is clearly not "winning".

Sounds as if the Gemini female is just being too airy, not that she's being dishonest or anything.

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