posted June 03, 2011 01:26 PM            

Got back from the airport and what a 24 hours. After the fight with Mr Aries, I had got myself together to go to see him and take him to the airport, almost in a way to "leave" him. What ended up happening was that we had a wonderful time together where many of the miscommunications was cleared up and he said he wishes I was going to mexico this summer. I played it all a little indifferent (almost to protect myself) and he picked up on that saying I seemed calmer.

I told him that three months is a long time to be apart (he seemed to not think that) but I was trying to say that people may be in different places emotionally three months later cause he was saying we need to break our pattern. We act as a couple together and I have to admit I love him, but not sure we can be together.

At the airport he produced a japanese novel that he had bought for me and written a dedication to me in it. This almost made me cry. What a lovely gesture.

So I guess this is a sweet goodbye? A way I can move on without emotional angst and with sweet memories of loving someone.

posted June 04, 2011 06:31 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Woke up this morning and still feel happy taht yesterday ended so well! Little sad he is out of the country now but it is not forever.

Sparkling

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posted June 04, 2011 06:13 PM            

I don't generally heal that fast...

posted June 05, 2011 02:17 PM            

So, I am left with a dilemma. When I told my mum I was going to Canada she decided to come too! So my plans to see my sister and then a good friend in New York were kinda hijacked by my mum's good intentions. But I still have some days at the end of the trip where I could head to Mexico to see Mr Aries for 5 days (this would save lots of money at a later date as I can get internal flights).

BUT, am I doing this for me? My original trip had been a plan to see my sister and a friend but my lovely mum (who wishes to see her two daughters together and the grandkids) really wanted to come. Now Jupiter is out of Aries and into stable taurus ( a very anxious time for me), is it time to relax and enjoy life a little?

posted June 08, 2011 03:18 PM            

Just an update.So have extended my holiday plans and will now travel to Mexico to see my ex after visiting my sister in Canada. I am so excited! My ex was so welcoming and said he will arrange for me to stay with his parents and we will have a great time. Anyway, am so happy! Whatever the outcome, when I think back to a year ago, me and my ex, i never thought we would speak, let alone be friends again.

Just wanted to share the love....

posted July 02, 2011 10:39 PM            

This is all falling apart, I am in canada and Mr Aries tells me he can't actually meet in the town in mexico (I am due to leave on thursday) for 4 out of the 6 days I am there. he emailed me this today! so i emailed back and said this is NOT ok with me and can he give me his mexico cell number so we can talk.

I am so angry and hurt, my whole family who I am with right now in canada did not want me to go visit him in the first place. What the hell he is playing at? This is not about astrology but about decency and RESPECT. he doesn't care at all, quite clearly. I can't go now and don't want to go. he hasn't responded to my mail. what am I thinking? Is this the eclipse at work?

I am so hurt right now. Thanks for listening...

posted July 02, 2011 11:18 PM            

I have never been involved with or dated an Aries... there has to be something else in your chart pointing to this. (ie. I have a Neptune conj Sun and all my long term relationships are with Pisces)

posted July 02, 2011 11:40 PM            

Racole- i have leo moon. (DOb - 26/11/1983 9.49 am Melbourne australia).

All will feel better in the morning and i wil regain my emotional strength. it's also hard cause my sister met her husband at 13 years old and they were sweethearts and now 4 kids later, still love each other and i am all alone...

posted July 04, 2011 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Carl - Have you ever lived in a country other than your own (where a different language was spoken) for longer than a year?

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Yah multiple times, why?

posted July 04, 2011 02:14 PM            

He wrote back and said its not out of choice he can't be there (he got a job in a hospital which he only tells me now), he does want to see me but also that the world does not revolve around me.

It was the last part that made me so mad (i only booked flights to his home town to see him and YES for 5 days i should have some attention) so i wrote back and said thanks, but am staying in canada with my sister and people who care about me.

I can't believe after everything, this is how it ends. Over crappy email (i had called him but the line was busy as i wanted to actually talk about it properly and see what we could figure out). I am so sad, my sister is telling me i deserve better and someone should want to spend time with me.

It has totally fallen apart and I feel numb but didnt want to go to a country where i dont speak the language to hang out with people who are not him. Was i unreasonable?

Sad Sparkling

posted July 04, 2011 02:40 PM            

i am easy-going but if i have spent time and money on tickets to see you and you don't find a way to spend time with them then i'm mad. He didn't tell me about the hospital, if i had known, i could have flown into mexico city and amused myself while he worked. I would have been ok with that, it was the lack of communication and i tried to call him so we could talk properly but he was avoiding me. I have cappie asc, i am also dedicated to my job but 5 days of my summer, i would have given up time for someone i cared for.