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Topic: HE insists on a relationship!!
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Lioness
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posted June 03, 2011 01:43 AM
  
I met this guy a while back ago... I've NEVER went out with him, but he INSISTS on a relationship.. Saying he only wants to see/talk to me if I agree to be in a relationship.. I keep thinking WTH.. He doesnt even really know me well... Why is he doing this... I told him I cant promise you a relationship.. I just go with the flow.
He says ok then bye... We are not on the same page...
So I say ok BYE!!
Everyone once in a while, he texts me asking me if Im ready yet to admit we connected and belong together..
I say no! lol..
He says ok then BYE! so I say BYE!!
He says text me when your ready to admit it.. OMG... I have never been pressured like this! I think he's full of it..
Im afraid of this guy.. IDK.. what it is... Its kind of freaky weird... what do you guys think?
I dont know his time.. so its just at noon.. 
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Yrone
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posted June 03, 2011 01:58 AM
Well I could pull out a truckload of astro explanations why etc, but bottomline is, you don't have a relationship until after you started actually getting to know each other unless it's an arranged marriage or business deal that brought you together, so he really should rethink his approach, no matter how destined he believes it is.And now to follow this advice myself ^^ IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 03, 2011 07:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Yrone:
Well I could pull out a truckload of astro explanations why etc, but bottomline is, you don't have a relationship until after you started actually getting to know each other unless it's an arranged marriage or business deal that brought you together, so he really should rethink his approach, no matter how destined he believes it is.And now to follow this advice myself ^^
Amen to that!
Although I always start of with a relationship and just see where it goes. If you get to know someone better and find out they're not right for you, there's not much harm done...
If this guy says that you're not on the same page if you don't want a relationship before getting to know each other better, then what makes him think you two as a couple will work out? It sounds more like he's forcing you rather than that he wants to give it a chance. And I don't know, with his mars (and of course mercury) conjunct your NN, his saturn conjunct your stellium in leo and his pluto conjunct your juno-uranus, it doesn't seem like the best of relationships anyway... I might be wrong, since I'm not too good at doing synastry.  ------------------
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samsaoule
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: world
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 03, 2011 02:02 PM
I agree with those two above. And be careful to not give up your discernment while being with him, if you ever fall for him. After all, his Nessus conjunct your venus. I just discovered the role of Nessus in a relationship a while ago on this website.
Good luck though as life always teach us something. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 10545
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 03, 2011 02:08 PM
Lionness Is THIS the guy with the poor directions  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 382
From: where the fun is
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 03, 2011 02:20 PM
Just ROARRRR with your leo traits and then see if he is worth it or not...IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 03, 2011 02:44 PM
My goodness, that is absurd!!! Who does that?!
Do not say yes...relationships are no JOKE! He's crazy. LolIP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 03, 2011 02:55 PM
You guys are all right... This guy is to much..
Ive never ever gone out with him, I dont intend to..I get why he's like that.. So demanding about it.. He makes me feel like he wants to choke me to make me see it his way.. He tells me, he thinks of me all day, and then the next day he says I cant wait to be done with you!!!
I just say oooooOK.... He' "seems" like a good guy, but IDK what it is about me thats making him demand a relationship...
Who does this... Oo... just the record.. OMG he's so hot!!
His chest screams BITE ME! lol
He's a GM at a Health Club.. He works out ALOT!!
but Im still not going to give in.... lol
Ive been running from him for like 2months now... No Ami he's not the bad direction guy.. LOL.. I gave that guy the boot, long time ago.. He's way to feminine for me... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 10545
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 03, 2011 02:57 PM
Ok This is the one you fight passionately all the time with by text ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Lioness
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posted June 03, 2011 03:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok This is the one you fight passionately all the time with by text
Ohhh yeah.. ITs super intense... but IDK him demanding things from me, scared the hell out of me.. I stopped talking to him.. But once a week or so, he texts me to see if Im ready yet... LMAO!! What-Ever! IP: Logged |
Airi
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: in your house, under your bed
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 03, 2011 05:33 PM
just stop the communication with him. did you notice between your charts you share a grand air trine with his sun, your saturn and i am not sure about the third planet since there's a big cluster of planets at the 3rd point.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 03, 2011 05:46 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Airi:
just stop the communication with him. did you notice between your charts you share a grand air trine with his sun, your saturn and i am not sure about the third planet since there's a big cluster of planets at the 3rd point.
Actually no I didnt notice..
Its his Sun/My Saturn/His Pluto,my Uranus I have no idea what it means though.. He must of sensed me talking about him.. He was texting me a bit ago.. Asked if he could see me, I said no I cant right now..
He never replied back.. IP: Logged |
Airi
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: in your house, under your bed
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 03, 2011 06:02 PM
aaah, pluto and uranus  just stop talking to him. drop him like cold turkey. i doubt it would be a good match anyway with your sun, moon and merc all in opposition to his sun. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 03, 2011 09:23 PM
Ok we've all heard of the Leo Line up..
Well there's this other guy.. He's a really nice guy.. I like talking to him, he wants to go with the flow, and see what happens..
But my venus is literally unaspected here, and I just cant get into him.. I do like him as a friend, but ooo.. I feel bad, because I cant get into him.. He keeps asking me out, but I keep coming up with excuses... But I dont want to stop talking to him...
He does annoy me sometimes with his questions.
Always wanting to know every little thing.. I get to the point where Im about to just scream.. He wants to to explain everything in depth.. It drives me nuts! 
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Lioness
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posted June 03, 2011 09:47 PM
So I guess what Im really wondering, whats going on with me?? Why do I keep meeting these guys that I dont really like...
Ive never had this problem before. I usually like everyone I met... lol But I just cant seem to get into anyone these days.. I havent had any loving in like forever! lol
But I cant I just cant get into anyone..
Im feeling blahhhhhh.. IP: Logged |
Yrone
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 04, 2011 12:20 AM
Airi, uhm what exactly is the problem with having a Grand Air Trine? You make it appear as if it spells doom from the get goIP: Logged |
Yrone
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posted June 04, 2011 12:22 AM
Lioness, maybe you cannot get into them because your heart and/or head really aren't free?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 04, 2011 12:40 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Yrone:
Lioness, maybe you cannot get into them because your heart and/or head really aren't free?
Yeah your probably right.. I gots issues! IP: Logged |
carl
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 04, 2011 02:05 AM
You have a lot of men these days interested. Send some of that energy over here, but in reverse, so I can have just as many women interested. haha.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 04, 2011 02:21 AM
Yeah maybe its my transits..
But it doesnt count since I'm not really interested in any of them.. Except for the married guy I met, but yeah I said no to that... Didnt want to go there..
I had to do the right thing.. I turned him down.. IP: Logged |
carl
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 04, 2011 02:26 AM
I develop crushes in like .5 seconds so I am probably opposite then. if you send the energy this way perhaps I can send a little repellent energy that keeps away the undesirables? IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 2430
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posted June 04, 2011 02:30 AM
((((sending energy)))))
sending.............
Sending................... Sending............ IP: Logged |
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