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From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009

posted June 04, 2011 09:02 AM            

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Sooooo for the 38384847th time, I've managed to alienate myself from the family because I've been nothing but a "rude brat this entire week" (true quote) even though I'm the one who's been screwed over the entire week too.

So my questions to other gals with this combo starts here: How guilty do you feel after an outburst that really wasn't your fault? Would you say people are less forgiving of you for having such "uncharacteristic" displays of temper? Do you have tons of assertive energy that is just always at odds with your reserved/sensitive nature?

On romance: On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your the quality of your love life? If its poor, do you find that you keep attracting passive guys over and over again who expect you to chase...even though its probably not in your nature? Orrr, do you find that guys who are normally assertive turn passive around you when interested? I also feel most compatible with other watery guys, but mars in aries ruins alot. Do yall have trouble in your relationships with the guys of your element?

Based on this gem of a thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014871.html , share your experiences, trials, tribulations if you're a woman and have these two dramatically different placements together in...YOUR CHART.

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From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009

posted June 04, 2011 11:41 AM            

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WOW, there use to be a ton of us here (see: link above) I guess not anymore. =\

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From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009

posted June 04, 2011 09:02 PM            

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I don't have a feminine sun (Leo), so I guess my post might be a little irrelevant... I have Aries Mars but Square Neptune and conjunct the IC, so my Aries Mars isn't so obvious, but I definitely can have outbursts that can put people off guard. I guess you could say I have an explosive temper, but it cools off so fast, that its as if I was never mad to begin with lol!

I have a really tough time in the romance department (dunno if that is the Aries Mars?), I mean it all boils down to low self-esteem. Especially right now, since I just got dumped, I feel so ugly everyday, even when I appear beautiful...

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From: Avendesora
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posted June 05, 2011 08:01 AM            

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Awww darn, Taurean-Arien was a n00b though, you shouldn't feel bad because of that! What you're saying sounds like a venus problem as well. Is yours afflicted...or unaspected?

I guess technically your assertiveness wouldn't be at odds with your true self since they're both the same element but Mars is hidden in the reclusive 4th AND square Neptune, that's gotta be tough. I want to say its like driving through extreme fog. Would you agree? My ex had the mars/neptune square which I admit I keep faulting him heavily for, but it was also a part of a mutable T-square involving his moon and I think it contributed to some major self-esteem issues.

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From: AZ
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posted June 05, 2011 06:22 PM            

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I am a Taurus Sun and my love life is good as of now, but I've been chasing guys a lot. And yes, normally assertive guys turn quiet around me!!! In High School, I was so confused as to why these social guys had nothing to say to me when we were together!! And then all the other guys were gay! I am normally attracted to Earth guys, but I started chasing after Aries men and air sign men because I got desperate.

Right now, I'm dating a Gem Sun/Leo Moon... Not very compatible with my Tau Sun/Scop Moon, but we have other aspects to make up for it.

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From: Avendesora
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posted June 05, 2011 07:24 PM            

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So you have Mars in Aries then?

I tried going down the predominantly air and fire route once, and I just felt like the whole interaction lacked...alot. He was pretty much a dead end to me, only caring about what hot party spot he would be seen at the next weekend.

Of course then, my interactions with guys of my own element are problematic with my bad temper.

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