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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 04, 2011 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would love to know. My 12th house is primarily Virgo, so given that the significant people in my life have zero Virgo in their charts, I can't say I've ever had that 12th house experience. However, my planets fall into a few peoples 12th house. What does this feel like?

(I'm thinking of Mars/general synastry in particular, btw)

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Ami Anne
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posted June 04, 2011 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had 4 of my planets in someone's 12th house. My moon, sun,Mercury and Venus were in his 12th.
I knew him--- would be the way to say it.I just did--- as I knew my child or my right arm.
It is totally strange if you think about it but it felt totally natural.

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posted June 04, 2011 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus in Cap is in my 12th house. My mars is just on the 12th house cusp.

These energies feel like they are kind of "in the back of my mind". I can sometimes feel that I am not perceived as having strong self worth (Venus is square my Moon in 10th). That is, until the last hour I will come out and reveal it, maybe to other's surprise.

These energies are just not "out there" on display but kind of deep in my psyche.

Hope this helps

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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 05, 2011 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes Ami, I totally agree in being able to know them as well as you know yourself. I feel like I know this person better then I know any other human in my life, it's so interesting. I feel I can influence them in a way that few others can in his life.

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posted June 05, 2011 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uneasy. I'm not really comfortable with people in my 12th house. They feel unsteady and unsafe. They put me on edge. Very attractive usually, but at the same time dangerous. I do not like to start relationships with them. But I'm much more a 4th house person. 12 is like unknown and scary!

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posted June 05, 2011 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Yes Ami, I totally agree in being able to know them as well as you know yourself. I feel like I know this person better then I know any other human in my life, it's so interesting. I feel I can influence them in a way that few others can in his life.

I KNOW.It is so strange sounding when you describe it but so natural like a waterfall which flows effortlessly.

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posted June 05, 2011 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
I would love to know. My 12th house is primarily Virgo, so given that the significant people in my life have zero Virgo in their charts, I can't say I've ever had that 12th house experience. However, my planets fall into a few peoples 12th house. What does this feel like?

(I'm thinking of Mars/general synastry in particular, btw)



Pisces Mars s in my 12th... Along with his Sun/Mercury.. But Merc is closer to my Asc..

Mars in a partner's twelfth house:
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When your Mars is in your romantic partner’s twelfth house, you enjoy your time alone together. You partner will share his or her innermost feelings with you and feels less inhibited in your company. When your relationship partner’s Mars is in your twelfth house, you can become angry with the way your partner pressures you to reveal very intimate details of your life experience, yet you tend to comply because you feel physically and emotionally bonded to your partner beyond all others.
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This is a cook book interpretation.. But I found it very accurate.

He does pressure me to talk to him about personal things.. It really bothered me at first.. He got SOO mad telling me, YOU NEVER tell me ANYTHING!!!
He just doesnt understand the questions he's asking.. Very hard for me to discuss..
I do feel a deep need to confide in him.. I have but still not totally..

Since I didnt tell him certain things, I think he went looking for answers on his own.. He did things behind my back.. Like go through my desk.. He created a fake FB acct and sent me a friend request..
No telling what else he's done..

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posted June 05, 2011 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm always wanting them to get the hell out...because 1) the 12th house is my personal business, and I'm not ready to entertain a tea party in there, and 2) they just make me paranoid as f--- (especially Cap Men).

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Ami Anne
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posted June 05, 2011 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I KNOW
12th house synastry is out of this world.
It can't be described.It must be felt.
How do you describe deep heartfelt things like your baby nursing at your breast?

These things are what the 12th house synastry evokes and feels and means.

I just know what I feel. Beyond that, I am powerless

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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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posted June 05, 2011 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow Ami! You really hit it on the nail. His mars is in my 12th and my venus is in his 12th. I always think that my love for him is indescribable. I always equated it with a mother's love...I just want to nurture him & help him grow. Its sooo spiritual. His mars in my 12th feels intrusive too. Like he's always prying. He says I clam up when he wants to talk about "feelings." But I gush it all out anyway. There's a certain level of comfort there & we're very much a homey & private couple.

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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 05, 2011 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Your Mars falls in someone’s 12th house

lighting up the darknessThe positive is that you can help the 12th house person get to know himself better. You can encourage the 12th house person to open up about secrets, share sorrows, and help this person release internal grief and trauma. You may find a shared interest in spiritual activities. The 12th house person can help you learn to relax and let go of the need to be doing things. You may find your actions becoming increasingly spiritually-oriented and you may find yourself acting more strongly from a place of inner knowing."

"Someone whose Mars fell in my 12th house liked me but I never believed him because he was so brutally honest with me. Also, his wanting to constantly analyze my private thoughts became intrusive. I couldn't hide from him the way I was used to hiding from others. Even when I'd be thinking something, he would text me responding to my thoughts. :-/"

Damn, I feel that's so true. I have the weirdest psychic insights into this person, too. Like I can literally hear them phantomly speaking in my head and then when I say them out loud I get a horrified look in return.

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posted June 06, 2011 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Wow Ami! You really hit it on the nail. His mars is in my 12th and my venus is in his 12th. I always think that my love for him is indescribable. I always equated it with a mother's love...I just want to nurture him & help him grow. Its sooo spiritual. His mars in my 12th feels intrusive too. Like he's always prying. He says I clam up when he wants to talk about "feelings." But I gush it all out anyway. There's a certain level of comfort there & we're very much a homey & private couple.

Hi Cappy
I KNOW.I am embarrassed to SAY it cuz it sounds so silly lol
The closest thing to it was my love for my baby .
I had so many things in this synastry which were intense so it is hard to know which was which.
Moon/Pluto ,Nessus/Deja are very intense too so it is hard to say .

However,when I think of it,I think one can describe the 12th house as KNOWING the person in a pure way to their soul.
You have a laser like knowing of the deepest parts of them, an intimacy which is so beyond physical or mental.
It is soul intimacy.

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 06, 2011 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It just feels strange equating my love for him as a mother's love because of the sexual undertones I feel for him. Like I was wrong about thinking that it was similiar but no matter how many times I mulled it over, that is what I came up with. it's something so purely natural and biological.

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posted June 06, 2011 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you ever breast fed a baby,that is the ultimate in love.
It makes me cry to think of it.
Moon/Pluto love is the closest male/female love to this.

However,12th house is more of a SEEING that person without his defenses.

He is stripped naked and in that way he is like your baby cuz your baby is naked to you.

I think the 12th house is different than Moon/Pluto in that with the 12th house you KNOW them as you know your baby.
It is more of a spiritual and soul knowing than a visceral/emotional feeling.

With Moon /Pluto,you FEEL them as you feel your baby,perhaps.

With this person,no matter what he did to me,I could never hurt him.
I KNEW him ,the inside him the inside angst.
How could I add more pain to that?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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posted June 06, 2011 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i agree ami anne. my moon trines his pluto and his moon sextiles my pluto.

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posted June 06, 2011 10:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for phoenity     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have an exact sun/moon conjunction in pisces, my 12th house sun, and her 4th house moon.

I feel I've known her all my life, that she knows me completely, even the first day we met. It is a very deep soul connection, the most amazing thing that has ever happened to either of us.

She has always felt close like family to me, and that bond grows stronger, or perhaps becomes more apparent, as we do come together as a family.

I feel like this is the woman I have always been waiting to meet, we were always meant to be together.

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posted June 06, 2011 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
i agree ami anne. my moon trines his pluto and his moon sextiles my pluto.

YES Cappy
I had a DW Moon/Pluto,too lol

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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posted June 06, 2011 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
not to mention DW saturn ties- my venus trine his saturn and his venus oppose my saturn and his moon trine my saturn. strange ties that scare the life out of me but enthrall nonetheless...lol. guess I am a glutton for punishment.

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posted June 06, 2011 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
not to mention DW saturn ties- my venus trine his saturn and his venus oppose my saturn and his moon trine my saturn. strange ties that scare the life out of me but enthrall nonetheless...lol. guess I am a glutton for punishment.


We had Saturn trine Saturn .His Mars was an exact conjunction to my Saturn,too.

Do you have Nessus /Deja with him Cappy?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 06, 2011 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
his dejanira trine my moon opposing my saturn. his nessus trines my venus. my dejanira conjunct his sun and my nessus opposite his NN.

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posted June 06, 2011 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
his dejanira trine my moon opposing my saturn. his nessus trines my venus. my dejanira conjunct his sun and my nessus opposite his NN.

How exact is each one Cappy. They only work when 2 degrees or less,imo.

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 06, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dejanira trine moon is 1d orb.
dejanira opposing saturn is 4d
nessus trine venus is 4d also.

my aspects of dejanira and nessus to his points are wider orbs. its actually my dejanira to his moon not his sun. his dajanira is sextile my dejanira by 1d.

his osiris is conjunct my juno & his isis is conjunct my NN all less than 1d..if that matters...lol

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