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Topic: Neptunians! First house and attraction
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Still_Hopeful
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posted June 07, 2011 09:55 AM
  
Hi Guys,
I think I finally understood why I am ALWAYS attarcted to Sags.
It is NEPTUNE.
My Neptune is in the first House. My First House is in Sag.
Almost all of my previous rel. were with Sags.
Even though I was trying to avoid Sags somehow I ALWAYS endeded up with one.
Don't get me wrong, I like this sign, apparently  So I came to conclusion that it is my darn 1st house which is in Sag and Sag neptune played an important role in my attraction to Sag. Does anybody have the same exp. ?
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 07, 2011 01:57 PM
The exact same, even.I also always find myself attracted to Sagittarius suns. But I think it has more to do with my desire to find a partner who has a lot in common with me, and with a Sag rising and Mercury, Uranus, Venus and Neptune in Sagittarius you can already imagine I have more Sagittarius interests (and - good or bad - qualities) and thus simply get on better with Sagittarian men  Hence, I always find myself falling for men who also have a lot in Sagittarius. More often than not they're Sagittarius sun. ------------------
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snarly
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 07, 2011 02:06 PM
My first house is sag, and my neptune is in sag, but just in my 12th house. I did go out with a sag years ago, but he just drove me crazy, and not in a good way, lol! So maybe with my neptune being 'hidden' where it is, I just don't go for them that much? (aha - or maybe I'm just kidding myself?) Still, I do love sags generally - just love their energy!IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
Knowflake Posts: 734
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posted June 07, 2011 02:14 PM
... Let's start a self-help-group of Sag-lovers ------------------
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Still_Hopeful
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posted June 07, 2011 02:25 PM
ahhh.... not alone. Sag is a great sun sign. But they drive me crazy like no other sign.
My marriage to Sag ended years ago.
My ex fiancé was Sag
and the father of my baby is Sag. and my Little one is Sag Acs.
In the beginning I loved their spirit (little bit childish) than the same quality drove me crazy
I found sags (men in particular) somewhat shallow and not particularly deep.
But the beginning everything was in rose colored tones (Neptune).
I think my Neptune in first house played enormous role in my attraction and then downfall of the relationships. Example: when I was with my exes, I somehow put them on Pedestal but times passed and I saw real them. And Of course they fall from it. And let me tell you it is not easy to fall from pedestal, especially to male egos. And then hell would break loose.
Now I am wiser.... so Neptune will never cover my eyes anymore.
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Still_Hopeful
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posted June 07, 2011 02:30 PM
" Let's start a self-help-group of Sag-lovers "yes... sign me in
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CosmicKarma360
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 07, 2011 02:54 PM
Hi There,Yup! Hate to admit it, but I'm addicted to Sag, too. Although I have DSC in Scorpio, my 7th stretches into the first part of Sag (sorry, still new to astrology, and don't know what it is exactly when the house has two signs in it). Anyway, I have Neptune in Scorpio in the 7th, and Juno in Sag in the 7th. Yes, Sag is so much fun in the beginning, but once they start to get a little bored, the fun and games end WAY fast. What used to be cute, innocent teasing becomes more and more vicious, and they can absolutely drive you up the wall! Thing is, they seem to *like* to do that so much. Ugh! Maddening. IP: Logged |
lechien
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From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 07, 2011 05:46 PM
not for me, at least romantically. i do have a preference for Sagittarius for friends though. the moment i find out someone's Sagittarius, i'm already planning to be best friends. i do seem to know more Sagis than other signs too. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 11010
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 07, 2011 06:55 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Hi Guys,
I think I finally understood why I am ALWAYS attarcted to Sags.
It is NEPTUNE.
My Neptune is in the first House. My First House is in Sag.
Almost all of my previous rel. were with Sags.
Even though I was trying to avoid Sags somehow I ALWAYS endeded up with one.
Don't get me wrong, I like this sign, apparently So I came to conclusion that it is my darn 1st house which is in Sag and Sag neptune played an important role in my attraction to Sag. Does anybody have the same exp. ?
What is your theory ?Is it that you are attracted to your first house OR where your Neptune is? ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 07, 2011 06:56 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Hi Guys,
I think I finally understood why I am ALWAYS attarcted to Sags.
It is NEPTUNE.
My Neptune is in the first House. My First House is in Sag.
Almost all of my previous rel. were with Sags.
Even though I was trying to avoid Sags somehow I ALWAYS endeded up with one.
Don't get me wrong, I like this sign, apparently So I came to conclusion that it is my darn 1st house which is in Sag and Sag neptune played an important role in my attraction to Sag. Does anybody have the same exp. ?
What is your theory ?Is it that you are attracted to your first house OR where your Neptune is? ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Aya_and_baby
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 07, 2011 07:01 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What is your theory ?Is it that you are attracted to your first house OR where your Neptune is?
IMHO it's the first house... but strangely enouogh, as it suits a Sag venus, I already have a different theory, which consists of aspects to the planets in the 1st house! ------------------
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Still_Hopeful
Knowflake Posts: 221
From: USA
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posted June 08, 2011 09:02 AM
Ami, I think it is both. First house and NEPTUNE.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 08, 2011 09:08 AM
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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Ami, I think it is both. First house and NEPTUNE.
Ok Please go on and say WHY one would be attracted to the Neptune.
I get the sense of it but if you could describe it more, I would love hear more details.
Also, why would one be attracted to one's first house sign ? ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
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Still_Hopeful
Knowflake Posts: 221
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted June 08, 2011 09:50 AM
Amy,
Well....Usually it starts them liking me. Guys make the first move. I follow.
But I would not follow if I initially do not like them.1st house represent "self", right?. and My self is in Sag. So there is an initial attraction from a get go. Plus my Neptune is in 1st house (widely conj my ACS) so I tend to idolize them. It is true when I start any kind of rel. I can not see clearly. It usually takes several months to see their true self. And ONLY then I can make informed decision if rel is going someplace or it is me "PROJECTING".
With my ex-husband. My rose colored period lasted for years! I idolized him. I trusted him more than myself (Plus I married very young so it did not help as well). After several years of marriage I "grew up". And well ... my marriage collapsed. He could not handle that I have my own opinions and I started to question him.
Do not get me wrong. I still think he is a good guy. But he simply could not handle falling down from a pedestal. Well.. Make the story short. I tend to attract and be attracted to Sag. Plus I can not see them for who they really are (due to Neptune in 1st and in Sag).
With age, I become wiser, and I usually give myself some time to decide if I want to be with a person or not (several months).
Some guys think I am afraid of commitment. Well it is not true. I guess I am afraid to commit to a "wrong" for me person.
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Still_Hopeful
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posted June 08, 2011 09:53 AM
and why someone would be attracted to neptune?
But who would not? Everybody wants to see themself as much better person. (smarter, more attractive, just more....)I think it is more true when it concerns guys. Neptune can Inflate MALE EGOS. Also, Their Sun feels at home with My first House.There is some kind of familiriality going on both ways.
Ex-Fience told me once.
"You do not judge, I feel I can express myself easily with you, and somehow, I do not feel a need to appologize" Ami, I am not sure if it is my first house giving this impression, or my Sun and Venus (both in Aqua)
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