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Topic: Anyway to get this virgo man to forgive?
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ladybates
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posted June 08, 2011 12:54 AM
  
Anyone have any insights on virgo men here? I have read that they are ones to just walk away and never come back once they have been done wrong. I certainly feel his mars in cancer very strongly, me being mostly fire, I don't really get this mars. We have both done things to hurt each other, but I do love and care about this person. Usually, I just keep contacting him, and he caves in, but this time seems different. Maybe this is a lost cause  Here is his chart, any insights on how he would handle anger, and how one would go about in winning him back? Is plenty of space and time away the answer? 
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starcrossedleo
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posted June 08, 2011 08:54 PM
Do you experience have the mars square pluto aspect in this way? (my daughter has this aspect and it is very difficult for me to deal with-she is a teen and I am hoping she outgrows it) Mars square Pluto
You have a tendency to impose your will upon others, which can cause severe problems for yourself when they react in self-defense. You have a hair-trigger temper and may even resort to verbal or physical abuse when upset. Learning to react to unpleasant circumstances with your intellect rather than your emotions comes with maturity.
I didn't really answer your question about how to deal with this but this might give you some additional insight
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ladybates
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posted June 09, 2011 07:19 PM
Oh yes I have experienced that. Unfortunately I think the moon conjunct pluto has more of a punch. Since its in Libra, he likes to spout off at the mouth when mad, but seems to go back on what he says. Or, he is just very wishy-washy with his emotions. Funny thing is that he blocked me from facebook a month ago after a big blow out. We reconnected a couple of weeks ago and everything seemed fine. Well it wasnt fine, there were still many issues to resolve but the point was that we were still in contact. Then he goes away for a week on vacation with his family, and magically he turned on me once again with the same problems that caused our first huge blow up. He told me that in order for me to get over him he has to be a a-hole (awesome logic there..). So, we haven't talked for a week, and magically he unblocks me from facebook. Huh?? We still aren't friends, but I just don't see the point in that unless he is thinking about trying to contact me again. It's like we have a love hate relationship. I suppose that his mercury in my 12th doesn't help with the whole communication thing. But it seems that he has horrible communication skills with every girl, not just me. Maybe I am stupid for wanting things to be okay between us. He is the first guy that I loved, so its been a tough time for me at least. I don't think the feeling was mutual on his end.IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic
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posted June 09, 2011 07:23 PM
You'll know which way it's going to go when saturn goes across that moon, pluto and north node over the next 3/4 months but the saturn transit across the moon is usually a time of emotional "neglect" in some way or another. IP: Logged |
ladybates
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posted June 09, 2011 08:16 PM
dysfunctionalmystic:
So are you saying that we probably shouldn't talk for 3-4 months? Because, even if we did, that Saturn going over his moon is going to make him emotionally void anyways? God bless saturn, I am going through my saturn return, and absolutely loved it when saturn went retro right over my own saturn again. This more recent outburst all started on the eclipse, so I think its best not to talk anyways until that super emotional lunar eclipse gets out of the way. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted June 10, 2011 12:13 AM
The full moon eclipse of June 15 will be happening along his ascendant/descendant axis. So there will be changes in his relationships. Not sure this is something you can control one way or the other as eclipses are unpredictables. IP: Logged |
Lindaland
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