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Topic: What kind of a person is this Picses man?
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Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 08, 2011 10:09 AM
Could someone please tell me what kind of a guy this pisces is please? I don't know his time of birth so Rising sign is unknown and Moon is either Taurus or Gemini but I'm new at this stuff and have no idea..... Rest of his chart; Pisces Sun Taurus or Gemini moon Aqua Mercury Aqua Venus Gemini Mars Aries Jupiter Cancer Saturn Scorpio Uranus Sagittarius Neptune Libra PlutoMany thanks!! IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 08, 2011 03:06 PM
Oopz the chart of someone I know very well .. let me guess, 7 (maybe 8) march 1976??ps; it can't be the 8th! No Taurus-Moon then.. IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 08, 2011 03:30 PM
:O why yes! How scary.... hope we're not talking about the same guy Please tell me, what is he like?! IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 08, 2011 06:21 PM
Lol yea I knew it.. well, maybe you can read back the horrible stories I wrote about him here .. but no, it's not all doom en gloom ofcourse otherwise I wasn't still with him.What's he like?.. hmm.. let me think and find the right words... (keep in mind; this isn't my mother language so I feel a bit handicapped in what I REALLY want to say) Let's start with this; He's the most HONEST and sensitive guy I ever knew.. let's say; the honesty is dripping from his face, not able to lie to the ones close to him. A true asc. Leo at first sight and so with a very prominent/visible Pisces Sun (as that's his Chartruler) if there's more than a first impression.. Hm.. what a pity that you haven't got a birth time! IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 09, 2011 03:11 AM
yes, such a shame I don't have a birth time. What is your 1st language? I wouldn't have even noticed if you hadn't have said anything. What sign are you? What would you say are his fall backs, (emotionally, as a partner)and what are the best things about him?I really appreciate this btw PS - so your guy has a Gemini moon? IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 09, 2011 10:34 AM
Lol yea I realy like this too! A rare thing to find someone like this .. and who knows how many synchronicities we'll have in front of us He has a (late) Taurus-Moon and if I didn't know his birth time I would be stuck in exactly the same position as yours right now; Taurus/Gem?? Well you know.. in a way you HAVE to be strong to keep him because he will never come after you if there are, for ex., real problems between the two of you (the only possibility; he will call you as if nothing ever happened), or let's say 'chase' you.. he has really too much 'pride' and as I'm pretty instinctive myself and haven't got that pride (at least compared to him) it's always *ME* who's truly keeping us together. (my Mars on his Venus can play a role here) The essence behind it is that he terribly needs it to feel truly needed, I would say to an almost caricatural degree! Play-the-strong-woman and he will reject you or play the same game with you as long as he thinks he can get something out of you (if you like numb and superficial interaction) .. we all have our weaknesses and he's also not ashamed/afraid at all to express his so why would he be content with something less than real? Well, as long as there's nothing more real available... ok. With his ex he hated it that she had been trying to change him & his way of life and because she had nothing but contempt for it she treated him as if he was a psychopath/slacker/good-for-nothing - games games games... for what? only sex finally, that's what kept them alive for so long. Leo-Sun in the 12th here. time for a break! I just read your 'General rant' thread.. do you really wish to go on here... I can understand if it's too much right now.
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Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 09, 2011 01:39 PM
Wow that's really interesting, thanks. I think what's getting me down is that he, as you say, seems be sometimes very honest about his emotions and says almost 'too much' (more than I would ever say) but then I won't hear from him for a day and he'll send me a message but it won't be as 'emotional' as the one before... I guess I just cannot figure out why sometimes he seems really interested and sometimes he doesn't. I did wonder if it was a pride thing, but I thought well if it is pride, then that kind of contradicts the fact that he doesn't seems to let pride get in the way at other times. What I'm trying to say is I don't know whether or not to play it 'cool' or to initiate meetings myself? I don't want to seem too availble if that will put him off... I hate all this analysing business, it's too intense! IS he the type who would get scared off by me revealing my emotions? I don't know how to play this!Ps - I speak another language too - where are you from? IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 09, 2011 06:47 PM
I know exactly what you mean.. and it took me 16 months (that's how long we're together now) to get a little bit used to it! For a long time I couldn't accept the emotional changes, this day like that and the next .. recently I thought, well why not just give him that space, to withdraw himself from the cruel outer world into his own weed-world those moments without me? He may be emotionally unavailable these moments but the next day he's there in perfect state! I came to the conclusion (it took a long time yes, to TRUST - Scorp-Moon here!) that it's best for me also to let him just-be... need my space also. I'm from Amsterdam, you know .. that place where it's tolerated to smoke marijuana and hashish Later.. IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 09, 2011 06:55 PM
Thanks Our 'relationship' is complicated. In the beginning it was based on sexual attraction and that was the only thing we wanted from each other. But after spending some time with him and millions of emails (that's how we communicated most often) I've started to get to 'like' him... I'm a scorpio moon too Yep the trust thing is hard! Using my intuition, I'd say as a gut feeling, that he really likes me, and as I say sometimes this is backed up by things he writes (although never bluntly), but at other times, the messages seem 'empty'. I just wish I had concreate evidence about how he feels.... Couple of questions; Is he likey to say how much he likes me if he's not sure how much I like him 1st?In what way is he most likely to express his like for me? ie, verbally, phsyically, with gestures? Thanks again!! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 349 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted June 09, 2011 11:00 PM
It seems he will be kinda wishy washy, detached and not too emotional (aqua), and the gem aspects suggests flightiness, need for stimulation and cheating tendencies =/ as well as dishonesty.IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 10, 2011 03:09 AM
Thanks mintgirl Mir, would you agree? Is his Aqua Venus a good match for my Gemini venus? IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 10, 2011 09:09 AM
Well yes, I would totally agree with the detached and not-too-emotional part of the Aqua-influence! BUT.... the cheating part, NO! I really can't agree with that .. ok yes, they can be very easy regarding sexual matters if it comes to sleeping-with-someone-they-don't-love... purely to have sexual fun, but cheating their girl das kommt really nicht in frage Okay, I will add --> as long as their girl is not cheating on THEM! (12 years ago he did this as his g-f cheated first on him, that's why I'm saying it) Apart from that, they can't reconcile it to their conscience if they would break an existing trust just like-that! Too much aware of what they can lose.. and.. that's a LOT! That's EVERYTHING! Btw, to me there's almost nothing more important than physical faithfulness and at our start we both got tested on STD's & AIDS. So... It would be a CRIME!Aqua-Venus with Gem-Venus.. hm.. I think it's the best you can have, better than my Cancer-Venus .. although I admit that three of his g-f's before me had a Cancer-venus in the first 7 a 8 degrees of that sign while I have it in the very last minutes of it. I think it has something to do with his Taurus-Moon (mutual reception) or maybe Saturn-Cancer. I know he had a very (the most!) sexual relationship with a girl who had her Pisces-Mars exactly on his Sun and her Gem-Venus exactly on his Mars (unbelievable when I saw it!). It must have been really too much for both of them! He even told me he felt used by her .. (yes, even a guy can feel like that) A break... IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 10, 2011 03:21 PM
Thanks As I say, our relationship is mainly based on sex. I do think I can handle a 'sex only' relationship but me being me, I need a little more than that to keep me interested - I need a bit of flattery and to see a little bit of feeling from him, because I need to know he respects me at the very least. Sometimes I wonder! He can be so 'cool'... My questions are (and this may sound funny...but in a sexual based relationship one does wonder....); How can I tell if he respects me - how would he react if he didn't respect me? Secondly, if you had to pick one thing I could do that would make him respect me, what would it be? Thanks IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 10, 2011 05:22 PM
You know.. when we *found* each other there was one big thing we had in common. We both were TOTALLY DONE with all the 'half-heartedness' or 'indecision' we experienced in earlier 'relationships'. We both wanted something REAL.. ALL-INCLUSIVE! So if he's on that line and longing for something real or all-inclusive and you are truly-not, then I think there's a problem and then I think you will not truly reach him or reach each other. That's what I'm thinking now.... IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 29 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 11, 2011 04:16 AM
I understand what you're saying. I'm pretty sure he's just in it for sex too, which is fine, but I can't carry it on without knowing that he respects me. I'm so fed up with trying to analyse this! I think I'm going to just leave him alone and wait for him to contact me. I seem to be the one holding us together so I'm going to see if he contacts me. I think it's the only way... I could do without feeling like this but the sex is AMAZING - maybe even the best I've had so I don't want to loose that!! I'm not a floozy though........honest IP: Logged |