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Topic: Please help ! Cancer guy with venus in virgo !
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Radar10 Newflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 08, 2011 09:34 PM
Okay, so I'm a cancer woman who's venus is in leo. Im desperately seeking advice about my cancer guy. Well first off he's a cancer sun, venus in virgo, mars in capricorn, moon in aquarius and I know his eros is in aquarius as well. From the time we both met (which was about a month and half ago) we hit it off right away, but he was totally shy. Me being a cancer female, I don't know why but Im not your typical shy cancer when it comes to approaching men but it when it comes to showing my feelings I'm very shy. Now things have been going good but he is seriously so hard to read. I really like him a lot and all last week I wanted to hang out with him but he was busy like every time I wanted to hang out & I kinda felt like he was just ignoring the fact on seeing me. He noticed that this week my mood was totally different towards him and he got the picture that I was upset. So I told him I was, and he explained to me not to take things so personal and that he was honestly busy and not paying much attention to his phone. He really went out of his way to make me feel better with his words. But still I really don't know how he feels about me. We hung out before and had great times, but talking to him today he said that he's defensive with his feelings and it takes a lot for him to open up which sometimes costs him. Im open with my feelings even tho I am a cancer but I won't be completely open until I feel he can be open with me. I typically make the first move and I'm very flirty with him. Although sometimes I don't think he knows how to handle it because he's not as flirty back. I feel like I've given him enough signals that I like him. I know he likes me but I need him to express it more, its just so hard with him to tell what he really wants from me. I don't want to ask because its still so early on and I don't want to scare him away. I just really wanna know why cancer guys are so shy, and if his venus in virgo has anything to do with it ? What should I do to get him to open up to me more, or is there nothing I can do ? IP: Logged |
seeleah Knowflake Posts: 430 From: kokomo, IN, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 08, 2011 10:33 PM
well my guy is a cancer man with a mars virgo and a 5th house aqua...simular in someways ot your guy but different for sure. I totally understand how you feel! LOL. I myself went through the same emotions. My question is..what are your mercuries doing? I would think that has alot to do with it.
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Radar10 Newflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 08, 2011 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by seeleah: well my guy is a cancer man with a mars virgo and a 5th house aqua...simular in someways ot your guy but different for sure. I totally understand how you feel! LOL. I myself went through the same emotions. My question is..what are your mercuries doing? I would think that has alot to do with it.
How do I find our mercuries ?
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