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Topic: Capricorn Influence - Wasting Time?
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 11, 2011 09:20 PM
If you have Capricorn in your chart..1. Have you ever broken up with someone, because you felt you were expanding too much energy and wasting time with/on them? 2. Looking back on your past relationships - Is this the main reason or the *only* reason you break up with people? 3. Have you ever walked out on someone who was otherwise cute/flirty and obviously willing to date you -- because their conversation with you felt like a waste of your time? I don't want to sound like.. well, like a cow.. lol
But - I really don't want to sit there and talk about whether or not I'm "h0rny" or "how h0rny" I am... or "how h0rny" he is... for the next 3 hours. Some guys ask really stupid questions.. and they are followed up by more stupid questions.. It just goes on and on. And then it really feels like -- I mean I could be doing ANYTHING right now.. Why would I be here? I always catch myself saying - "This person is such a waste of time". I don't say it out loud.. because I have Pisces Mercury. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 11, 2011 09:24 PM
It's not always romantic either.There's a girl I know for instance - who will start chatting away whenever she sees me about the most meaningless things you can imagine.. like "This one time.. I was out and I realised my nail polish didn't match my bag.. and then my bf was checking out another girl and OMG.. I'm so sure that was why... I'll be so careful now with my nail polish.. What colours do you prefer" Like - for the Love of GOD! Is this generally a Capricorn pet peeve? IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 826 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 11, 2011 09:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: It's not always romantic either.There's a girl I know for instance - who will start chatting away whenever she sees me about the most meaningless things you can imagine.. like "This one time.. I was out and I realised my nail polish didn't match my bag.. and then my bf was checking out another girl and OMG.. I'm so sure that was why... I'll be so careful now with my nail polish.. What colours do you prefer" Like - for the Love of GOD! Is this generally a Capricorn pet peeve?
lol I know a Cap Sun who talks about anything and everything, little itty bitty nothingness! Literally about things like what she talked about on her way to the car while walking with someone, how fast she was walking and what she was thinking while walking. Then about her outfits she wants to wear and her thought process in which she figured it out. Whether she should close a window! OMG drives me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!! but she does have a Gem ASCBut yeah, I got mars/venus in cap I hate waste. I don't notice it with people since I think my Scorpio moon already makes me particular about the people I'm with, so maybe I don't even get to the waste stage lol IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3019 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2011 11:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: It's not always romantic either.There's a girl I know for instance - who will start chatting away whenever she sees me about the most meaningless things you can imagine.. like "This one time.. I was out and I realised my nail polish didn't match my bag.. and then my bf was checking out another girl and OMG.. I'm so sure that was why... I'll be so careful now with my nail polish.. What colours do you prefer" Like - for the Love of GOD! Is this generally a Capricorn pet peeve?
You sound like you're channelling my Cappy sister. She's too polite to say anything to anyone other than immediate family, though - like you. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4179 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 12, 2011 04:52 AM
Have to say I was laughing your entire post.1) Yes! Please contribute to my life in some way as I am contributing to yours, and if not, please lord god let me leave. Some of them stand in the doorway when they don't want you to go, omg, get out! 2) Nope. The only reason I break up with people is because the communication breaks down somewhere and I am the only one left wanting to repair the line. They won't dump me, they just carry on like everything's peaches and cream and nothing is wrong. ::shoots self:: 3) This one's the weirdest Q...gotta have a think..yes I do believe I have. The stupid questions you're talking about, that's sort of weird from a stranger, and kind of disrespectful imo, I cut that in the bud, no sir. Talk nice or go home. Sometimes I'll screw with their mind if they say weird things, tho. Something like if they want to keep talking to me, they have to give me a dollar for every word they say, and I'll start counting out loud each word they utter and not listen, then when they pause say something like '126$ ok, pay up or go home.' then they say something like 'no you only got to 20' then you gotta get even weirder and say '106$ is the standard penalty tax for ending in an even number.' I could go on like that for a long time. 'i added 53$ because your shoe laces are black and it's a wednesday, bad combo.' If they opt to pay, say that 20$ has to be in pennies, and the rest has to be quarters stolen from wishing wells. Or that you only have sex wearing your Easter bunny costume so the most they can expect is rubbing up against some fake fur. Something weird like that usually throws em off balance and they get how strange they're acting. You just have to make sure that you keep saying weirder and weirder things and that snaps em out of it, except for the special cases, there's no hope for them. But sometimes I just walk away, it depends on my mood. "There's a girl I know for instance - who will start chatting away whenever she sees me about the most meaningless things you can imagine.. like "This one time.. I was out and I realised my nail polish didn't match my bag.. and then my bf was checking out another girl and OMG.. I'm so sure that was why... I'll be so careful now with my nail polish.. What colours do you prefer"" ---I would get sarcastic (cos that's my charm), 'You are so lucky that your polish wasn't red and your bag wasn't green, because, OMG, that means he will cheat on you with 8 different women before he dumps you, that is the WORST combination.' but i'd laugh when I said it cos the poor thing prob really does believe that on some level it matters if her polish matches her bag. I'm not incredibly polite IP: Logged |
Heartless Newflake Posts: 11 From: formerly 'Herz_...' Registered: May 2011
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posted June 12, 2011 08:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: If you have Capricorn in your chart..
yes to all 3 questions! being an introvert wasting my time is a big no no. however, i do try and try if one is worth it. and then having Aries merc everyone receives a (hard) sudden blow to the head, no exceptions.
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annaf Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 12, 2011 09:09 AM
I'm very capricornian, three personal planets in capricorn in the 7th house, plus saturn in the 1st and no I've never broken up with anyone/walked out on any relationship because I considered them time wasters. Reason being, I'm extremely selective before I even get in a relationship or real friendship, so if I get to the point of really letting someone in, there's little chance I will suddenly discover s.th. about their personality that screams 'time waster'. IP: Logged |
Chaos Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Serbia Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 12, 2011 09:23 AM
Now, I'm often horny, but talking about it for 3 hours, without actually doing anything about it, ****** me off greatly... IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2300 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 12, 2011 09:47 AM
1. This scenario would probably apply to a Gemini I was 'talking to' from 3 years back. It was more of getting too invested in what was a dead-end lifestyle and not getting much in return. Other than that, its always the case of 'ships passing in the night' for me. Ugh.2. When I feel like things are going nowhere, I start to withdraw. Is that the same? 3. Maybe its my air singleton Venus or maybe I only attract interesting guys--->> I've rarely ever had a conversation with a guy that was a waste of time. If that happened, I probably found some excuse to extricate myself from the scene..LOL. Oh wait, there was the time when I met a guy who liked my friend, and all he wanted to talk about was how hot my friend was. I wasn't jealous at all (guy was not even my type) but you can imagine that was about as interesting as drying paint. Definitely a waste of time. Cap ASC and Neptune...that is all.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 11590 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 12, 2011 09:50 AM
sorry answered the wrong thread IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2486 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 12, 2011 11:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: It's not always romantic either.There's a girl I know for instance - who will start chatting away whenever she sees me about the most meaningless things you can imagine.. like "This one time.. I was out and I realised my nail polish didn't match my bag.. and then my bf was checking out another girl and OMG.. I'm so sure that was why... I'll be so careful now with my nail polish.. What colours do you prefer" Like - for the Love of GOD! Is this generally a Capricorn pet peeve?
I dont have any Cap and I get like this.. I would have choked this girl! lol
Or I would have told her, no honey its your shoes!!! lololololololol Cap rules my 11th/ Saturn in H3... so small talk doesnt interst me at all.. Say something real or get on!
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Jounia Knowflake Posts: 47 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted June 13, 2011 11:24 AM
Hi there, I have a capricorn rising and I haven't broken up with anyone for those reasons.... but I can tell you that if someone bores my conversationally, then they are out!! I have this constant craving for conversation that is either flattering or intriguing to me. IP: Logged |