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posted June 13, 2011 01:08 PM            

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I always fall in "love" with people(actually it's just obsession, lol) and I lose interest in them quickly, like in a few months.

Does Venus in Gemini make me feel that way?

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posted June 13, 2011 01:10 PM            

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Ironically, I attracted a Venus in Gemini male.

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posted June 13, 2011 01:22 PM            

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Hi, venus in gem here, I'm quite the opposite!! but then I have a clingy Cancer sun...

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posted June 13, 2011 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
Hi, Gem in venus here, I'm quite the opposite!! but then I have a clingy Cancer sun...

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I'm more astrologically the opposite: Sagittarius venus

I find I "fall in love" quite easily, too, and often (few exceptions noted and to some people well known) fall out of it quite easily too!

It does sound like a typical trait for mutable Venus people, but in particular I find it's something typical to the more outwardly Gemini/Sagittarius axis. Air is flighty and gets over things quite easily, and fire just moves forward (oh how I wish that would be the case for me now! *sigh* ), whereas earth is quite stable and certain and water more clingy. Mutable or not.

I also assume that both mutable air and mutable fire also more easily let go of things than other air or fire signs.

So yeah, I'm going to go and say it's definitely Venus in Gemini doing this to you.

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posted June 13, 2011 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I always fall in "love" with people(actually it's just obsession, lol) and I lose interest in them quickly, like in a few months.

Does Venus in Gemini make me feel that way?

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venus in Gemini..same case here. i quickly lose interest and when i meet them m totally obsessed, but after a while i "start seeing the truth". but in last few years i have learnt to stop and think before falling for anyone, this is why m single for last 1.5yrs you desperately need to control yourself otherwise you will end up alone and depressed

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posted June 13, 2011 01:33 PM            

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I just want to add after thinking about the way I am... Although I do not fall out of love quickly, I do get bored easily and constantly need to feel excited or to find something new to explore sexually.

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posted June 13, 2011 02:18 PM            

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This isn't so much how I am now as I was in say...Middle School, but even in the present I surprise myself how easily I can pick up and move on from a disastrous association. When I broke up with my ex, I didn't think I'd get over since it was my longest relationship to date, but I already out and doing my own thing a month later, and by Spring he wasn't really an issue anymore. When things get beyond salvageable, its easy for me to completely detach and take a hike.

But besides maybe a celebrity or two, I don't fall into crush or love with actual 'humans' that easily...haha. My Venus is unaspected and its dispositor (ruler) mercury is in Cancer, along with my Sun, DC, and Chiron. And I have that pesky 8th house Moon that keeps things from being completely light.

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posted June 14, 2011 12:32 AM            

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It was quite the opposite for me when I was still single... I was always in love w one person and for a verrrry long time. Must be my Cancer sun/Libra moon... interestingly enough my soulmate is a Cancer sun, Leo moon, Gemini Venus. I guess our "twin" Venuses keep each other amused enough.

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posted June 14, 2011 12:39 AM            

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No one really "falls in love". You are just very sexually interested in a person and his personality are merely symptoms. You like the chase, or like to be hunted and once the game is over then so the relationship.

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posted June 14, 2011 08:10 AM            

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I am Venus in Gemini and I am SO loyal.
Once someone has my heart,they have it.
I will forge the proverbial canyon, ride the rapids, climb the mountain for those I love.
It it doesn't work out,My Venus in Gemini will help me walk away but I am the consummate loyal friend.

Moon and Mars in Cancer
Scorpio ASC
Pluto conjunct the MC

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posted June 14, 2011 11:26 PM            

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But Ami, isn't your venus in the 8th house? That might make it alil more loyal than normal venus in gems.

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