posted June 19, 2011 11:52 AM            

2) I think it's a gift to be able to analyze your emotions and figure out the root of your feelings (I've said this in another post). If you can figure out exactly why you feel a certain way, you can take steps to fix it. You can also, then, see it more objectively. Like, for instance, if an ex of mine is seeing a new girl, I don't automatically hate the girl. Why? It doesn't make any sense. It's good because then I don't waste time being jealous/hateful towards someone who doesn't deserve it.

posted July 18, 2021 05:10 AM            

Please let us think logically.

Aquarius is the opposite of Leo. Leo is the heart of the zodiac. Leo is personal greatness, the light in the dark, the best friends, the best lovers, the best partners. People with honor, Word and loyalty.

Aquarius is the opposite. If Leo is greatness and personal value. Aquarius is mediocrity, and devaluation of life and living beings.
Aquarius are the typical charmers, who from behind are Satan. Much worse than Capricorn, who at least Capricorn has some values.

Do not be delusional and run away from the Aquarians. And from anyone who has personal aspects to Uranus. They are monsters, don't find out too late.

I do not understand why having honest and sincere signs (Aries and Leo), reliable and lasting signs (Taurus and Capricorn), and signs that love with the soul (Cancer and Scorpio), and universal signs, that That while they are not reliable, at least they are not psychopaths (Sagittarius, Virgo, Pisces), you strive to have something to do with Aquarius.

You have to flee from the Air signs, not let them enter your world. Gemini is the most innocent, and Libra is the most helpful, Aquarius is the great psychopath, but still I would not trust any of the 3.

posted July 23, 2021 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
each person is unique. You can't group all of a certain sign into one category and say that they are this. It doesn't work that way.

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Right. There are certain basic factors that do seem unilateral between them but these extreme povs that people have like above this response, are biased and based upon 1:1 interactions. Every sign is raw. Each person has a wheel of ingredients that differ from another. It's unreasonable to completely cookie cutter each sign. Labeling them bad based on our bad ref points. Even in these instances, some transits can bring unordinary behavior from almost anyone. As well as we mature, hopefully we do, our progress chart grows with us. It is radical to base
assumptions that someone is awful because they have a particular sign/aspect ect. We have free will. We have an inner navigation (hopefully).

No two individual Aquarian energies will behave just the same way. To add I have read by professional astrologers that the 11th sign is the most unique to it's self. As in pinning them - you can't, they differ vastly as a group from one another most of the time. Whereas the other 11signs each has a more clear cut formula. The study of astrology was not intended to be *so rigid* - that's what religion is for.

posted July 24, 2021 11:41 AM            

This OP was not made at the peak of her knowledge so yes it has some stereotypes and she later learned to have more nuances as she evolved. I do agree with a lot of what she says about Aquarius.

posted July 24, 2021 02:17 PM            

I do think that sometimes being jealous and threatened are different, but then sometimes I think these two emotions can work closely together.

I’m not too close with Aquarius placement. Everyone I know with Aquarius placements also have Scorpio somewhere. Isn’t that another sign that does not like being exposed for jealousy?

I have Aquarius Mars, 11th house Sun, and Aquarius N. Node and MC.
I’m at place where I remind myself it’s human to be jealous. I try to keep mine in check, because I know how it feels to have other people be aggressive towards me for shinning,succeeding, seeming confident.
And that for some reason triggers people, and it’s not fair and not right. But it is part of being a human. When I catch myself doing this, I tell myself don’t be a child throwing a fit, talking shhhhh, and go out of my way to put that person as down as I am feeling. No one looks good when they act out on jealousy like that. And it’s so illogical to think if they are doing good then I am doing bad.
And this just shows distrust for the universe to serve up your blessings.

My biggest trigger is when people get a house and they make less than me, and have debts.
I would never lash out on them. But husband hears me complain like “how come THEY get to have a house!” I know that’s mean and messed up. And the real issue is not them, it’s my husband never feeling ready and resisting change and how it impacts me.

I put my foot down in March for moving. We have a condo now, so I’m a bit more secure.

I also caught myself bad mouthing a girl I didn’t even know. After I got off the phone I was like WTF was that? Why did I act like that?
Wanna know why?
Because I liked being pretty much the only girl around. This really can be a thing! One of husbands friends got a girlfriend. Once I became self aware I was like “ohh that is not a good look!” Don’t be like that chick you met one time, that was so upset that I was hanging out with her guy group too! And would diss me for things that the guys in the group were doing too.

posted August 05, 2021 01:55 PM            

If he can tell I'm attracted to a celebrity, and then he will start to rip on them. This is kind of messed up, but since I know that's the reason he is ripping on them, it just amuses me. Probably because my husband is so earth then air in his chart...he doesn't have much of that "passion" energy in his chart.

Like when Rob Lowe is on TV, husband will say that he is trying to hard to look young and that he just looks like a taxidermy human!!

I also have a celeb crush on a more background guy on a comedian youtube live talk show. Husband thought it was the main guy I was into. He started to say "why are you watching this show? You're not even laughing. He can't make you laugh the way I make you laugh."
That was so wtf for me where I can't tell if my husband is joking or being serious or both. I just started cracking up and saying wtf?

But I think he eventually figured it out that I liked the more background guy. He still talks on the show and shows his face. Husband must of saw my face and the show zoomed in on the guy's face. Well husband walks in from of the TV and stared this guy on TV like "you wanna go?" BUSTED, but I thought it was funny.

I also don't believe in making partners jealous on purpose. I do not like that myself. I can tell, and it's really annoying.

There was only one time he ripped on an acquaintance. Maybe husband just didn't trust him or something. To be fair it's pretty easy to do. They guy did not have a job, was super into spirituality, subculture like. Very different from husband. But I was still friendly with the guy and got along with him.

Sometimes husband acts jealous of his younger cousins. Because husbands mom was hard ass...and did not like to just hand things to husband. But she took it so far to get cousins Christmas presents she knew husband wanted, and not him. So I can see where the triggering comes from.

posted August 05, 2021 02:30 PM            

At the end of the day though as a man acting off my Aquarius tendencies don't fulfill my spiritual progression, and I know that deep down I am satisfied when I give in to my intuition entirely. Pisces Sun in 4th house, so anything Cancer usually is good for my soul in the long run, as opposed to pleasing my insecurities for short term gain. Kurt Cobain and me are very much alike in nature. I am the kind of guy that will let anything slide just for a chance for positive revolution, this only happens when I listen to my higher calling and humble myself to exhaustion. I can only get ahead if I truly, truly stay in flow with the Pisces currents.....which is what being a Pisces is all about.