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posted June 14, 2011 04:12 AM            

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So I'm a cancer female with my venus in leo. About a week ago I went out with a guy friend of mine who I went to high school with out to the bar for drinks. Right on the spot I met a guy at the bar who I was totally drawn to. We both locked eyes the whole night, I could tell off the bat he was shy so I made the first move and we exchanged numbers ( in a friendly not flirty way ) as well as my guy friend I came to the bar with 2. We actually all went out to eat at late night spot after the bar. The next night we all hung out again, and had a great time. After the bar I went back to my aqua's guys house watched movies and we shared a few kisses. He was already telling me how much he liked me and we honestly had so much in common. Then the next day he texts me and saying he just wants to take it slow and be friends because he feels like the guy friend I came with to the bar kinda likes me and he didn't want to step on anyones toes. I told him that even if he did like my guy friend who I came to the bar with knows that I don't like him like that and me and him havent even been friends that long so I didnt understand why he would take that chance on not getting to know me anymore because of one guy he hardly knew. So that day on I was hurt and upset but I got over it and we stopped talking completely. Then yesterday he messaged me saying that my guy friend texted him and told him it was cool that we talked, which my guy friend said to me he never texted him that. But now the Aqua guy wants to talk to me again. I just dont understand it. And I don't know what to do cause hes saying now that he wants to be more then friends instead of just friends. N now I'm just lost and confused !

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posted June 14, 2011 12:41 PM            

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He doesnt want to step on toes, he said it himself. But now he knows youre not with anyone so he feels free to pursue a romantic relationship with you. Easy.

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posted June 15, 2011 06:50 PM            

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i'm an aqua with my venus in pisces.
take aquarius' love for humanity, equality, freedom, and whatnot and combine it with pisces dream-like love for animals, nature, people, love, and compassion. We care about everything A LOT, probably too much sometimes. We would never ever want to hurt someone intentionally, so when he saw that that guy liked you, he didn't want to be the jerk that hurt him. Even if he went ahead and went for you because that's what he wanted, he'd still feel guilty for going ahead when he knew that the other guy had feelings for you. Honestly if he was like me he probably apologized to ants for stepping on them when he was younger. hahaha kidding...but you know....not.
that's my take on it, but i could always be wrong. what's his mars?

that's what i see, and how do you know your friend didn't lie to you about texting him about it. man code perhaps?

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posted June 16, 2011 11:29 AM            

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I'm also a cancer with venus in leo; female.

I had a best friend who was an aqua with venus in pisces. We would have a blast in person at school, always joking and high energy together. But she lived far away, so when I graduated, we only talked on the phone. She was very honest, but she stopped talking to me because she says "I talk too much about serious things." Superficial.....

I think you're asking this question because that was a pussy move on his part, right? Really? He didnt want to pursue you because some other guy might like you? Whoa, what a turn-off. What does he care if another guy likes you, too bad, you obviously chose him. I think that would make me insecure, too, like it would seem like he didn't like me enough.

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