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Topic: How do you get an aries excited for a future meeting?
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carl Knowflake Posts: 606 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2011 03:51 PM
Like, if you are meeting up in two months, what do you say to make them start feeling excited now?"I'm gonna whoop your butt at basketball" or something? what would you say? IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Moderator Posts: 457 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2011 04:22 PM
They can't be much of an aries if they planned a meet up 2 months in advance...I wouldn't worry. IP: Logged |
insideintrovert Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted June 14, 2011 04:32 PM
Aries lives in the moment and tomorrow is way too far away. But rest assured when the date moves closer - like the next day - there will be some excitement.How do I know? I am one. IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2011 04:35 PM
"I am the best/most handsome/coolest guy in the world, and I will make you feel like a queen when we meet up" (You surely need to impress her with something cause 2 months are veeeery long time for an Aries) IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1146 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2011 11:29 PM
Oh No ^That's so yuuuucky. It's really yuuuuucky when they blow their own horn. I have an actual physical reaction where I feel like my skin is crawling. - Just giving a second opinion here lol I'm also Aries Sun.
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1146 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2011 11:30 PM
But actually Carl... quote: "I'm gonna whoop your butt at basketball"
This could work for me. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 606 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2011 11:34 PM
But I wouldn't say it to you about any games cause it kinda goes without saying IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 364 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted June 14, 2011 11:37 PM
Dreamy_AriesGirl's suggestion is a BIG no. God. lol.I'm an aries rising and I would hate that. It would be a huge turn off. Play up the competitive side =). The basketball comment is good. It would get me revved up lol and I'd love a challenge IP: Logged |
ekf Knowflake Posts: 197 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 03:32 AM
to keep an aries interested for 2 months????tell them you can't make it and are going to have to cancel. ETA: sorry - should have added my qualifications: aries sun, aries moon, aries asc.
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 15, 2011 03:37 AM
that's really funny that you can even get us serious about something that is TWO freaking months away we are hardly serious about meetings until they are an hour awayIP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 15, 2011 03:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl: "I am the best/most handsome/coolest guy in the world, and I will make you feel like a queen when we meet up" (You surely need to impress her with something cause 2 months are veeeery long time for an Aries)
if a guy says this to me m gonna have second thoughts about seeing him at all, what kind of despo actually says that?? (just my Aries instincts said that, not me ) because we are not words-driven, words are just shallow to us, we are action-driven..for Aries its like "if you love me, prove it.. if you can't then please keep your poetry to yourself that is for sure not my thing"
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 15, 2011 03:41 AM
carltry to tell her that there is something "new" for her in this meeting,something that will take her away from her "routine life" for the whole day/evening and its sure going to be so "exciting" that she will remember it for rest of her life try to be somewhat "hinting" because these quoted ones are the key words that sure will get her tempted but in the end, dun disappoint her,make the evening up to the mark IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 324 From: US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 05:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by ekf: to keep an aries interested for 2 months????tell them you can't make it and are going to have to cancel. ETA: sorry - should have added my qualifications: aries sun, aries moon, aries asc.
Ha! That would totally work perfectly for me, as an Aries Venus in the 7th, the fire singleton in my chart. Everything else would honestly be blah, my own excitement (if I even had any to begin with) would definitely kick in two days before the meeting automatically. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1146 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 15, 2011 06:45 AM
I'm with - love being Aries quote: if a guy says this to me m gonna have second thoughts about seeing him at all,
I'm exactly the same ^ quote: if you can't then please keep your poetry to yourself that is for sure not my thing
I couldn't have said it better Although I do like men who peak my interest verbally (not only through actions).. but I don't like typical lovey-dovey things that sound like BS. About efk's quote -
quote: tell them you can't make it and are going to have to cancel.
Carl, I wouldn't feel excited by this, in this situation. I'd just be worried that you are not ok health wise and are cancelling for that reason. IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 470 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 09:39 AM
Lol at all the replies, I read your first post and I was like "2 months?? There's nothing you can say to get her excited" The girls are right, if she agreed to see you in two months, best to keep it casual and rev up the engines the week before. Don't play games and don't be overly romantic. Also, you could try the contagious excitement, saying "I'm so excited because...", but as I said, best to leave it for the week before. My qualifications (I loved this line ): Aries Sun, Venus and Mars. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 12:16 PM
If she's agreed to meet with you that far in advance, rather than a "let's see what happens" kind of thing, you don't have anything to worry about.I say, don't even bother revving up the excitement the week before, do it when she gets there. (Me: NO qualifications! Chiron in Aries, in love with an Aries.) IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3024 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 12:21 PM
Lucia. quote: we are action-driven..for Aries its like "if you love me, prove it.. if you can't then please keep your poetry to yourself that is for sure not my thing"
I do like the words - I like sweetness - but only backed up by action. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 606 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2011 07:53 PM
We will meet, but no planned date. But that is for sure according to her.I dunno - one idea: Whenever I would buy her gifts I would just tell her in a secretive tone "got you something" and she would cave very soon after and in a cute, playful tone be like "what is it? tell me now now now!!" So I think the "have something exciting" thing is a perfect way of going. IP: Logged |
4lifephrases Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 23, 2011 06:02 PM
Hi Guys ! Just thought I would put my 2 cents here. I had long distance relationship with Aries Sun , Cancer Moon Libra Asc..I would say there is more excitement in just knowing each other.We spent almost 6 months not seeing each other and wait to meet for those 2 weeks. We had met earlier so it was easier to talk about past,present and future? " I can't wait to see you." were ofcourse Aries words. Would tell me in detail what he would like to do.2 months foreplay, built it up until you meet her. Not all about just meeting, lot can be done on phone,internet. We would actually do quizzes, jigsaw puzzles even when we were online. Keep it fun. Throw lots of challenges. I guess it is easier for Scorpion by just adding hint of mystery.Keep in touch.Not in stalking, clingy way but around. Someone reliable. You can make an Aries excited about things you want to do together. IP: Logged |