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posted June 16, 2011 07:13 AM            

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Been on 6 dates with this man but he has not yet kissed me, he is very touchy feely though, introduces me to his friends and shows me pictures of his mother etc. I like him very much, but I am confused by his behavior, does he like me or not (could he be shy? or does he likes me and wants to take time to get to know me or is he just playing me?)

Should I wait and see what will happen or should I take the lead and make things move forward?

Here are both our charts, would really like to know if we are compatible please:

Mine: http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=Jackie&INPUT2=&MONTH=04&DAY=20&YEAR=1979&HOUR=1&MINUTE=00&M=PM&TOWN=Pretoria&COUNTRY=SAFR&STATE=&INPUT9=&Submit=Submit

His: http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=Thomas&INPUT2=&MONTH=06&DAY=01&YEAR=1970&HOUR=12&MINUTE=00&M=PM&TOWN=Stockholm&COUNTRY=SWED&STATE=&INPUT9=&Submit=Submit

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posted June 16, 2011 07:22 AM            

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I will look later.I had this happen to me ,once.
The man paid so much attention to me, took me on really nice dates but never kissed me.
After I broke up with him because of the strangeness of it, he told me why.
He was very,very afraid of rejection.

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posted June 16, 2011 07:39 AM            

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Just tell him you really enjoy spending time with him and that if he wanted to take it further you'd be happy with that....build him up a bit.

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posted June 21, 2011 11:23 AM            

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To Ami Anne, could you please have a look at charts? Many Thanks

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posted June 21, 2011 11:30 AM            

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THANK YOU for bumping.Please continue if I don't get back in a timely manner

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posted June 21, 2011 11:32 AM            

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I will be back a little later to look !

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posted June 21, 2011 11:55 AM            

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Thank you, I look forward to it!

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posted June 21, 2011 12:08 PM            

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It is against the law for women to kiss a bloke, this is why these women do not kiss a bloke, as the penalty for kissing a bloke means they are not a woman.

On one hand, you have compatible rising signs, on the other hand, I really hope he finds someone better. Someone who actually wants to, and will, kiss him.

Anything wrong with what I have written here?

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posted June 21, 2011 01:00 PM            

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Just try to hold a stare at some point. Look into his eyes. Maybe do a subtle eye raise, move in a little closer..see if he gets the hint.

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posted June 21, 2011 01:04 PM            

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I have to have my lesson so will be back later but so nice to see the men weighing in

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posted June 21, 2011 03:29 PM            

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Hmmm that old stare thing...had that going on with a guy a while back and it didn't work. We both had scorp ascendants and could hold it for ever and a day without either of us giving anything away lol add to that we both had venus con pluto.

You have all that fire...how come you haven't asked him where it's going already?

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posted June 21, 2011 04:24 PM            

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Darling
These charts are too hard for me to read.Check some of the other charts.If you want me to look change it up to one of those!

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posted June 21, 2011 07:26 PM            

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JustJack..

Does it genuinely matter whether he kisses you or not?

I don't see how this could be him 'playing' you. Why would you imagine this? Has he done anything else?

Maybe he's just taking his time. He has a lot of Taurus.
I don't think it's a big deal.

I think you should just go with it and see what happens, in time.

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posted June 21, 2011 07:57 PM            

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He's a venus in Cancer

haha nuff said.

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posted June 21, 2011 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
He's a venus in Cancer

haha nuff said.

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Explain .please
I have no experience with Venus in Cancer.IF it is like my Mars in Cancer--Gottcha

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posted June 21, 2011 08:22 PM            

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Could you put the synastry please? i would like to look at it since your question was about him liking you or not.

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posted June 21, 2011 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
He's a venus in Cancer

haha nuff said.

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being a venus cancer myself, i can tell you that when a cancer is interested, they pretend they are not. they wnat to be SURE before showing emotions.

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posted June 21, 2011 08:49 PM            

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Venus is the way you attract, what attracts you, and how you love.

I'm a venus in libra. So I like mental stimulation, wit, charm and romance and I also 'attract' by witty banter and being charming and accomodating?

Cancers in general are quite insecure (the whole hard shell, being soft inside) so venus in cancer does things kinda non head on... Kinda taking side steps (just like a mars in cancer) they can be romantic and soft and sweet, but they're not the type to pursue the way an aries in venus does =)

they're more scared of rejection, so it'll take time for them to really take that extra step.
Patience!

haha <3

I just checked your chart and his and haha he has a VIRGO rising (I'm a virgo sun and mars and my virgo aspects cause me to analyse situations and think further down the track before I jump straight in)

He has taurus planets... so it's the whole slow and steady does the trick. Taurus want to take their time, provide a solid foundation before they proceed ahead.

YOU on the other hand have all those aries planets hahaha (I'm an aries rising so I understand) you want him to kiss you NOW, cos that's what aries are like =)
Patience is what you need! He's quite earthy and you're quite fiery... he's gonna be more laid back and will go with the flow.

<3

His gem aspects will cause him to be hesitate too.

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posted June 22, 2011 06:33 AM            

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Thank you for all the comments :-)

Please understand that I have never been in this situation and have never dated a gemini either, never had the problem or so much time to even think about the first kiss... LOL In the past I have always rushed into things as we fiery arians do and have been badly hurt, so I guess I am a little afraid of rejection too (hence not made the first move yet), and the reason I have not yet moved on because I am not getting the result I want is because I am strangely, strongly and magnetically drawn to this man that is so mysterious and hard to figure out... So I guess I would like to know if we are compatible as I do not want to make the same mistakes as before and know that when I do kiss him the first opportunity that I get that maybe this could turn into a lasting relationship.

Here are our new natal charts and a synastry chart as requested, thanks :-)

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posted June 22, 2011 06:34 AM            

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His natal chart:

My natal chart:

Our synastry chart:

Thanks :-)

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posted June 22, 2011 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Could you put the synastry please? i would like to look at it since your question was about him liking you or not.

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I would really like to know what you see :-)

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