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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 26, 2011 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I made a post a few weeks back talking about how I'm dating out my generation for the first time, and the same went with this guy as well. Everything has been going beyond perfectly, and excuse me while I knock on wood for a second, lol, but here's the thing. We're both significant Plutos for the first time as a result. He's a super Sag in a lot of ways - Sun conjunct Neptune in Sag, with Mercury there too. He said he's never really been jealous in a relationship, and I thought that was pretty cool. However, I've noticed he's been extremely.. possessive over me in quiet way. I wondered why this was, and for some reason FAILED to notice that my Pluto was activating his stellium in Scorpio - his moon, venus and jupiter!

We've been dating for a month at this point, and it just feels.. really, really serious. While the Pluto is in what people would consider to be "loose" orbs, bear in mind a Scorpionic Pluto has never hit these significant planets for him in a romantic way before. My Pluto is conjunct his Jupiter by 4 degrees, Venus by 5 degrees, and his Moon by 8 degrees. He has a Scorpio Moon/Venus conjunction as it is.

I'm not sure what I'm asking for.. I guess what I want to know is, how do I make the best of this Pluto energy? God, it is ridiculously intense! Also, his Pluto is conjunct my Virgo ascendant by 1 orb as well. I'm kind of scared! Has anyone ever had a successful, Pluto-filled relationship before? How did you handle it? I want to be as graceful and even handed about it as possible. I'm not into unnecessary power plays to feed my ego.

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maira
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posted June 26, 2011 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you plutonic yourself? He might like the energy based on his chart.

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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 26, 2011 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only thing I have in Scorpio is my Pluto in the 2nd house (conjunct Black Moon Lilith by 1 degree if you want to count that), but one of the tightest orbs in my chart is my Aquarius moon square Pluto by 1 degree. I do think of myself as fairly Plutonic, I guess.. probably helps that my chart ruler is in the 8th house.

I like general light heartedness with depth in a man.. which is why I really like him! I just think there's something about me which makes him REALLY Scorpionic and that energy can borderline on overbearing, which is not something I'm used to.

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Betty Boop
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posted June 26, 2011 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm also involved outside my generation. My Pluto is exactly conjunct his Mars in Scorpio. I know it has more punch because we're not in the same generation (so he doesn't have the aspect in natal).

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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 28, 2011 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JohnFKennedy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think it tends to bind you two together in an interesting way, Betty? We also have a fairly loose Saturn/Sun conjunction (me being the Sun) and I think I recall you making a post saying that your most comfortable relationship also had Saturn ties?

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