posted July 01, 2011 08:27 PM            

sometimes when reading about this placement it seems like the description is always that they love the chace of a potential relationship. even when they aren`t looking for one at the present moment. do you find this to be true as well?

how would you initiate a relationship with someone you in fact did like? how would you approach them, what things would you want them too do to get your attention.what is your style of looks, sexual style and fetishes that you find pleasurable.

also what house is your venus in and what placements are they making?

posted July 01, 2011 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The conventional wisdom, Darling is that the woman with Venus in Aries are big chasers.
The men with it NEED to be chased

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posted July 01, 2011 09:19 PM            

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i think alot of men with venus in aries love being the chasers and women with it love being chased

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I don't. I agree with Ami.

In total.. I am trying to count.. I've known at least 8 people with this Venus who pop into mind, but I am positive there are others.
And they fit that pattern.

This is an impatient placement. The women with this placement cannot wait 2 seconds, for anyone to even have the time to consider pursuing them.
The men with this placement are just as impatient, except - for some reason their 'style' is more so to try and seduce.. and get the girl to chase them (they are very transparent though). Basically, it seems men with Venus in Aries strongly (VERY strongly) sexually desire a woman with aries qualities.. and so they do everything in their power to attract such a woman (who chases them and is very assertive/aggressive) OR .. if they happen to attract a girl who is more passive -- they will do their best to instigate and bring this behaviour *out* in her.
If they truly cannot, they will get annoyed/frustrated.. and eventually give up (but they won't be happy about it). The Venus in Aries guy does not like it when you are not the way he wants you to be (i.e. aggressive) and he *will* hurt you - to make sure you are aware of his disapproval... because after all.. if Mr. Aries Venus is turned on by aggression.. well you bloody well *should* be aggressive -- since as we all know, the world revolves around what he wants and what feels *best* for him.

(On a side note.. This insane impatience is enough to drive a taurus ven/cappy mars like myself *nuts* - even though my sun is Aries)

posted July 01, 2011 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I don't. I agree with Ami.

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posted July 01, 2011 09:28 PM            

I'm sure out of the 6/7 billion people on the planet - there are exceptions (as is always the case with astrology).

posted July 01, 2011 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I don't. I agree with Ami.

In total.. I am trying to count.. I've known at least 8 people with this Venus who pop into mind, but I am positive there are others.
And they fit that pattern.

This is an impatient placement. The women with this placement cannot wait 2 seconds, for anyone to even have the time to consider pursuing them.
The men with this placement are just as impatient, except - for some reason their 'style' is more so to try and seduce.. and get the girl to chase them (they are very transparent though).

(On a side note.. This insane impatience is enough to drive a taurus ven/cappy mars like myself *nuts* - even though my sun is Aries)

This behaviour only changes when they have Mars in Aries as well.. in which case it takes over. If this is your guy/girl - then read the Aries Mars interp. (rather than Venus) for romantic behaviour.

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know that i read your post you do have a point most women with this placement do seem to have the chase them attitude. i mean for example elizabeth taylor and marilyn monroe. they have had many husbands. i must of been blind to not see this.

thanks betty i dont know why but for some reason i always thought of men with this placement as the go getters but maybe thats mars in aries.

posted July 01, 2011 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
is this a perpetually single placement? coz my cousin and i have been trying to marry of our mothers with no success.

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posted July 01, 2011 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Had one personal experience with a Venus in Aries guy. Just as Betty Boop said. He was WAY aggressive about chasing me. Literally, around the building. When I backed down and wouldn't play the game, he was mad, and I could tell. From what I've been told, he has a "thing" for Aries in general. Lots of Aries friends, and seems to like women who have a good dose of aggressive in them. For the record, I'm Aries Sun & Mars.

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posted July 01, 2011 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by DepTaurus:
i dont know sand but i have this and ive been single for a longggg time i never had a relationship actually.

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posted July 01, 2011 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Yeah, they got married about a year and a half later, and were divorced two years after that. Too much rushing with the relationships seems to be a pattern with him. Falls hard and fast.

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posted July 01, 2011 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i would've thought they'd have more relationships but in shorter duration. all of my uncles/ aunts on one side have this.

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posted July 02, 2011 03:37 AM            

Gemini is more androgynous. Taurus and Pisces are very feminine.

I could definitely say that a man with an Aries Sun will not behave the way I described.. (regardless of anything else in his chart).

With Aquarius - I wouldn't be as sure... But I guess there would be a desire to chase, considering how masculine Aqua is... - because it's an air sign and it's ruled by a masculine planet and it's also fixed (so they know what they want and they can get fixated on it.. unlike mutables)

So maybe it's an exception. I don't think I've known any Aquarius men with Aries Venus - only girls.
So I'm not sure.

posted July 02, 2011 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Hey!
Out of all the Sun Signs who can have this Venus.. the most masculine are Aries and Aquarius.

Gemini is more androgynous. Taurus and Pisces are very feminine.

I could definitely say that a man with an Aries Sun will not behave the way I described.. (regardless of anything else in his chart).

With Aquarius - I wouldn't be as sure... But I guess there would be a desire to chase, considering how masculine Aqua is... - because it's an air sign and it's ruled by a masculine planet and it's also fixed (so they know what they want and they can get fixated on it.. unlike mutables)

So maybe it's an exception. I don't think I've known any Aquarius men with Aries Venus - only girls.
So I'm not sure.

But I'm pretty sure about Gemini-Taurus-Pisces.

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Betty, my Pisces guy with Venus in Aries was very, very masculine.

posted July 02, 2011 02:57 PM            

It was sweet.

Come to think of it, she also had mercury in aries as well. Plus leo rising. It was a real energetic affair as we quickly chased each other, lots of neat youthful energy.

posted July 02, 2011 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
Venus in Aries wants to be chased. They like to play hard to get so the person keeps pursuing them. The like someone honest and forthright and someone with lots of confidence.

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