posted July 07, 2011 08:25 PM            

I feel a huge connection with this guy I started dating and looking at our Synastry I can see why. But even though we have great aspects we also have really bad ones some astrologers call the "heart-break" aspects. So if we were to have a serious relationship how exactly would it play out?

Soulmate:

Sun sextile Sun (exact)
his Sun opposites my Ascendant (1 deg)
his Sun conjuncts my Vertex (3 degs)
his Sun is in my 7th house
his Moon is in my 1st house
his Juno trines my Moon (1 deg)
his Juno sextiles my Jupiter (2 degs)
his Zeus trines my Hera (1 deg)

Heart-break:

his Venus squares my Saturn (1 deg)
his Saturn inconjuncts my Moon (1 deg)
his Saturn squares my Uranus? (2 degs)
his Saturn squares my North Node (2 degs)
his Saturn conjuncts my South Node (2 degs)
-depends on his birthtime- his Moon squares my Uranus (?)

posted July 07, 2011 08:32 PM            

You may wanna rethink this one, it can't be both.

posted July 07, 2011 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
"his Saturn squares my North Node (2 degs)
his Saturn conjuncts my South Node (2 degs)"

You may wanna rethink this one, it can't be both.

Saturn/Venus doesn't have to be 'bad', it could point to initial shyness with the end result being a responsibility toward the partner and fidelity.

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posted July 07, 2011 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by feitlebaum:
My boyfriend and I pretty much have Saturn aspects on every planet. We do have double whammy Venus sq Saturn... though for the 6 months we've dated, I haven't felt it yet.

perhaps you need to wait. We have a lot of bad aspects and they haven't played out yet, to my knowledge.

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posted July 08, 2011 02:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Sounds like double heavy, both Saturns tied to the nodal axis. Saturn is the planet of karma. You as Saturn conj his SN shows you may have been a father or a mentor to him in a past life (depending on other aspects). This can point to him relying on you and depending on you for guidance in his life, you may or may not feel burdened by this. His Saturn squaring your NN points to you looking at how he structures his life and you take lessons from it, it may not fit with EXACTLY where you would like to be, but he teaches you alternate ways to tackle responsibilities and to mature as a person. On the negative there can be some criticism back and forth with this one, he may feel unsure being Saturn squaring you NN, that he does not know where he fits in, in your life, there could be an awkwardness attached. These are only 2 aspects in the chart, there are others that may or may not hold more weight, emphasize or de-emphasize these pts.

BTW I love the electric attraction here with the Sun opp Asc, and so close. Who was interested in who first, etc. as I like hearing about this aspect? Thanks.

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posted July 08, 2011 03:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
hey lonke,
i don't post much but i love reading your responses.
i think i speak on behalf of most/everyone here when i say glad to have you back

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