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Dinobleue9
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posted July 09, 2011 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dinobleue9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Getting a Scorpio in bed is the easy part...getting to know one, however, is much harder. There are a few things I'm beginning to suspect, please let me know if they are true or not.

If they want to sleep with you, they'll pursue you- after they've circled you like a predator first, and decided to pounce!

If you want to begin a relationship though, they want YOU to come to THEM.

I feel like the keywords to pursuing a Scorpio are: patience, persistence, honesty, and mystery.

The Scorpio I'm after right now will barely instigate the conversations, however once I've reached out to him, he's totally open and will talk for hours. I was afraid that I was coming on too strong, not being mysterious enough, not playing it cool enough, yet I feel like he likes it this way. He wants to know I want him. And I feel like he would show if he wasn't interested by not even reciprocating the conversation and opening up with me.

Do Scorpios appreciate you not playing these petty little games with them? Do they like to have the ball in their court? Do they want to know that you're seriously interested in them by your show of patience and persistence??

Discuss.

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AstrologicalMan
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posted July 09, 2011 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AstrologicalMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dinobleue9:
Getting a Scorpio in bed is the easy part...getting to know one, however, is much harder. There are a few things I'm beginning to suspect, please let me know if they are true or not.

If they want to sleep with you, they'll pursue you- after they've circled you like a predator first, and decided to pounce!

If you want to begin a relationship though, they want YOU to come to THEM.

I feel like the keywords to pursuing a Scorpio are: patience, persistence, honesty, and mystery.

The Scorpio I'm after right now will barely instigate the conversations, however once I've reached out to him, he's totally open and will talk for hours. I was afraid that I was coming on too strong, not being mysterious enough, not playing it cool enough, yet I feel like he likes it this way. He wants to know I want him. And I feel like he would show if he wasn't interested by not even reciprocating the conversation and opening up with me.

Do Scorpios appreciate you not playing these petty little games with them? Do they like to have the ball in their court? Do they want to know that you're seriously interested in them by your show of patience and persistence??

Discuss.


Aren't all guys easy to get into bed? I mean, you're a chick, dude.

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posted July 09, 2011 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hm....I feel like you might be overanalyzing actually.
It's easy to know if a Scorpio is into you...he will stare at you. I mean, when I want someone to want me, I seduce them with my eyes. It works every time. But that's a universal trick. I noticed Taurus and Leo do this too.
However you will have to look at other placements to find out whether or not he's opening up. I know lots of Scorpios who are very open. The Moon sign is where you should look for this and the Asc.

Also, regarding relationships, I don't think Scorpios want you to come to them. Perhaps they want to get to know you very well before they jump into a relationship (depending on the level of maturity of this person). Scorpios are a bit of control freaks and emotional to wait. If they want a relationship, they'll hint at it for sure.

Scorpio or not, please be yourself...Don't try to be somebody you're not. No need to "be" mysterious on purpose. They will appreciate this.

Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer

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posted July 09, 2011 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i agree with what true taurus said about being yourself...as a scorpio sun, that is one thing i cant stress any more...scorpio will know if you are not being the real you

personally, i like some games, but if i'm looking for a relationship, after a while the games will get boring and i'll want the relationship to go ahead and start

i'm also not much of a talker...if you ask me to tell you about myself i'll ask "what do you want to know?" you'v got to ask me specific questions (might have something to do with my blunt sag mercury). however, i also have gem asc so i'll talk and talk about everything else thats not about other things, and occasionally think of something to say about myself...but with my strong scorpio influence i'm not talkative everyday...its actually rare for me to be so talkative

i'm also always looking for someone to love (leo moon) i love being in love

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posted July 09, 2011 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
Hm....I feel like you might be overanalyzing actually.
It's easy to know if a Scorpio is into you...he will stare at you. I mean, when I want someone to want me, I seduce them with my eyes. It works every time. But that's a universal trick. I noticed Taurus and Leo do this too.
However you will have to look at other placements to find out whether or not he's opening up. I know lots of Scorpios who are very open. The Moon sign is where you should look for this and the Asc.

Also, regarding relationships, I don't think Scorpios want you to come to them. Perhaps they want to get to know you very well before they jump into a relationship (depending on the level of maturity of this person). Scorpios are a bit of control freaks and emotional to wait. If they want a relationship, they'll hint at it for sure.

Scorpio or not, please be yourself...Don't try to be somebody you're not. No need to "be" mysterious on purpose. They will appreciate this.

Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer


I casually dated one Scorpio.. He has a Scorpio Stellium...
Which squared my LEO Stellium..

He did stare at me a lot, and he made a point to talk to me.... I didnt want to go there with him.. Dont get me wrong when I first met him, I said to my self OO boy.. Something is going to happen with me and him.. There was an immediate attraction.
So I made a point to avoid him.. I didnt want to give in.


HE would ask me for my number and I would pretend I didnt hear him, or say something like hahah why you wanna mess with me for.. I would take him asking for my number as a joke.. ( I knew he was serious, but because of other reasons, I didnt want to go out with him)
He would show up at my hang outs, sit next to me.. blah blah..
We started having really nice conversions. Then one day he saw me by myself, and he walked right up to me and said...

Im really attracted to you, We are both going through a separation,Im not looking for a relationship... How about you giving me your number so I can call you, and take you out..

I really liked that.. It was straight forward to the point, AND he complimented ME!! lol... I gave my number!

We casually dated for about 2 months.
In the long run, I found him boring.. He just didnt have that mojo thing going on..

Then it just sort of fizzled out.. No biggie... Then later we had some drama, and I changed my number, so he couldnt call me..

I still see him at parties, he stares at me.. He watches me like a freakin hawk. My friends tell me, how he stares at me..

I actually ran into him about 3 weeks ago.. I admit I had a buz going.. I ended up at his house, BUT I ended up falling asleep on his couch when he went to the rest room.. BEFORE ANYHING happen! phewwwwwww....

When I woke up he was laying next to me on the couch... I freaked out and I ran out the door w/o saying anything.. I havent seen him since... No way am I calling him, and he doesnt have my number, so he cant call me...

There is a big party next weekend, I know for sure he will be there... sighhhh.. Im going to have to face him... I dont think he will say anything to me.. He will just stare me down... Im going to do everything I can to avoid him..

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CrazyAquarian
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posted July 09, 2011 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrazyAquarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never push to get to know them. The only way to is to let them do it on their own time if they feel they can trust you.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 09, 2011 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NickiG:
i agree with what true taurus said about being yourself...as a scorpio sun, that is one thing i cant stress any more...scorpio will know if you are not being the real you

personally, i like some games, but if i'm looking for a relationship, after a while the games will get boring and i'll want the relationship to go ahead and start

i'm also not much of a talker...if you ask me to tell you about myself i'll ask "what do you want to know?" you'v got to ask me specific questions (might have something to do with my blunt sag mercury). however, i also have gem asc so i'll talk and talk about everything else thats not about other things, and occasionally think of something to say about myself...but with my strong scorpio influence i'm not talkative everyday...its actually rare for me to be so talkative

i'm also always looking for someone to love (leo moon) i love being in love


Not much of a talker

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Ami Anne
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posted July 09, 2011 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
Never push to get to know them. The only way to is to let them do it on their own time if they feel they can trust you.

I agree with this!

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NickiG
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posted July 09, 2011 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Not much of a talker


lol, oh come on, you well know that everytime we talk on the phone you talk more than me

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Ami Anne
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posted July 09, 2011 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
Aren't all guys easy to get into bed? I mean, you're a chick, dude.

What depth of analysis

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Dinobleue9
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posted July 09, 2011 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dinobleue9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In regards to being myself, I could never be anything else! I always say I am myself to the core. Aquarius Sun in the 8th. Strong personality. Our Moons are widely conjunct in Cancer and I have Cancer ASC he has Aqua ASC.

"Don't push to get to know them." OK. Perhaps I've been coming on too strong then. Aries Mars <--- *sigh*.

Lioness- Good Luck and Godspeed. Scorpios are like hurricanes! (to me at least)

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posted July 09, 2011 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy_AriesGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"And I feel like he would show if he wasn't interested by not even reciprocating the conversation and opening up with me."

Be careful with this, I thought the same, but it turned out to be not true in my experiences with Scorpio man. They only distanced themselves when it became very obvious that I was having more feelings for them than they had for me.

If he wants a relationship with you, he will tell and show it to you in a very obvious way, but if they dont, they might night be that obvious until it's not too dangerous for them. *Because if you turn out to be a trustworthy person in their eyes, they might enjoy your company or open up to you, even if they dont thinking about having a relationship with you. At leat thats my experience.

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posted July 09, 2011 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dinobleue9:
Getting a Scorpio in bed is the easy part...getting to know one, however, is much harder.

a. We are not all horndogs only focused on sex. But in the same sense, sex = human and animal nature. b. I am easy to get to know and so are some of my friends with the same sign. Very easy. Just ask. Perhaps your friend/lover/whatever he is has something going on well beyond the scope of simple sun sign astrology.

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Originally posted by Dinobleue9:

If you want to begin a relationship though, they want YOU to come to THEM.

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Not true at all. I like to go to a girl I like.
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Originally posted by Dinobleue9:
I feel like the keywords to pursuing a Scorpio are: patience, persistence, honesty, and mystery.

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Who does not like those qualities?

-Same goes for loyalty, passion, conviction, modesty, drive and ambition, independence, devotion.


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posted July 09, 2011 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabclaws     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My experience with a scorpio is very similar to the rest yalls.

But what I don't get is why you gotta be so darn quite.

I know your smart I know you have strong opinions about things.

So why don't you just open up a lilttle more.

I am not saying that you never talk but jeez when you call someone on the phone can you make some stupid thing up instead of just keeping quiet.

And could you call someone back if we don't call you at least to say hi and hang up so that we know your still alive.

I guess you just to concentrated on whats going on what your doing at that minute but man that does tick me off a bit.

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posted July 10, 2011 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dude you are talking to the wrong scorps, I can talk for hours.

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posted July 10, 2011 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 10, 2011 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crabclaws:
My experience with a scorpio is very similar to the rest yalls.

But what I don't get is why you gotta be so darn quite.

I know your smart I know you have strong opinions about things.

So why don't you just open up a lilttle more.

I am not saying that you never talk but jeez when you call someone on the phone can you make some stupid thing up instead of just keeping quiet.

And could you call someone back if we don't call you at least to say hi and hang up so that we know your still alive.

I guess you just to concentrated on whats going on what your doing at that minute but man that does tick me off a bit.



CRABCLAW!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dinobleue9
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posted July 10, 2011 04:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dinobleue9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you blugrey. I think that is sound advice!

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posted July 10, 2011 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabclaws     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dude you are talking to the wrong scorps, I can talk for hours.

yeah i know yall can talk foever about what happened to you that day with out missing a beat, but i guess it changes when your ta

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Benedict Moon*
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My Scorpio-Ex was an unabashed romantic with Moon in Pisces and Libra Venus. Of course he was also muy passive-aggressive too but that's a different story. Some of what you said applies, but alot of it doesn't. Mystery is overrated here, but authenticity is everything to them.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2011 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes,I agree. Do not be fake with a Scorpio--male or female.
They will forgive foibles but not fakeness lol

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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posted July 10, 2011 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by blugrey:
I think Scorpios like people who are 100% honest, open, and unguarded. They think people who don't mind showing their vulnerabilities are strong and secure with themselves. Scorpios like people who stand up for themselves and are not push overs - though they won't resist playing with those who are not.

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posted July 10, 2011 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabclaws     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:

CRABCLAW!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIONESS!!!!!!!!1

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Lioness
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posted July 10, 2011 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crabclaws:
LIONESS!!!!!!!!1

Hi dear how are u

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posted July 10, 2011 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends.

One of my best friends is a Scorp Sun, Moon, Mercury and Pluto. But her Venus is in Sag and her Mars is in Libra. She doesn't have the patience for games. They drive her nuts.

Most people will tell you that they don't like games, but others will say that but really get bored easily and prefer the chasing aspect of romance.

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Aren't all guys easy to get into bed? I mean, you're a chick, dude.

Not all guys think with their dicks. Aren't you supposedly celibate?

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What depth of analysis

lol Ami

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