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Topic: Venus in Aries and being chased.
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cupcakes
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 12, 2011 04:31 AM
  
I know two guys with Venus in Aries who really likes me, probably thanks to my bold personality. However, I'm usually the one being chased by them.I met another Venus in Aries guy. We have known of each other for a while now but this is the first night that I actually got to sit down and talk to him. We hit it off great with a lot of things to talk about and tons of common interests. He told our mutual friend that he thinks I'm cute and the feelings are mutual on my end. So my question is: How should I go about this? I keep reading on how this placement likes to be pursued but since it's usually the other way around, I'm not quite sure what to do. What are your experience with this placement? No birth time but here's the rest of his chart and our synastry: Sun Pisces
Moon Pisces
Mercury Aries
Venus Aries
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc nodeCapricorn
Sun Sextile Sun
Sun Trine Pluto
Mercury Square Mercury
Mercury Sextile Saturn
Venus Square Sun
Mars Opposition Venus
Jupiter Opposition Saturn
Saturn Conjunction Saturn
Uranus Conjunction Mercury
Uranus Trine Jupiter
Uranus Conjunction Uranus
Uranus Conjunction Neptune
Neptune Trine Jupiter
Neptune Conjunction Uranus
Neptune Conjunction Neptune
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
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Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 1264
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 12, 2011 04:56 AM
In the very initial stages like the first 2 dates or something - they might still initiate, but it tends to stop. With this particular guy.. being a Pisces - and also with a mutable Mars in Gemini. he is probably the type to be extra INTO someone one day.. and extra into another person the next day. So he might initiate with person 1... and then forget what happened and initiate with someone else. And then if no.1 does not chase - they don't end up together long term.. because he has no desire to have anything happen long term. So he might stop trying.
Based on his chart, I'd say you have to basically sit on him to make him commit to anything ----- But you never know. There are exceptions to everything. What he says and what he does can also be different things.. so if he says he is very dependable etc... wait and find out for yourself, don't just take his word for it. That being said - If you just want a fun fling.. He would be great for that! And he might pursue during that *short* time (before he loses attention and goes ADD on you) IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 1264
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 12, 2011 05:09 AM
Also - there can be a difference between what a person does and what they would *like* to do.My ex (first bf, first love, first time sex, first everything) was Pisces Sun/Moon - Aries Mercury and Venus - just like this guy.
He chased for a year (but he does have a fixed Mars in Taurus, which could be different and it was conjunct my Venus). Even though he chased, he didn't like it. He was very upset and angry with me because I was too passive for his liking..
He became very nasty towards me. It was almost like he wanted to 'make me' chase by being nasty... Like if he poked me with a stick enough times - I would be more aggressive.. (and it's not in me lol, because I have both Venus & Mars in earth.. so it was just tiring for both of us, ultimately). IP: Logged |
cupcakes
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 12, 2011 06:20 AM
Thanks Betty Boop, you've never fail to give me a great deal of insight. (: I can tell he's like what you describe, the ADD thing. From what I gathered in the old threads on here, the hardest thing to do with this placement is keeping their attention. It looks like it's going to be a Tug of War challenge between us two. My Sagittarius Venus does enjoy a good chase and being chased as well. Oi.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 14103
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 12, 2011 06:50 AM
I think it would take a particular woman to like an Aries Venus man.
I am not sure what type of woman, I just KNOW it is not me  ------------------
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