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Jounia
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posted July 16, 2011 06:27 PM
  
I'm so confused as to what this Pisces guy really feels about me. I'm posting his chart (mine is there too though) and my question is; How would you expect this pisces to act if he really likes someone...aloof? Shy? Straight to the point? Can you tell from that chart roughly what attracts him to a woman?
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Lonake
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posted July 16, 2011 06:33 PM
Yea, likely distant and aloof. He wants a good mental link with someone, she needs to have a stable background, good character, steady affections, she has to not be too mutable changing her mind all the time, that would be bad, he wants someone he can build a solid future with, she'd have to both stand out and also be traditionally feminine in a way, so it's sort of complicated on that front for him.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 16, 2011 06:37 PM
Thanks Lonake. So, even though he is acting distant and aloof becuase he likes me, I however shouldn't do the same? Should I carry on making the 1st move to contact him? Or would that suffocate him?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 16, 2011 06:49 PM
Be friendly. Ideally he'd see you being friendly to practically everyone, in his estimation. Don't come on strong cos he could get skittish. Cancer on the rise needs their time to get comfy around you (don't know how long you've been talking to him regularly, so this depends, he could already be comfy). Ideally you'd have common interests and that would be a good bridge to start with. And yes he may be likely to keep his cards to his chest. A good test for this one would be something like, needing help with something practical and seeing whether or not he shows up on time and sees it as something worth investing in/paying attention to, then his Capricorn Dsc would be coming into play and you could go from there. Just be friendly, play it by ear, he may 'play' all aloof but inside (his moon) it's not all fun and games, it's serious business, this is further shown by capricorn on his dsc, and the dsc ruler being Saturn in the 2nd. You could be bamboozled by this one, thinking you're getting someone light and chatty when inside they want to have a feeling of possession over those they love. He's certainly attractive with the Mars trine Venus, and Venus sextile Jupiter should help out, but Venus sq the Moon is what gives him the uncertainty over which female type to choose, so that could be hard for him.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 16, 2011 07:23 PM
That's exactly how he appears....light and chatty! Sometimes he's quite emotional and when we haven't talked for a while he'll say that he missed me terribly and pay me compliments, but then other times it's like he's not interested.... hence my confusion!!
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nordicsoul
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posted July 16, 2011 07:41 PM
who is inside?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 16, 2011 07:43 PM
He has the Merc/Venus in Aqua and they don't want to be backed into a corner that's not of their choosing, so just play it how you feel it, be honest but no stalking, don't try to take the relationship in a certain direction just let it unfold how it will, that is how Aquarius likes it.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 16, 2011 08:24 PM
Lonake, thanks I really appreciate this! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 16, 2011 08:26 PM
You're welcome, sweetie, I love hearing of new romances (or even romances in-the-works  ).IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 16, 2011 08:55 PM
I'm sure I'll be back for more advice IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 18, 2011 08:06 AM
and.....I'm back!I read this about Venus in Aqua;
It is often said that Aquarius is the sign of extreme aloofness, that despite the very outgoing, gregarious outer nature, these people can switch off from a relationship just like that, almost on a whim, as if the partner is of insignificance. This is not strictly true - yes, it is an Aqaurian trait but it all depends on the rest of the chart. Plenty of sentiment and warmth elsewhere in the chart will largely override this. My question is, are there other things in this Piscean's chart to override this? (newbie here) IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 19, 2011 01:36 AM
That is true Aqua Venus can switch off rather suddenly and you may think did he ever care if he can end it and just see you as a friend with no problems.Pisces and Cancer are 2 of the most sentimental signs, and they're in his Big 3 (sun moon asc) so there ya go. But it's up to him what road he'll take in relationships. Moon in Taurus is not sentimental exactly but it is solid and it sticks around once it makes the commitment that the person or thing is worth it. So you have those 3 working in your favor if we're gonna go along with that statement in the description you read IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 19, 2011 07:07 AM
 Lonake, thanks as you can probably see from my chart, my scorp moon loves to over-analyse things like this
I don't know if you can see this from our charts or not but this guy intrigues me so much - I think it's because I cannot simply 'work my magic' and have him hooked...it seems to take a bit more than that. Sometimes I think he's hooked, then others I think he's forgotten about me. He's playing with my mind I'll crack him though...thanks to your advice IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 24, 2011 04:27 AM
He likes me he revealed all IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 24, 2011 04:46 AM
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AstrologicalMan
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posted July 24, 2011 05:32 AM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
Lonake, thanks as you can probably see from my chart, my scorp moon loves to over-analyse things like this
I don't know if you can see this from our charts or not but this guy intrigues me so much - I think it's because I cannot simply 'work my magic' and have him hooked...it seems to take a bit more than that. Sometimes I think he's hooked, then others I think he's forgotten about me. He's playing with my mind I'll crack him though...thanks to your advice
So peoples emotions are a game to you? "work my magic and have him hooked"? "Ill crack him though". Be careful, one day you may meet your match. You may have had a rough past and so you play along like this is a game but it isn't. Stop toying with men. It is an insecurity. Open up and you may find love. You are better than this. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 24, 2011 06:56 AM
lighten up dude you don't know me IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 24, 2011 07:01 AM
PS - how have you reached the conclusion that I 'toy' with men? I didn't say I was playing. I really like this guy. Just because I know what I want and normally how to go about getting it, doesn't make me someone who 'toys' with men.....
And yes, I may have some insecurities...who doesn't? I'm not afraid to admit it Mr double Leo....IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted July 24, 2011 10:53 AM
He'll be straight forward. He has Mercury and Venus in Aqua... I can't tell what aspects he has though because this isn't a natal chart.My ex was a Pisces with Merc/Venus in Aqua and he was refreshingly straight forward... and then a little TOO straight forward later. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 24, 2011 10:56 AM
amowls - here is the natal chart - please reveal all  IP: Logged |
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