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posted July 18, 2011 01:01 PM            

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I am in a relationship for past 8 years,and although we love each other a lot, we have issues of power play control , insecurity and jealousy.I have been reading about lilith and would appreciate if anyone could throw some light on its influence in synatry,below are aspects from our synastry report.

Lilith square Moon 1 Cancer 9'23" 23 Virgo 38'29" 7.52

Lilith square Venus 1 Cancer 9'23" 6 Aries 46'58" 5.62

Lilith opposition Neptune 1 Cancer 9'23" 3 Capricorn 25'57" 2.27

Lilith trine Pluto 1 Cancer 9'23" 3 Scorpio 8'21" 1.98

Lilith sextile Lilith 1 Cancer 9'23" 26 Aries 31'33" 4.63

Lilith sextile Pholus 1 Cancer 9'23" 0 Taurus 33'58" 0.6

Lilith sextile Pallas 1 Cancer 9'23" 26 Aries 2'53" 5.12

Lilith square Juno 1 Cancer 9'23" 28 Virgo 11'42" 2.97

Lilith trine Vesta 1 Cancer 9'23" 25 Libra 41'34" 5.47

Pluto opposition Sun 8 Scorpio 36'31" 11 Taurus 0'52" 2.4

Pluto square Jupiter 8 Scorpio 36'31" 15 Aquarius 8'36" 6.53

Pluto sextile Neptune 8 Scorpio 36'31" 3 Capricorn 25'57" 5.18

Pluto conjunction Pluto 8 Scorpio 36'31" 3 Scorpio 8'21" 5.47

North Node conjunction Mercury 17 Aries 58'57" 14 Aries 16' 3" 3.7

North Node sextile Ceres 17 Aries 58'57" 13 Gemini 31' 6" 4.45

North Node opposition Vesta 17 Aries 58'57" 25 Libra 41'34" 7.72

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posted July 18, 2011 01:46 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted July 18, 2011 01:47 PM            

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Hi Devilsownchild

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted July 18, 2011 01:48 PM            

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You need Nessus and Dejanaria
Also.put in Child ,Pandora, Narcissus and Actor and see what comes up
List them here. Tell me which goes to which person ,too,please

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted July 18, 2011 03:52 PM            

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confused on how you posted that..the number after the planets and lilth are the degrees they are apart? perhaps if you posted a chart that would help.

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posted July 18, 2011 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by seeleah:
confused on how you posted that..the number after the planets and lilth are the degrees they are apart? perhaps if you posted a chart that would help.

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Hi Seeleah
How is the working girl coming

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted July 18, 2011 08:38 PM            

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oweing money to my pimp..I mean mortgage company...*snickers*

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posted July 18, 2011 09:43 PM            

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Wait, who is the Sun and who is the Pluto in the opposition? I'm guessing you're the younger one with the Pluto in Scorp?

That is the one in the list that raised my eyebrows. It can be incredibly unpleasant with the Pluto person wanting to throw the Sun person off balance. I suppose it could happen in reverse with the Sun person playing that role but not in my experience. Especially if the Pluto person is unfulfilled, they will take out their power trips on the Sun, and the Sun will likely retaliate and the whole thing could be a shadow of its former self. That one can get really ugly, really quickly. You have to check out the Pluto person's natal and see what's brewing in there.

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posted July 19, 2011 05:28 AM            

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Originally posted by devilsownchild_99:
I am in a relationship for past 8 years,and although we love each other a lot, we have issues of power play control , insecurity and jealousy.I have been reading about lilith and would appreciate if anyone could throw some light on its influence in synatry,below are aspects from our synastry report.

Lilith square Moon 1 Cancer 9'23" 23 Virgo 38'29" 7.52

Lilith square Venus 1 Cancer 9'23" 6 Aries 46'58" 5.62

Lilith opposition Neptune 1 Cancer 9'23" 3 Capricorn 25'57" 2.27

Lilith trine Pluto 1 Cancer 9'23" 3 Scorpio 8'21" 1.98

Lilith sextile Lilith 1 Cancer 9'23" 26 Aries 31'33" 4.63

Lilith sextile Pholus 1 Cancer 9'23" 0 Taurus 33'58" 0.6

Lilith sextile Pallas 1 Cancer 9'23" 26 Aries 2'53" 5.12

Lilith square Juno 1 Cancer 9'23" 28 Virgo 11'42" 2.97

Lilith trine Vesta 1 Cancer 9'23" 25 Libra 41'34" 5.47

Pluto opposition Sun 8 Scorpio 36'31" 11 Taurus 0'52" 2.4

Pluto square Jupiter 8 Scorpio 36'31" 15 Aquarius 8'36" 6.53

Pluto sextile Neptune 8 Scorpio 36'31" 3 Capricorn 25'57" 5.18

Pluto conjunction Pluto 8 Scorpio 36'31" 3 Scorpio 8'21" 5.47

North Node conjunction Mercury 17 Aries 58'57" 14 Aries 16' 3" 3.7

North Node sextile Ceres 17 Aries 58'57" 13 Gemini 31' 6" 4.45

North Node opposition Vesta 17 Aries 58'57" 25 Libra 41'34" 7.72

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You are both re acting your parental frustrations out on each other. You both want to use what you think is a dominant male or female energy to control. You must realize that you are both as powerful as each other. The conflict though can bring good sex. It is a matter of you wanting to serve the flesh or to take it higher.

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posted July 19, 2011 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by seeleah:
confused on how you posted that..the number after the planets and lilth are the degrees they are apart? perhaps if you posted a chart that would help.

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Thank You for looking at my chart..here is the link to our composite chart ...thanks..

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posted July 19, 2011 01:16 PM            

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posted July 19, 2011 01:17 PM            

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I say as Lonake pluto opp sun. My mother and I've pluto in square to sun in our synastry and my mother and I cant talk to each other in periods. We will after a while always take time out.

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posted July 19, 2011 01:32 PM            

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its true that we have difficulty communicating..straight faced..rather we can "feel" each others thoughts

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posted July 19, 2011 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by popcorn:
I say as Lonake pluto opp sun. My mother and I've pluto in square to sun in our synastry and my mother and I cant talk to each other in periods. We will after a while always take time out.

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It's funny, I can handle hard Moon/Pluto aspects no prob, but hard Sun/Pluto is just the worst when I'm the Sun. I like those whose Suns opp my Pluto but I think it's more tied to the fact that their Sun is conj my Mc.

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posted July 20, 2011 10:52 AM            

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Does having north node in aries in 7th house(composite chart) mean that real growth in life will come from a partnership/relationship?

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